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2014-04-17 13:35 @ UN urges Brunei to delay ...
WTF Brunei
2014-04-17 13:35 @ UN urges Brunei to delay ...
All muslims are barbarians.
2014-04-17 08:46 @ UN urges Brunei to delay ...
7. LGBT should understand, even you look so weak but you are stronger than other look strong. 8. Can you LGBT cut vegetable by hand? Yes Can you LGBT cut dessert by spoon or plastic knife ? yes, still Can you LGBT cut fresh meat by hand? by plastic knife? Big No You need sharp, heavy metal knife. 9. Mean that LGBT should always smile to everybody but see who they are There are some people that are anti-smile 10. The last time I went to Thailand was about 2008-2009, and the fresh meat made mobilitation to everywhere. 11. It can be new for Thailand , so that Thai goverment did not make preparation because they di not know the phenomena. so many people are lier. But it is not new for other countries, so LGBT should help Thailand. I was visitor in Thailand but i recognize character of some people and they were in Thailand. 12. It is not for Thailand also, every country should able to see phenomena and character of people that will arrive in your country or had been in your country that possible to Riots, hate, Libel, Rebel, etc. They perhaps look like nice at first as cover or depend on situation why? they used something fake as belief. They made us fighting each other. And they preach to fight each other. It look like syndicate that happened at everywhere in the world.
2014-04-16 12:05 @ Thai marriage equality bi...
7. LGBT should understand, even you look so weak but you are stronger than other look strong. 8. Can you LGBT cut vegetable by hand? Yes Can you LGBTcut dessert by spoon or plastic knife ? yes, still Can you LGBT cut fresh meat by hand? by plastic knife? Big No You need sharp, heavy metal knife. 9. Mean that LGBT should always smile to everybody but see who they are There are some people that are anti-smile 10. The last time I went to Thailand was about 2008-2009, and the fresh meat made mobilitation to everywhere. 11. It can be new for Thailand , so that Thai goverment did not make preparation because they di not know the phenomena. so many people are lier. But it is not new for other countries, so LGBT should help Thailand. I was visitor in Thailand but i recognize character of some people and they were in Thailand. 12. It is not for Thailand also, every country should able to see phenomena and character of people that will arrive in your country or had been in your country that possible to Riots, hate, Libel, Rebel, etc. They perhaps look like nice at first as cover or depend on situation why? they used something fake as belief. They made us fighting each other. And they preach to fight each other. It look like syndicate that happened at everywhere in the world.
2014-04-16 12:03 @ Thai marriage equality bi...
Gay marriage ? Marriage is a contract for LIFE - the normal vows make this totally clear. Yet, in the west, marriage has a 50% failure rate among heterosexuals. Marriage DOES NOT WORK. It is totally beyond me that sensible gay people want to get involved in this hypocritical and farcical system of failure. Marriage is a contract for LIFE. If you plan to get married, make an agreement with your partner-to-be. Decide which of you is to die if the marriage breaks down. That should sober you up.
2014-04-15 02:25 @ Thai marriage equality bi...
"the law is clearly a long way behind society" It would be great if they finally keep up with each other. Some countries like Spain have succeeded in passing the laws that support LGBT rights but its society has not embraced LGBT community to its heart... My Spanish friend coonfided to me of his tough time being "gay" in his day-to-day life not to mention difficulty he is facing with his family regarding his sexual orientation. Some could argue that Thailand is weak in laws enforcement; on the contrary, I find that Thai society is very mature in embracing each other's right for privacy and sexual differences. But the laws would put labor/work related right and legal issues to a better place, especially for the growing tran community in which job opportunity is often limited to entertrainment and sex scenes. It would be a refreshing sight to see them working in a bank or airline and service industry. Or in any sector in which each individual aspires to find him/herself. All Thailand needs is time. Happy Songkran! :D
2014-04-14 02:04 @ Thai marriage equality bi...
Well, at least it's equally frustrating for gay and str8. Important to keep perspective, and while "riots" and civil disobedience are not happy events for some, they lead to growth. Actual personal safety is unusually high, with very small numbers of deaths or wounding when compared to such strife in other countries. I'd hazard a guess that the death count of this entire fiasco is less than one week's average in Los Angeles!
2014-04-13 23:13 @ Thai marriage equality bi...
Damn, this political situation is really an annoying disturbance for our cherished LGBT rights!
2014-04-12 16:09 @ Thai marriage equality bi...
