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bluebond: Right-wing evangelical Christian groups from the US have indeed gone to Africa - not North Africa though, too many Muslims there. One of them's apparently gone to Uganda to instigate anti-gay legislation.
2014-07-22 12:17 @ Religious group targets T...
addition for section 377A, at the time the rule made, gay were not so visible. why there is legislation body? It is to make law that do not exist before and to find the truth in recent day. If you think that Law is enough, then there should be no legislation body. There is not Train before, so, there is no rule about train, it only written as horse, camel, etc. but there possible rule that unclear. So, today is to make clear that gay is the truth Here you gay must accept yourself. Because you are The Messenger of yourself. Gay are The Messengers
2014-07-21 15:28 @ Singapore Literature Priz...
as long as we live, there is no the last prophet But there only some people claiming of last prophet ( for those who stubborn) you gay, may also claim that you are the last gay while other gay regarded not gay or invalid gay
2014-07-21 15:18 @ Singapore Literature Priz...
9. can you see clear? section 377A, why it is not section 0001 ? 10. it mean that law section made by period of time. The period can be one week, months, years. 11. so, The first law is not marriage law or sex relation for example: year 1500 : created Law X year 1700 : created marriage or sex relation law Law made by situation. Situation can be war, peace, low population, low resources, etc. 12. At period that population rate too low, low habitat but big natural resources, People should marriage and breed many children. so, section 377A is valid. 13, now days, we are facing ultimate situation. too many population, low productivity, economic crisis, war/riots at everywhere, libel, terrorism, murder, discrimination, Hate. This situation will increase by additional birth/ population. at this time : section 377A should be invalid. sex and marriage between man and woman become harmful. This should be replaced by gay marriage and same-sex relation. and marriage for people who do terrorism, Libel, Lie, murder is invalid. this tell us that one section having correlation with another section. -how if few religion made own rule for marriage? they must be put in jail and fine. because it is coup d'etat of Law. what ever reason they made should not be acceptable. 14. so, we should not blame British for making previous Law but should thankful to British, had taught Us on how to make wisdom Law. 15. How if The Law maker want to marry with opposite gender or having children that want to marry with opposite gender? There must be law for that , The Law makers should not allowed to make Law for their selves. Mean that we are facing Law maker, The law maker can be trouble maker. It is problem of law maker recruitment /election. and this election can be canceled. 16. But if Law making based on power, not by love and wisdom. The next war or World War 3 Should be begin. with no excuse and no more reasons should be acceptable. No deception should be acceptable. Heterosexual afraid of Going to beautiful Heaven quickly by God decision and hate effort should not be acceptable. gay do not make terrorism or murder. The effort should be effort to Beautiful Heaven. 17. why some people spreading Religions, talking about God in Heaven and Beautiful Heaven after death? But they do not want to go to such Heaven first quickly? Men that their body/mind/mouth and spirits are not working properly or not in synergy. that elements disturbed by Evil deception. They need intensive Therapy. 18. Gay should watch on How Religion Leader preaching that all contain fear of life although their mouth talk contradictive. It show darkness. When They Said : God is Truth, Almighty God, The Greatest God That language that indicate worry of life, fear, etc. People who worry about their life say: I am not worry. And you must know this culture from where? that is evil character, and the people in lost of consciousness/ awareness or evil inside them
2014-07-20 21:07 @ Singapore Literature Priz...
