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thenyx

thenyx - 51 minutes ago

Happy birthday.

Jyne

死生契闊 與子成說

Jyne - 2 hours ago

死生契闊 與子成說

攜子之手 與子偕老

 

很簡單的兩行字卻帶出了深情

16個字卻可以帶來心中的悸動

 

 

可惜神女有心,襄王无梦

AriaJes

If you love me

AriaJes - 2 hours ago

han_25

《一百岁》

han_25 - 4 hours ago
《一百岁》

一位外星人来到地球要完成他大学论文。

有一次他在生日聚会上,他发现人类只有100年的生命。

 

于是,他写一封信给他的父亲。

 

父亲大人:

我发现人类只有一百岁命, 他们还不及后悔就死了, 历史一次又一次重复着。

 

。。。。。。。。

han_25

《蓝天》

han_25 - 4 hours ago
《蓝天》

24/10/2014

 

我在你蓝蓝的天空里曾留下了一丝丝思念,或许那曾经是刻骨铭心但一切会隨着时间的消失无踪影。

han_25

《想你》

han_25 - 4 hours ago

《想你》

思念(你)已在云石上留下了痕迹,深深地慢慢地流着。

 

希望你有一天会看见云石上的痕迹而喚起你记憶深处的我,让你再一次想我。

 

我在想你,思念你…

 

15/06/2012

han_25

《请你敎我爱你》

han_25 - 4 hours ago
《请你敎我爱你》

26/04/2013

 

如果我是你的心上人,那请你伸出你的手来引导我去爱你。

han_25

《迷宫、角尖》

han_25 - 4 hours ago

《迷宫、角尖》

 

每个人心中都有一个迷宫,自己编制的牛角尖,自己就不断在哪里来来回回,直到生命的尽头。

 

2015/03/28

Fire415

"Stupid Little Things"

Fire415 - 9 hours ago

 

So I just recently sat down to revisit this site and found a discovery...a blog!  Oh yeah, really! I know there are numerous sites out there that offers the same feature but why this and why now. Well, just like the name it represents, I'll go give it a try...but on my own terms. So it's not because of social media, since I don't even have a Facebook account. Nor Twitter or LinkedIn. 

Although, many of my friends asks me constantly why not...even my own blood siblings. My answer is...why should I have to? Now to the real reason why I did all this is because I want to thank Anastacia once again...for these "Stupid Little Things." I've been listening to your albums and collaborations ever since I stumbled upon your "I'm Out of Love" and truly admire your un"Defeated" "Ressurection"...dare I say...I did it to myself?

 


asiannewsagency

World Happiness Day at United Nations Information Centre

asiannewsagency - 10 hours ago

The General Assembly of the United Nations in its resolution of 12 July 2012 proclaimed 20 March the International Day of Happiness recognizing the relevance of happiness and well-being as universal goals and aspirations in the lives of human beings around the world and the importance of their recognition in public policy objectives informed Kiran Mehra Kerpelman, Director of UNIC.
“It’s a great day for everyone, we must learn to keep our self happy with given resources and circumstances. We must work hard to fulfill our desires to be happy” said Sandeep Marwah of Marwah Studio Ambassador of International Human Rights Organization affiliated to United Nations.
H.E. V. Namgyel, Ambassador of Royal Bhutanese Embassy who was the chief guest of the occasion reminded that Bhutan took the initiative with UN to declare 20th March as World Happiness Day.
Rajev Chandran of UNIC, Ashok Tyagi of ICMEI, H.E. Tomasz Lukaszuk Ambassor of Poland, Sanjaasuren Bayara Ambassdor of Mongolia, Dr. Janice Darbari Honorary Consul General of Montenegro were the important guest present there.

joeron

Ringtone - silent

joeron - 14 hours ago

#Libra : Here's my number. Text me only, I ignore my calls.

thenyx

thenyx - 23 hours ago

... and i didn't realized the blood stain was from my finger. 

ooops.