1. None afraid of same sex marriage but afraid of going to Heaven quickly alone. But They are very shy to confess the fear. So, they replace fear to go to Heaven by another terms include by Homophobia 2. Anti-LGBT or anti-same sex marriage just cover on their fear to go to beautiful Heaven 3. you may see people make "orgy" regullary. It is because they are afraid of going to Heaven alone or quickly. 4. orgy is term for doing activities together. In LGBT activies, Orgy is Orgy that involve sexual activities In Religion community, Orgy called Jamee, pilgrim because different conducts. 5. You also should identify what country you are. You, LGBT asking for love, are you sure? 6. When Heterosexual got marriage, having children. Mean that their love closed . How they can have love if they already have beloved wife, husband, children. there only possible little love. The rest just Power and financial dependency. Mean that when other have no more power and enough finance, They will kick out and made discrimination. it has the same character, when stake holder having many, many Heterosex will come closed, and when the stake holder will get banckruft, they will say goodbye or step on or to discriminate. Because no love 7. So, Anti-Law, and phobia are not only addressed to LGBT only but also to other Heterosexual that will increase by growing population without of suitability growth of supporting resources. 8. Imagine if you kill all of Law makers or make Terror to all Law makers. it was done by other Heterosex community to show that they need confession too or afraid of going to heaven. or imagine if you do other things. You can not always smile because they have power dependency and other dependency. Not smile dependency. and you can not do it alone 9. Why these Law maker have no love? Mean that they need Theraphy, conseling and consider for Hormone treatment. 10. if The law maker had attend high school, then no reason for confusing with ID change. it need work . If they always sleep and sit in front of computer looking for something, then nothing will be happened. 11. Religion community/Hollybook or prophets can be regarded as incarnation of evils because LGBT is true but can you see the evil? they are inhuman , we LGBT are human but evil is inhuman, can you see different between Human and evil? can you see evil? can you see prophets and their myth? can you see heaven? all these having similarity with evil that are evil incarnation
2014-04-12 14:04 @ Tough barriers still exis...
1. I went to thailand few times since 2006, went to gay places. During my trip, I sniff something, and my think that there will be riots in Thailand in future. Then it happened, I often heard bombing 2. I went again in 2008-2009, what i feel/sniff that there will be more riots at everywhere in Thailand. I saw situations /people having potential for making Riots because Riots in Thailand just paralell to Riots in other countries. There were some people having this character and make justification those as peace and beautiful it look like syndicate. 3. But i did not know that Thailand Government made preventive for this situation, look like did not care. Thailand goverment looke like welcome to people who have potential for Riots oe because they did not know. Thailand goverment or LGBT should able to learn History of other countries and always get alert. Remember that you are LGBT should not always to be "smile" as they are anti-smile. 4. LGBT should care and help goverment, You should not always party without care to your country safety 5. so, it is very important to have LGBT school, organizations that active because i still do not see that LGBT much more involved actively in broad sense 6. You are LGBT having obligation to save your own countries respectively from those riots maker because they will always make effort for it. 7. I also seen other countries, Government having weakness on identification of potential Riots in your countries respectively. These should be contribution for LGBT community. 8. LGBT activities should include preventive and identification on Riots, Terror, Libel, etc. You may do cruising but remember that there are Responsibilities for all LGBT to save your own nation. This responsibilities will make u live with energy. 9. LGBT community still have no synergy with actual conditions at everwhere. Should again review on recruitments of member and learn more.
2014-04-12 13:35 @ Thai marriage equality bi...
Damn, they actually have a law from the colony era though the Internal security act(ISA) was recently abolished. Looks like evolution of the Law is not a commonplace here. Wanna guess why?
2014-04-11 04:34 @ ICJ: Anwar Ibrahim's conv...
I am confused , thought they used Shariah law to try him as both parties in the case were muslim though even for that, the story is that he was framed.
2014-04-11 04:21 @ ICJ: Anwar Ibrahim's conv...
Wouldn't it be a better world if we had all religious involvement removed permanently from state and/or governments worldwide? Now that would be the start of utopia!
2014-04-10 02:06 @ Tough barriers still exis...
as usual the younger age groups are more accepting of gay marriage in most countries!
2014-04-09 22:24 @ Marriage equality in Viet...
as usual the younger age groups are more accepting of gay marriage in most countries!
2014-04-09 22:22 @ Marriage equality in Viet...