9. can you see clear? section 377A, why it is not section 0001 ? 10. it mean that law section made by period of time. The period can be one week, months, years. 11. so, The first law is not marriage law or sex relation for example: year 1500 : created Law X year 1700 : created marriage or sex relation law Law made by situation. Situation can be war, peace, low population, low resources, etc. 12. At period that population rate too low, low habitat but big natural resources, People should marriage and breed many children. so, section 377A is valid. 13, now days, we are facing ultimate situation. too many population, low productivity, economic crisis, war/riots at everywhere, libel, terrorism, murder, discrimination, Hate. This situation will increase by additional birth/ population. at this time : section 377A should be invalid. sex and marriage between man and woman become harmful. This should be replaced by gay marriage and same-sex relation. and marriage for people who do terrorism, Libel, Lie, murder is invalid. this tell us that one section having correlation with another section. -how if few religion made own rule for marriage? they must be put in jail and fine. because it is coup d'etat of Law. what ever reason they made should not be acceptable. 14. so, we should not blame British for making previous Law but should thankful to British, had taught Us on how to make wisdom Law. 15. How if The Law maker want to marry with opposite gender or having children that want to marry with opposite gender? There must be law for that , The Law makers should not allowed to make Law for their selves. Mean that we are facing Law maker, The law maker can be trouble maker. It is problem of law maker recruitment /election. and this election can be canceled. 16. But if Law making based on power, not by love and wisdom. The next war or World War 3 Should be begin. with no excuse and no more reasons should be acceptable. No deception should be acceptable. Heterosexual afraid of Going to beautiful Heaven quickly by God decision and hate effort should not be acceptable. gay do not make terrorism or murder. The effort should be effort to Beautiful Heaven. 17. why some people spreading Religions, talking about God in Heaven and Beautiful Heaven after death? But they do not want to go to such Heaven first quickly? Men that their body/mind/mouth and spirits are not working properly or not in synergy. that elements disturbed by Evil deception. They need intensive Therapy. 18. Gay should watch on How Religion Leader preaching that all contain fear of life although their mouth talk contradictive. It show darkness. When They Said : God is Truth, Almighty God, The Greatest God That language that indicate worry of life, fear, etc. People who worry about their life say: I am not worry. And you must know this culture from where? that is evil character, and the people in lost of consciousness/ awareness or evil inside them
2014-07-20 21:06 @ Singapore Literature Priz...
I find such "polls" to be dubious at best. These people are ignorant and backward thinking, to think that sexuality is taught. They never thought about when they first had their attraction to the opposite sex, that it was not taught to them? This brings a funny situation to mind. Mr. Wong was afraid that I'll turn his son gay because he idolized me and went to bars with me. Sometimes, we even went to a gay bar, but he was OK with it. Mr. Wong was so worried that he had a talk with my dad, that his son should stop hanging out with me, or I will turn him gay. My dad said to Mr. Wong, "it's not that easy. think about it, why don't you have a go at it if it is so easy to turn someone gay?"
2014-07-20 00:29 @ Christian group claims th...
5. Does talking the truth to children regarded as Unsuitable? 6. We should not blame British but we should thankful to British that had helped Us on How to Make Law at first at the time that we were unable to make Law. British had thought Us that Law was not content one section only but many sections that should be considerations. That is capability on How to make Resultant of Laws. 7. Telling Lie to Children are Terrorism, so The Library Board’s chief executive should be charged /catched by Terrorism action and become crew of Lie/defamation/Hate distribution agency. 8. If She think that only The first law should be retain and The next law should be criminalized, Then we should criminalized the last prophet and criminalized the last Hollybook Authors and criminalized the last Religion and only the first religion/ the oldest that should be retained.
2014-07-19 19:54 @ Singapore Literature Priz...
I bow to the 3 judges for their actions.
2014-07-19 08:47 @ Singapore Literature Priz...
Why are straights so obsessed with gays? Why are they so afraid of gays? I am waiting for a hetero to turn me straight. Not a chance in hell. Singapore is nearly as bad as Malaysia in terms of gay rights.
2014-07-19 04:39 @ Singapore Literature Priz...
Even if the poll accurately reflected the views of parents as reported it does not make persecution right. The majority of Germans in the 1930's thought it was okay to persecute Jews. Was it? I think we can all agree that it was not. Tyranny of the majority is still tyranny. The roll of government is not to legislate morality, it is to protect its citizens. It's funny that christians, who often whine about how persecuted they are ( they're not persecuted ) cannot wait to persecute others. Sometimes I think the Romans had the right idea. They just didn't have enough lions.
2014-07-17 23:52 @ Christian group claims th...
