I feel a bit sad at the level of "shock" in evidence. But I am a gay man in a relationship that has lasted 46 years based on love, trust and companionship. I also have the benefit of being in a country where gay marriage is lawful. Being gay is not a choice; but choosing to marry a female that I did not feel sexy about just to appease family, that would be a tragedy. It would be very unfair to the girl and would cause much misery. Governments should stop freaking out about love and should realise what benefits. For example, in China, maybe 130,000,000 gay persons would not enter into loveless marriages and would reduce surplus population by not producing children. Just relax, people, chill and be cool with each other. Love is all.
I am tri-culture engifted by my upgrowing period and enabled by various relationships realms based upon Malay, Chinese and Dutch cultivations and educations...what has been left-over is my individual stance with my own enliving path...detached from the lyrics of confucianism and religions..so already in homosexual relationship with my friend for 25 years
in my opinion there is no partiture in the song of confucianism and religions...
but there is a partiture for gay people and others than hetero peoples- in the daoism...
so saying this..daoism gives my individual stance as gay for bringing in my effort and being as I am along individual way as I am..without any compensations, commisions, and illussions for being playing another partiture..so enabling just playing my whole own GAY song!
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I have to say something about myself. Sometimes it is hard to introduce yourself because you know yourself so well that you do not know where to start with. Let me give a try to see what kind of image you have about me through my self-description. I hope that my impression about myself and your impression about me are not so different. Here it goes. I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiment when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and snow in winter. I like to sleep early, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I like to be surrounded by people. I like country’s peace, I like metropolis’ noise; I like the beautiful west lake in Hangzhou, I like the flat cornfield in Champaign. I like delicious food and comfortable shoes; I like good books and romantic movies. I like the land and the nature, I like people. And, I like to laugh. I always wanted to be a great writer, like Victor Hugo who wrote "Les Miserable", or like Roman Roland who wrote "John Christopher". They have influenced millions of people through their books. I also wanted to be a great psychologist, like William James or Sigmund Freud, who could read people’s mind. Of course, I am nowhere close to these people, yet. I am just someone who does his thing his own way,But my dream is still alive.I believe that if your not busy living then you are busy not living. NB:Not interested in cam or hookups. I am real, you be real, too.
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in my opinion there is no partiture in the song of confucianism and religions...
but there is a partiture for gay people and others than hetero peoples- in the daoism...
so saying this..daoism gives my individual stance as gay for bringing in my effort and being as I am along individual way as I am..without any compensations, commisions, and illussions for being playing another partiture..so enabling just playing my whole own GAY song!
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