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4 Feb 2008

women's bisexuality an 'identity,' not phase: study

Lesbians who have been consciously or subconsciously screening out bisexuals as potential girlfriends should pay attention to the results of a new study, which debunks the commonly held myth that bisexuality is just an experimental or transitional phase.

Researchers from the University of Utah, who assessed 79 non-heterosexual women five times over the course of a decade, debunked the stereotype that bisexual women aren't able to commit to monogamous relationships.

Study author Lisa Diamond wrote: "It is interesting that this finding provides a notable counterpoint to the popular stereotype that bisexual women are incapable of committing to a single partner. Not only did bisexual women tend to pursue exclusive, monogamous relationships over time, but they were more likely to do so than either unlabeled or lesbian women."

By the end of the study, more than 60 percent of those who identified as bisexual in 1995 were involved in relationships lasting longer than five years - compared to about 35 percent of lesbians and 30 percent of unlabeled women.

The study also found bisexuality among women to be a distinct orientation and not a temporary stage and commonly thought as the bisexual women who were tracked remained attracted to both men and women throughout that time.

Diamond, an associate professor of psychology and gender studies, first conducted face-to-face interviews with her subjects between the ages of 18 and 25 around New York state in 1995. The women identified themselves as lesbian, bisexual or unlabeled, but not heterosexual. She then spoke with them by phone every two years.

"This is the first research that's really followed bisexual women for such a long period of time and it really, I think, puts to rest the notion that this is a transitional stage," said Diamond.

"If it was a phase, it should have burnt out. They might have a change in identity and relationships, but that pattern of non-exclusive desire is still there, even among those who have married. It debunks the notion of it being a phase."

According to the professor, most women "possess the capacity to experience sexual desires for both sexes, under the right circumstances."

Based on the results of her study, Diamond added that she expects that over time more women would have the opportunity to become aware of this capacity and may adopt bisexual/unlabeled identities rather than exclusive lesbian or heterosexual identities.

"Despite our modern day and age it's amazing how persistent some of the negative stereotypes about bisexuality have been. There are still even some researchers, as well as lay people, who are not really sure that it really exists, who have viewed it as a transitional state on the way to lesbianism, or viewed it as just something that some confused heterosexuals will claim about themselves," Diamond was quoted as saying in an interview with Reuters.

The study also supports the commonly held notion that female sexuality is relatively fluid and that the "distinction between lesbian and bisexual women is not a rigid one."

Researchers found that women's "definitions of lesbianism appeared to permit more flexibility in behaviour than their definitions of heterosexuality. In all, 76 percent of the women who switched to lesbian labels pursued sexual contact with both men and women during the two years prior to the identity change, compared with 30 percent of women who switched to heterosexual labels."

The report can be read in the January issue (vol. 44) of Developmental Psychology, a journal of the American Psychological Association.

Reader's Comments

1. 2008-02-04 22:51  
honey no one is perfectly gay and no one is perfectly straight... so even the gayest dude or gal is like 0.0001% straight.

everyone's bisexual. there's no black=straight white=gay here. we're all different shades of the same rainbow
2. 2008-02-04 23:22  
This is good news to know that bi can be faithful and remain monogamous. Actually I have deep bias and stigma against bisexual people in the past but now I am more open to know more about those people who are not like me. Also, more studies like the above needs to be conducted before we make any unfriendly or hash conclusion on any group of people.
3. 2008-02-05 01:08  
I agree with Magdalene and i am a bi guy myself...

but this stereotype is more prevalent in Asia and US, as both regions just adore stereotypes! (short hair woman = les, long-haired woman = straight)...

In Europe, the 'all are more or less bi' thinking has been prevalent for decades now...

... but nice to know you guys are catching up.
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5. 2008-02-05 02:13  
"... but nice to know you guys are catching up."

typical European.
always with a superior mindset eh.

Ive been to certain parts of europe.
and trust me, they are about as stereotypical as anyone can get.
6. 2008-02-05 12:21  
so cool and glad to understand more research on this subject

I am a Proud Bi Guy!

only attracted to nice, beautiful people-- Hunky Guys sometimes, and yet some beautiful women continue to grab my heart and time . . .

Diversity is fun!
7. 2008-02-05 12:22  
emotionally and spiritually, I much perfer women, but sexually a guy is fun to fuck!
8. 2008-02-06 15:47  
I think this study is just another typical American need to find comfort in numbers and statistics!
9. 2008-02-08 00:12  
My experience with bi guys hasn't been great; they want sex with guys but life's so much easier with a girlfriend. They use you for sex and then run back to family-friendly Betty.

Hopefully as bisexual guys become less scared of coming out, this will stop happening (-_-)
10. 2008-02-08 14:19  
Yayyyyy still true Magdelene!! Kinsey was right - as far back as the 1950's irrespective of country or culture. Straight is at one end of the ruler, and gay is at the other - most of us are somewhere inbetween (ie, like about 80% of the population). But how much of this is how we identify/label ourselves? Let's just do away with the labels and realise we are "sexual beings"
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13. 2008-02-18 20:07  
There's a reason "Lesbians who have been consciously or subconsciously screening out bisexuals as potential girlfriends....."

I don't claim to speak for all bisexuals, bt I've personally experienced relationships- if you can call that one- with (self-identified) bi women & found it very unsatisfactory. They treat you like a type of 'substitute' to turn to whenever they're running away from problems or issues with men.
For a lesbian who's emotionally, romantically & sexually into women it can get quite devastating.
Naturally one will be more cautious after getting burned.

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