So many places automatically want to "burn the books" they do not agree with.
2014-07-17 17:11 @ Singapore Literature Priz...
I applaud the principled stand taken by these three individuals. Could their decision be the "butterfly effect" that will one day result in the legal and social recognition of LGBT communities in Singapore?
2014-07-17 10:18 @ Singapore Literature Priz...
I pray the Justice system in S'pore be blind to 'norms' and rule in pure justice as what She should be authentically according to the real world standard.
2014-07-17 01:37 @ Singapore court deliberat...
2. Terrorism, Lie, Libel, Discrimination, Hate are Indecency, rite? here you know that Few religions are indecent. 3. Few Religions had becoming Agent of such indecency as you can prove and investigate on Riots, war, Libel, Hate, bomb at everywhere in the world. that are immoral and very bad conduct. You can see History. 4. Marriage law should be resultant of other laws. Those who have potential for terrorism, Riots, supporting Riots, Libel, Hate, Lie, War should not be allowed to marry and breed. 5. have you seen Religion behaviors? Hear their voice, toned, and activities.if you capable to understand that languages. 6. Have you seen or Read Hollybook verses that can be actived or inactivated anytime that depend on situation? That is potential harm and indecency. except they will eliminate such verses forever by agreement and prove. 7. don't you hear and having evident that so many violence by people having such religions? and you must also know on two faces that intended to make such harmful verses become immun from Law. That is deception upon Law. 8. anti-gay it self is harmful and violence. 9. will you spend time for anti-gay or love? will you spend time for hate ? will you sepnd time for Lie and libel? I here such libel for years since I was a child but i keep quite and never talked for years. 10. Intimate is not about sexual only unlesss in your mind and heart that life just about sex. 11. Intimation are people who gather by simmilar desire. 12. Equal marriage is Therapy 13. And yes, gay /LGBT theirselves should wakeup to live better to avoid libel because Terrorism will not aggree making law that wil catch theirselves. Terrorism is not sollely Bombing. Verses can be regarded as Terror for our mind and life. It is Terror without iron bullets or munition 14. Anti-gay just begining of Hate addressed to gay, that will continued to another anti-law addressed to Heterosexual. waiting for suitable time. 15. gay should not be very weak, and people just using up your heart or playing with your heart. There is deception. 16 you must know history, when the first time religions came to your countries and you welcome them, then after, they would hate you, made violence, terror, libel, lie, etc.
2014-07-16 11:06 @ Singapore court deliberat...
Blueblond...I couldn't have said it better! Your comments are perfect!
2014-07-16 06:22 @ Religious group targets T...
I would be surprised it works in a country where the Judiciary is not independent from the Executive.
2014-07-16 05:54 @ Singapore court deliberat...
1. when religions came to your country? and why you permit them? did you get deception? sometime you welcome somebody that look like brought sugar but you did not know that they brough blade behind
2014-07-15 18:17 @ Christian group claims th...
5. my neigbour is religious, just tell me today. if there some people hurt him, lie to hi, discriminate him. than killing such people are legal. 6. you can see that few Religions made riots, murder, terrorism, war, lie, libel and they got immunity 7. you must learn history. Everything become legal for religion immoral become moral for religion, 8. The same way for gay, anything should be legal for gay , no matter what people said wrong and correct. 9. Mean that you should no excuse for what religion said
2014-07-15 18:08 @ Religious group targets T...
Amazing. This is pure madness. And again, Evangelical Christians. What the hell are you, representatives of the Devil? Advocates of Evil? Do you love enforcing pain and suffering? Do you have a minimum sense of Humanism? I'm beginning to hate them, and the people who are influenced by them. But, nah, I can't hate anybody (see, how different we are) - you're forgiven, you're just lost in your own extremist ideology, and thus you're the worse of the worst in society. You don't even know who you are without your extremist principles, that's why they are everything in your life, and you end up using it to hurt people - you have no moral of your own.
2014-07-15 12:47 @ Transgender man to sue Ho...