The government of China is just showing everyone how useless it really is. A month to respond to something, where law requires a response in 7 days??? The "officials" in charge have nothing else to do, how difficult is it to write a simple statement? Further, the government clearly doesn't know the first thing about traditional Chinese culture, as traditional Chinese culture accepted all different types of people. It is just since 1949 that "standards" have been set for how people "should live". Disgraceful.
2014-04-09 17:31 @ China state media acknowl...
1. Many people insist of receiving 2. Riots, Libel, Lie, Hate, Killing, Terrorism, Stealing, Greedy, Violence, etc were actions that insist of receiving and Justification. They said that their actions were Peace or Beautiful. you may see around the Globe Mean that insisting something by asking Love sometimes did not work. 3. Homophobia is insisting of Greedy, killing and Hate of Their Heart They want that Their Sins to be acceptable or legalized. 4. Why court reject same sex marriage? - have you seen grass that you just step on it ? how if the grass price become as high as Diamond? Have you seen waterworld movie? - It mean that the court have darkness on same-sex marriage value. 5. As I wrote before, there is no wisdom school, Mean that The Court just copy paste existing Law because Wisdom is original from some people blessed, not from people blessed by Academic Teachers. 6. Making Law would through Harmonization process, this is one key which Wisdom of Law Maker should be shown. If only copy paste from existing Law, then many people, from elementary school, high school are also able to do that. 7. Let see, How Myth of prophet that went to Heaven can be acceptable? there is not law correspond to this myth before. Even this Myth is not real that you can not see for true. Here, People reveal term : Faith How this Faith can be always acceptable? They used many vehicle : War, Riots, etc 8. Here you can Learn, Even Lie/ something Not true can be acceptable but you are LGBT are True and exist Now 9. consideration of acceptance regarding manythings: Power, etc ( you think by yourselves) Now, Do LGBT having these "manythings'? 10. If you LGBT asking for Their Love, then no love because they are straight people having wife/husband/children that they love, the rest people can not be given love except they will receive money Then when you will have no money anymore, then this fake "love" will be dissapear. But it is depend, what kind of country you are in. 11. Is this possible making Law that contradictive or no relation with existing Laws? Answer : Yes How ? You /LGBT your selves must have Reason because Law Maker are in darkness. Have you heard, How aeroplane made first? Many people laught at and could not accept it. But now many people use aeroplane. And you Must also know that Law Maker have no ability to make Aeroplane, it mean that Law Maker having Darkness on making aeroplane. The Law Maker had no wisdom on How to create vehicle on sky. The Law maker just registrated Aeroplane Law after Aeroplane already made.
2014-04-09 15:53 @ Celebrities show support ...
This is i guess HIS way of climbing the ladder (not to heaven) to his own popularity game plan with the media as well as the simple minded ignoramus population that we live amongst. I say, live your life free of hatred and sin and the doors of EDEN will open upon your approach even if your LGBT. Amen.
2014-04-08 20:52 @ Pastor Lawrence Khong is ...
Good luck Xiang !
2014-04-08 13:18 @ China state media acknowl...
I agree with most items, some are a little hard to swallow. The last one is a trust issue, but if I do not want him to ever see what I write, then what am I writing ? Good luck to all who venture into close personal relationships. Openness and honesty is what keeps us together. Married to the same man for 8 1/2 years. John.
2014-04-13 23:09 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Open Relationship just simply doesn't work. When it does work, it doesn't work as a romantic intimate kind, it's simply friends with benefits kind. It's well documented in many articles. Love = Selfish, anything around it it's management of it, including expectation management. Commitments = boundaries. Biggest problem in Open Relationship is the conditioned inability to experience romantic love again, and constantly blocking/immunise yourself against falling in love which is the very same reason why the relationship open in the first place. Socialise as a couple is healthy but why must it be a gay bars? I guess deniability comes into play and gay men are just so good at that. Cultivating authenticity is so important especially to the gay men. I wonder why insecurity/self-victimisation isn't part of the biggest problem faced in the gay world especially when it comes to relationship. To me, insecurity seems to be the biggest disease sweeping the gay men world, if not general society. Generally I agree with this article. But again, every relationship is different and so does everyone, communication and constantly setting and agree to boundaries will produce a trusting enjoyable relationship.
2014-04-06 09:39 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Ok next topic for why youre still staying single TOP 7 plz?
2014-04-04 15:49 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Ok next topic for why youre still staying single TOP 7 plz?