 

lp320

宅女

lp320 - 23 hours ago

我曾经认为,我们身边的好朋友其实像金字塔,年纪越大会越往上推,会越来越少。

这些年,我身边还是只有几个好朋友,是那种我有事或她有事都会菝刀相助的好死党。

生活越来越来宅了,纵使认识的人越来越多,有地位的有名利的,以前曾经崇拜他们,后来认识了,只觉得其实他们还不是“人”吗,而且有些还不配做人呢。

生活越来越宅了,有时间,我只想和你黏在一起,或是和家人一起。曾经的风花雪月,已经不相干了。

佛陀说人生的路只有自己可以走,是的,纵使身边有如此多人围绕,有爱人有家人有死党,可是人还是孤独的,到最后其实要面对的也只有自己,不是吗。

任性的拿了三天假,只因不想和风花雪月扯上关系。是的,如果有多余的时间,我还是喜欢拿一本书,和你好好的在露台聊天喝酒。人生本来就是要简单。

lp320

美女

lp320 - 23 hours ago

什么是美女?在你心中,对美女的认可是什么?

记得小时候,美女是我家的邻居姐姐,隔壁班的班长或学长,电视荧幕上的明星美女,或是偶尔擦肩而过的美女。

后来,我发现美女还要有气质。于是开始喜欢上那些喜欢看书或是躲在图书馆里的美女。之后,我发现原来美女是我暗恋的人,现在的“她”也曾经让我觉得是美女。于是,我身边还是有许多络绎不绝的美女出现,生活没有单调过,反正欣赏“美女”本来就是赏心悦目的事。

直到有一天,我发觉原来美女也是很可怕的,有一些还会害人,有一些有毒的,有一些实在世俗难耐。有一些只可以看一眼,看多了会腻。

后来我不小心遇到了她,原来美女也可以是一种感觉,因为你得不到她,所以你会觉得她很美。

然后的然后,美女真的可以是一种感觉,于是,我身边还是有很多络绎不绝的美女,而且最近因为常出国参加艺术节,还遇上不同国家的美女,也见识了“波斯猫”的美艳,还曾为此心动。 

我曾和朋友自嘲,我只是属于Grade B的,偶尔会降去C,尤其在生气的时候。但是总是努力把自己提升去A,虽然这是个永远不会达到的目标。

于是,还是很幸福的,身边继续有络绎不绝的美女。直到,我最近发现尽然有美女会让我有作呕的感觉。那是很可怕,难道我洁癖到如此?

唔,不是的。而是这班小妹妹美女的行径实在让人厌恶得发指。人生还是第一次有看美女看到想作呕的,想必,她们还真是魔女下凡了。她们的行为实在不配这般身材很美貌,是上天配错了吗。

是的,随着年纪的增长,原来,美女是你看了会觉得内心温暖或是会心一笑。唔,美女就是你我身边做好事怀好心的善女子,那些世俗难耐的,还是滚一边吧,不管你怎么修饰,还是那么的世俗难耐。奉劝你们一句,请多读一点书,别老把是非挂嘴边,枉费了上天给你的那一身美貌。

lp320

我们是来这个世界修行的。

lp320 - 1 day ago

这一两年,我发现越来越不容易相信任何人了。对于人性,其实我是有少许失望的。

有时可以说是失望到极致。我的洁癖越来越严重了,不容许家里有点滴灰尘,不容许作品有少许瑕疵,把事情做到最完美最极致,把自己的推到了深渊,我想有点感觉不想活过来了。

有时候,想把自己推到了尽头,然后就这样结束,事情不能成就是结束。有时我想前世是不是宋朝的人啊。后来师父说了:一件事情的成败和完美与否是由很多条件和因缘形成的,如果已经尽力了,没有必要把事情要求到最极致。我心里实在哭得无法自己。

是的,优美的中华文化已经一去不复返矣,你做的事情其实没有多少人能理解,精致有深度的艺术本来不是普罗大众能接受的,你又何苦为难自己呢,你有何苦解释呢?

内心理解那份美不就可以了吗,为什么要向肤浅的人委屈自己?为什么要向肤浅的人妥协?

这一年,很难熬。面对这班肤浅的小麻雀,我的确妥协了很多,是的,我已经老了。只有佛法能让我继续走下去,我们是来这个世界修行的。

asiankiwi

Number 2?

asiankiwi - 1 day ago

 

 

Have you ever “love” someone out of pity?  Whereby the person actually fall really deeply for you but you felt that you simply couldn’t love her as much as she loves you?  Though at the back of your head you felt that you simply couldn’t do better than her.  She could be kind, be attentive, be generous, be good looking and ultimately love you and only you and treated you like the princess (or prince) you so wished for?