Oh, and if you're one of them and reads my comment above, feel free to send me hate-mail. Half of my brain and life experience, my moral values and principles, are enough to make you feel like an ant. Actually, ants deserve more respect than you. So, let's make it a 1/3rd.
2014-07-15 10:35 @ Religious group targets T...
thanks! this article was awesome!
2014-07-08 00:55 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
it was an interesting read.
2014-07-06 12:30 @ Interview with Dr Travis ...
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2014-07-06 02:37 @ Interview with Dr Travis ...
I WANT TO MEET WHO MADE THIS BOOK
2014-07-06 02:34 @ Interview with Dr Travis ...
I'm bought this book lol... :P Very good reading!!! XD
2014-07-05 03:57 @ Interview with Dr Travis ...
Great video ! Always play safe !
2014-06-24 10:47 @ Watch: 'Doing it Better' ...
I agree with him
2014-06-22 17:13 @ Watch : Lady Gaga unveils...
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2014-06-12 10:21 @ Asian Gay Icon GUY TANG: ...
1. Open Relationships: It’s a one-foot-in and a one-foot-out situation. People who are in open relationships must know that everything goes. If it’s love, you don’t need a disclaimer, make it a close relationship. 2. Neediness: Absolutely no-no unless it’s a sugar daddy kinda relationship. 3. Arguing: A pinch is enough but always make it up with hot sex. 4. Being With Someone For Comfort: Yeah, baby! Everyone needs it once in awhile. Just don’t overdo it. If money and material possession is comforting, then it’s another one of those sugar daddy kinda relationship. Nothing wrong about as long as both parties agree to the terms. 5. Going To The Club Together: No, no, no, nope! It’s like going to massages together. Unless both parties agree that one party is allowed to have too much fun; it’s best to avoid doing this altogether. Misery loves company. Ecstasy loves more company - more the merrier. 6. Putting Your Relationship Status On FB: Unless it’s a website for F**kBuddy, then don’t do it. It’s like staking a claim to a human being. We know you’re in the relationship so don’t push it on us who are still looking. It’s also drama mama to have your domestic news in my timeline. But do post some raunchy pics or vids of you both or him with another guy. 7. Not Allowing Your Boyfriend To Go Out With Friends: This is not the Dark Ages. Slavery is not nice. Unless it’s a BDSM, treat your guy with love and respect. Vice versa. Although it is puzzling whenever guys who are in a relationship kept sending me messages wanting to be my ‘friend’ or stating that they’re looking for friends only. Harlow? By sending me messages, it gave me a perception that all is not rosy with the bf. So stopped making new friends at dating websites and treasure your existing ones.
2014-05-17 12:21 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
A good and interesting article to remind us some dos and don'ts in a relationship. Excitement and thrills are always at the initial stage, honeymoon period tend to be the sweetest but it will move on to another stage, when both parties will tend to understand and see each other in reality, many couples broke off after seeing their "real" partners while others would fade off their feelings and started to venture out for a better somebody. I believe a relationship has to be cultivated over time, couples must open up to discuss matters and find ways to compromise differences. When matters are opened up for discussion, both parties mustnt impose his views and beliefs on his partner, but with respect and adopt an open mind. I dun think there are many matters that are so traumatic and unsolvable, and need to call off a relationship! It is not an escapism and excuse giving session. When two persons are committed, both of them should work hand in hand to tackle issues and find ways which can strengthen their relationship as they move along. There are priorities to set and aim, regular review of these priorities would provide useful feedback and minimise unhappiness as well as misunderstanding. I believe couples who can communicate and share issues together, will have a happier and longer lasting relationship. We have to do our best if we choose to be in a relationship.