2014-04-04 15:49 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
this is a great article. thank you for this. i made 4 out of 7 mistakes :) i learned a lot from that. nashboroguy, smart comment :) two thumbs up :)
2014-03-31 23:41 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
drelin: Why does it sound like it is from a "Christian fundamentalist"? Being a gay Christian, I do not see anything like that from this article. I do think the author missed the boat on some things too. Granted, not all relationships are created equal. And, not all gay men are the same. If an "open" relationship worked for you, that is great. But, many gay men have serious trust issues in their lives and in their partners. At least in America. I do disagree with the gay club part of the article. I think that was a bit over the top. I understand his thinking. But, to say it is one of the top 7 issues would not be correct in my book.
2014-03-31 08:16 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
I feel this article might have been written by Christian fundamentalists... I had a 16 year relationship. It was open, we went occasionally to disco together and it never caused problems. Could there be a hidden agenda here? Of course we had disputes and things to resolve, but this is an integral part of any relationship (just as love and sharing wonderful things). You cannot avoid it and have to grow your tolerance and understanding, I completely agree on this point. Every relationship is unique and this kind of experience is not prone to synthetyzing or statistizing. Sharing a personal experience is much more interesting and humble than giving lectures like this. I don't like the "This is the biggest mistake" way the author is lecturing us.
2014-03-31 04:34 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Great article .. good advice lets hope people read it and listen lol.
2014-03-31 00:17 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Nashboroguy maybe you should have written the article. After 25 years I will tell you that all you and the writter suggested is right, sadly my partner passed away but in the time we spent together we did a lot of re-inventing our relatioship, spice and honey sure work as a new taste. Thaks both of you
2014-03-30 23:22 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Another important issue in relationships that was not mentioned is the fact that relationships take lots of work. Too often, they end when they do not need to. When you date a person, things are great. You are finding out about someone new. You might try new things together. Dating is fun. You are always going to dinner, courting each other, talking to one another, and the sex is usually pretty awesome. But, over time, relationships get stale. You get stuck in a rut. You begin to feel bored and uninterested in the things that once made you excited. In a relationship. you need to always work on finding ways to spice things up. You need to find new things to keep you interested in each other. You need to find ways to bring that dating time back into a 2, 3, 4, 5 year relationship. And, it is not always about spicing up the sex life. New hobbies to do together, taking a spur of the moment trip together, finding new friends to add things to your lives, and many other things. I have seen far too many coupled gay friends leave each other after two or more years together because things got stale in the relationship. It is fine to get into a sense of normalcy with each other. But, if you find that all you do together is watch TV or stay home all the time together, it will get boring for one of you. It is kind of like you setting every Wednesday as meatloaf night at your house. Eventually, meatloaf gets old and tasteless. So, you need to maybe have a taco night once in a while on Wednesdays.
2014-03-30 22:06 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Interesting article. I will have to agree to disagree with some of it. But, I would like to add...COMMUNCATION. I am not talking about talking to him on social networks like twitter throughout the day. Or, leaving emails every moment of the day. You should be talking to your bf daily, face-to-face. And, not just about sex and romantic things. If you are serious about one another, you should learn everything there is about each other. Your bf should be one of the few people you can discuss the "third rail" topics with such as religion and politics. If you are living together, you should be talking about money, budgets, bills. You should be talking about housekeeping projects and maintaining a home together. You should do more than just "pillow talk". You should develop a line of communication that is clear, understandable, and mutual.
2014-03-30 21:51 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
while you busy making another weird concept or controversy GaGa, please mind musicality also. sincerely, The Fame -era fans. after that, everything went step by step downfall.
2014-03-27 18:48 @ Watch : Lady Gaga unveils...
i wanngo tokyo :( for holiday
2014-03-26 15:48 @ Queer Tokyo, Lost in Tran...
And us widowers are excluded again. Double sigh.
2014-03-16 23:09 @ Le Méridien Koh Samui Re...
OMG I'd rather jerk off everyday than go to Japan covered with radioactivity smh.
2014-03-07 19:31 @ Queer Tokyo, Lost in Tran...
Hope someday to stay here
2014-01-31 08:45 @ Le Méridien Koh Samui Re...
sigh. wish i have found my life partner.
2014-01-16 21:55 @ Le Méridien Koh Samui Re...
demodé
2013-12-31 13:00 @ Amano'i, Vietnam...
nice!
2013-12-31 12:54 @ Le Méridien Koh Samui Re...
Rates: from US$750? Lol, at last a place for everyday people...
2013-12-08 21:04 @ Amano'i, Vietnam...
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