 

I know a lot of people like that, I once was like that too.  I don’t really care much for chemistry or passion or those tiny knick knacks such as gooey eyes and hair rising.   I thought that it is simply enough that the person loved me with all her heart and eventually I will fall in love with her too.  That doesn’t happen very often (the fall in love part) but it did happen, only once in my life.   The others, well, they ended up rather badly. 

 

Nowadays though, wiser and perhaps kinder, I no longer believe in pity love.  I don’t think it is fair for anyone.  I once had this girl who was so in love with me that she actually told me that she doesn’t mind being the “number 2” when I didn’t even have a “number 1” because she felt that I would eventually fall in love with someone else, but in the meantime she won’t mind that happen so long as I would give her a chance.  Sounds sweet?  Well, maybe to certain parties, but these self-wallowing and self-depreciation character is simply not that appealing to me (but that’s just me, there might be many others that could be moved, like some kind of TV drama).   

 

We should never ever be someone’s number 2, it is a degrading position to be at and you deserve better.  All those blahs about love is enough is just purely stupid.  If the person love you enough you would always be number 1 or else you are basically… for the lack of a better word.. whoring yourself.  Do you deserve that?  No, a resounding no. 

 

I recently connected with someone whom I once loved, and loved ever so deeply too.  I would have done anything to be in her good grace.. or even just to have her smiled at my jokes.  We stopped contacting for close to a year before she miraculously came back into my life.  A lot of my friends predicted that I would fall back in love with her with a snap of a finger, they are probably right to, there is a certain appeal about her that I find irresistible.  That said, I also realized that she held a torch for her ex.  She refused to admit to it, and whenever I brought it up, she would dispute and gotten slightly angry with me (what is with women and their bad tempers?), but I am consciously armed with that knowledge.  I will never ever be someone’s number 2, I don’t mind being a friend, or someone whom she can come to anytime she needed an emotional and esteem boost.. but I would never make the move on her again, once bitten twice shy.  I have this guard so thick that it puts Ford Knox to shame. 

 

So my point today, though I am rambling a bit (being ridiculously sick and medicated does that to me) is that you are better than being number 2 of someone’s life.  For many cases, you might even better than being number 1 if you wished to settle.  Don’t.  Be free, be yourself, be the best of you so even the worst of her will love you for you. 

sat_sat

留下陪你生活.....

sat_sat - 1 day ago

 

 

留下來陪你生活

作詞:陳樂融
作曲:張小雯

你聽過千百首歌 真實的日子還是一個人過
而一個人的脆弱 和許多心都相通
你的我的他的 我們同在一個夢裡走

我曾經傻的可以 癡心想抱住那麼大的地球
讓有緣人能結合 讓暴風雨都沉默
現在相信命運 比我們每個人都懂

我想留下來陪你生活
一起吃點苦 再享享福
我想留下來陪你生活
幸福不要多 只要我心感覺夠

我想留下來陪你生活
一起流點汗 再唱唱歌
我想留下來陪你生活
故事不要多 只要精彩就足夠


p/s:真心喜欢这首歌,好好听。最近的日子,有少许的无奈,不过有了这首歌,真心觉得,世界有了伟大的音乐,真的,再大的事情,也是很卑微的事情。有歌,有心,有我就好了!

挥不去的,就让他留在小溪里,慢慢的,流进大海。
惊觉,原来所谓的执着是固执。
简单,就是幸福。

:)


joeron

In th middle of the night

joeron - 1 day ago

Dear shameless twin,

Do you still woke in the middle of the night? 

Do you still have many weird dreams? 

AshleyJo

Legacy.

AshleyJo - 1 day ago

 

What do i want?

Do i want a job that pays well, one which saps my creativity and douses my fire?

Do i want to work for comfort or to live for passion?

Do i want my soul to be surrendered or my light to be rekindled? 

I want my heart. And i want my life to be a legacy.

 

- lucia

Mahayana

蜕变

Mahayana - 2 days ago

他说我变了

也许吧

人终究要成长

 

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