Two Asian Canadians discuss life as a Gay Asian in 2016, covering dating apps and racism within the LGBT community. Do you agree with what they have to say?
I don't think there is anything wrong with having one or more types of guys you find attractive, of course friendship is important for a relationship but there must be an attraction too. for me it is more about the way people choose to interact with each other on these apps. I am myself a larger guy and that's not everyone's type but when someone messages me unless they are really creepy I'll always reply and thank them for messaging, but if I am not interested I'll let them know. Teasing someone or saying unpleasant comments is simply wrong.
Some many years ago I came to Australia from Canada and was suddenly 'surrounded' by Asia !!! Back then the Australians saw Asians as 'gold diggers' who simply wanted to improve their lot by escaping from their home country. Now the Aussies who have taken the time to appreciate some of the better qualities of Asian Gay Males see them in a different light altogether.
The few that may still be negative towards Asians simply think of them as 'Oriental Opportunists' ... which given their commitment, hard work and loyalty still seems harsh.
Some many years ago I came to Australia from Canada and was suddenly 'surrounded' by Asia !!! Back then the Australians saw Asians as 'gold diggers' who simply wanted to improve their lot by escaping from their home country. Now the Aussies who have taken the time to appreciate some of the better qualities of Asian Gay Males see them in a different light altogether.
The few that may still be negative towards Asians simply think of them as 'Oriental Opportunists' ... which given their commitment, hard work and loyalty still seems harsh.
Interesting nothing new there. Sexuality and sexual preference is a very complex phenomenon.Well I was not really looking for an intellectual cognitive engagement. However, I felt a compelling need to respond. I have used grinder at times and when I do I am not looking for a close friend but more safe sex fun. I too appreciate different cultures and people from different backgrounds in almost every setting. Conversely when it comes to the bedroom I have specific interests. When it comes to sexuality I have a very clear preference as difficult as some may find this to comprehend. Regardless how educated or intelligent a women maybe or a black person, I have no sexual desire for either. Thus making a complete and full relationship impossible for me. I am not a lone in this position as repugnant as some may find it. I enjoy the presence of many diverse and interesting people but for a full harmonious relationship I almost exclusively prefer Asian men especially in the bedroom. I have been to one Asian express. It was fun. :)
I have to say something about myself. Sometimes it is hard to introduce yourself because you know yourself so well that you do not know where to start with. Let me give a try to see what kind of image you have about me through my self-description. I hope that my impression about myself and your impression about me are not so different. Here it goes. I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiment when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and snow in winter. I like to sleep early, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I like to be surrounded by people. I like country’s peace, I like metropolis’ noise; I like the beautiful west lake in Hangzhou, I like the flat cornfield in Champaign. I like delicious food and comfortable shoes; I like good books and romantic movies. I like the land and the nature, I like people. And, I like to laugh. I always wanted to be a great writer, like Victor Hugo who wrote "Les Miserable", or like Roman Roland who wrote "John Christopher". They have influenced millions of people through their books. I also wanted to be a great psychologist, like William James or Sigmund Freud, who could read people’s mind. Of course, I am nowhere close to these people, yet. I am just someone who does his thing his own way,But my dream is still alive.I believe that if your not busy living then you are busy not living. NB:Not interested in cam or hookups. I am real, you be real, too.
男性 | 35 | 5' 11"180cm / 165lbs75kg | 混血兒
New York City, New York, United States
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男性 | 71 | 5' 9"176cm / 209lbs95kg | 白人
Cincinnati, Ohio, United States
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Hi, I’m David. I'm a nice guy, interested mostly in friends, and more
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The few that may still be negative towards Asians simply think of them as 'Oriental Opportunists' ... which given their commitment, hard work and loyalty still seems harsh.
The few that may still be negative towards Asians simply think of them as 'Oriental Opportunists' ... which given their commitment, hard work and loyalty still seems harsh.
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