2014-05-16 14:25 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
1.Open Relationship...Yuk..The world is mistaken in thinking that monogamy is a moral good. You can decide, by an act of will, to be monogamous to your partner. That does not mean the desire for sex with others is no longer there. You can make the denial of that desire as the foundation of your relationship, as in, if we love each other enough, we will control ourselves. But what kind of love is it anyway if you need to cage each other’s sexual energy? Do you really think caging each other will make you love each other more?. I dont deny its bored eating the same noodles everyday, but who ask you to eat everyday?hardly for me to believe a successful long lasting relationship in between without eat other meal than Noodles.lol Everyone has their personal understanding of "relationship", "love", and what it takes to build a successful relationship. If 2 people get together who believe in the same things, that's called compatibility .If you haven't talked about it, then you're not in a relationship. Be honest with each other, talk things out, communicate your wants, desires and expectations.
2014-05-15 23:08 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
nice :D
2014-05-15 21:11 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
I know PLENTY of people in open relationships. They can work fine as long as both parties adhere to rules, and keep one another informed.
2014-05-12 09:19 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Comment#11 Right to the point (s), Matt06sg - Thank you. Mens sana in corpore sano !
2014-05-09 14:46 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Re: no6 - Really?!?! That's one of the top 7 relationship 'mistakes' ?! Who wrote this? Talk about utter drivel. The whole explanation sounds mad.
2014-05-05 06:41 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Great comments, matt06sg.
2014-05-01 10:31 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
I had an extreme experience with Number 4; my mother warned me that this fellow I was once with probably didn't love me as much as it seemed - indeed, he probably THOUGHT he loved me, but only needed someone to cling to and depend on. "Unless you are a lifeguard, if you try to save a drowning man he may instead pull you down with him". We didn't pool our resources, but he did end up borrowing from me to get things he wanted now rather than save up. At first he felt guilty about it, but eventually it became habit and when I told him point-blank that if we hoped to achieve any of the dreams we wanted (like our own house) we had to start being prudent, he turned around and accused me of being calculative and became very defensive. More than once I found evidence of him cheating, and I'm the kind of guy who can swallow it if you own up and try to work it out with me - go for a blood test and all. Unfortunately, he insisted he didn't do anything, and instead called me out for looking for a reason to breakup. At some point I got fed up and did - he was crying his eyes out and all that but suddenly he just snapped out of it and called me all sorts of things, and being very self-righteous about his point of view. Seeing him like that, it was as if a spell on me had been broken - I suddenly saw what this was all REALLY about.
2014-05-01 07:47 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
Our relationship lasted nearly 37 years, and would have lasted longer had cancer not got in the way. I won't say it was all plain sailing, but the secret of a relationship is give and take. Sometimes you have to give more than you take. He packed up work and I supported him financially during that time. When his pension came through he wanted nothing but the best for us. Then along came cancer. I would have given up work to care for him if I had to. In his last months, as his condition worsened, I was contemplating asking for compassionate leave at work. He died a week after we finally got married. He hung on long enough for that. That's what our relationship was about, and more.
2014-04-26 05:03 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
re (2) Isn't a relationship to some degree, all about two people having some sort of need for each other? Like in that saying 'fall for someone you cannot live without', like Romeo and Juliet in the straight world. It doesn't mean having a partner to solve all your problems or issues, and lean totally on them, but hell if he has troubles in his heart, then surely be compassionate, be supportive and understanding and consider why, and give more re-assurance. It's not hard to have little other than heart wrenching experiences in the gay world, speaking from experience, especially when the heart runs deep, I know it too well, 45 and still not had an LTR. But then of course I've found that in most cases guys seeking guys are only wanting something shiny, off the showroom floor, not someone they have to give a little TLC to. If I had a guy who was showing insecurity due to issues, then I'd pull out all stops to love him and nurture him. It's far nicer when you see what your love has become. But the thing is to find a guy who can accept being loved truly madly deeply, as in the words of Savage Garden. As two of the same sex, we should have the advantage of a deeper understanding, but that seldom seems to be, alas.
2014-04-19 21:19 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
I agree with most items, some are a little hard to swallow. The last one is a trust issue, but if I do not want him to ever see what I write, then what am I writing ? Good luck to all who venture into close personal relationships. Openness and honesty is what keeps us together. Married to the same man for 8 1/2 years. John.
2014-04-13 23:09 @ Top 7 Common Relationship...
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