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Sandeep Marwah Designated Global Cultural Minister at International Conference

asiannewsagency - 2 hours ago

Noida: Representatives of nine countries participated including Nigeria, Tajikistan, Sri Lanka, Mauritius, Vietnam, Nepal, Afghanistan, Ghana and India in an international conference on Changing Trends in Media and Skill Development organized by the Skill Development Council of ICMEI- International Chamber of Media And Entertainment Industry in association with Ministry of Skill Development And Entrepreneurship, Government of India at Noida Film City.
The case study of oldest skill development school-Asian Academy of Film And Television with its 101 international and National organizations was the topic of the discussion.
Edirin Patience from Nigeria noted down the presence of Sandeep Marwah in Nigeria and the role of Indo Nigerian Film Association. Raju Prasad Sah from Nepal appreciated the appointment of Marwah as Chairperson of Indo Nepal Cultural Forum by the Prime Minister of Nepal H.E. K.P. Sharma Oli. Fida Mohammad Salih from Afghanistan liked the idea of Marwah Studios of producing films in joint venture with Afghani film director under Indo Afghanistan Cultural Forum.
Heman Bissessur from Mauritius valued the meeting of Marwah with the Prime Minister of Mauritius H.E.Anerood Jugnauth. Sachithra Darshana Perera from Sri Lanka was informed of the visit of high profiled delegation from Sri Lanka at Marwah Studios.
Bahrom Rahmatov, Saidkarim Rahimov, Sattor Fakerov, Sharafdzhon Razzokberdiev, Abdurakhmon Nadzhmidinov, Gulsun Muminova and Savriniso IIyosova from Tajikstan, Nguyen Thanh Hoa from Vietnam, Francis Yaw Adu Boateng and Kawsara Osman from Ghana also spoke on the occasion.
Sandeep Marwah was later honored with the tittle Global Cultural Minister for his untiring efforts in bringing the whole World close to each other through art and culture. Ashok Tyagi Secretary General ICMEI, Dr. K.D.Gupta Senior Environmentalist, Dr. V.K.Goswami NASA Representative and former Vice Chancellor and Isaiah Anthony Writer from Nigeria were also present there.

megadiscc

never deprive yourself frm a good man

megadiscc - 8 hours ago

 

never deprive yourself frm a good man

 

never deprive yourself frm a good man

 

Stampine125

只想找个人聊天

Stampine125 - 20 hours ago
dollylwk

dollylwk - 20 hours ago

I want to fall asleep and wake up next to you ....knowing my heart is safe ... That's  all I wish for ... Every morning ...for the rest of my life ... Boo ... I need you here with me ... I love you ... 

Suga84

Cn you......?

Suga84 - 1 day ago

Let's lead till e end.... *Smirk*

dollylwk

dollylwk - 1 day ago

I love you ... Nothing.. Nobody and not even time will change that ...you came into my life when I thought I couldn't love anyone ... That I will just be alone for the rest of my life ... You give me hope to things I never date to wish for ...a wishful thinking that I will ever have a family of my own ... A home that I will feel warm and safe ...boo ...don't stop .. Fight for all this ... I love you ...

ghimmohguy

New technology

ghimmohguy - 2 days ago

Almost everyone I have moved to mobile apps nowadays so my poor Fridae account has fewer and fewer visitors. In fact I myself even seldom visit Friday nowadays! In the past I would log in and check for messages a few time a day. Now its once every few days. But I gotta say most of the good people I meet came from Friday. Those on apps, well, you know what they are like haha

AQua217

接受,不是認同自己的缺點,而是「允許它的存在」

AQua217 - 2 days ago
對許多人來說,接受自己光明美好的一面很容易,要接受陰暗醜陋面卻難如登天。如果你告訴他們得先接受自己,他們會氣急敗壞地說:「我為什麼要接受一個如此糟糕的自己?接受是改變的開始。接受自己的缺陷、接受自己目前的困境、接受自己能力的極限、接受自己就是無能為力、接受自己就是不如人、接受自己是如何討厭自己⋯⋯「接受」,代表有了「覺察」,而不是《視而不見》、《避之不談》。為什麼,有時候「接受」這檔事是如此困難?因為我們常常誤以為「接受」就是「認同」,當錯把接受當認同時,人生就會卡關。「認同」是帶有評價的,有是非、對錯、好壞之別,符合我們信念/價值觀的便容易認同,格格不入者便敬而遠之。「接受」,則是不帶評價,如實承認某些事物的存在。這樣的存在,沒有好壞的區隔、沒有高尚與低劣的差異。接受,是我們給出了一個空間,「允許」某些狀態的發生,無論好壞。
你可以不認同與你意見相左的人的觀點,但你卻可以接受這樣的觀點確實存在;你可以不認同某些法律的精神,但你卻可以接受這些法律在你身上確實發生了影響。所以,認同和接受是有著不一樣的意涵的。當我們明白了這點,便會發現接受的力量。許多人都有這樣的經驗:長期為失眠所苦,想方設法要自己一夜好眠,總是不得其門而入;越是想著如何能睡著,越是清醒得很。往往在放棄了設法入睡的企圖,同時承認自己就是難以睡著時,失眠的困擾卻奇蹟似地被擺脫了。面對情緒,也是一樣的道理。
我們的內在有無限的智慧,許多身體上或心理上的痛苦,其實是一些訊號,想對我們傳達某種訊息。當你願意接受這份痛苦、承認這份痛苦的存在,並允許這份痛苦有個存在的空間時,便能客觀、中立且不帶評價地觀察這份痛苦所要傳遞的訊息,而從這些訊息中讀取出意義--這便是要我們學習的地方,於是我們有了改變或努力的方向。允許你的情緒存在,把用在對抗負面情緒的力量拿回來,放在理解情緒所帶來的訊息上,從而獲得學習與成長。
我們討厭負面情緒,不論是愧疚、自卑、憤怒、憂鬱、恐懼⋯⋯等,總是令我們避之唯恐不及。然而,負面情緒從來不是問題,造成問題的常是我們因應負面情緒的方式。例如,我們害怕後悔,於是我們總是不願意冒險,總是在做決定時猶豫不決,最後做出最保守的選擇。我們卻錯過了許多機會,難以自我突破--我們仍然活在後悔之中。而當我們能夠理解,「後悔」這份情緒其實只是要告訴我們,現階段的選擇行不通,該轉個彎,做點不同的決定,就又有了新的開始。你會知道,後悔並不是壞事,只是個提醒,要我們做出新的選擇。
不過,唯有靜下心來,允許這些情緒存在,讓不斷對抗情緒而故障受損的心靈「暫時停機」,進廠審視檢修一下,我們才能真正聽懂情緒傳達出來的訊息,同時更清楚地看到,自己是如何一再重複那無效卻帶來更多麻煩的「情緒因應模式」。 列舉了十個生活中常見的負面情緒。在探討每一個負向情緒時,同時也帶入一些與特定情緒相關連的生活議題,各項議題其實都圍繞著「關係」,包括與父母的關係、與子女的關係、與親密伴侶的關係、與朋友的關係、與大千萬物的關係,以及最重要的--與自己的關係。
  1. 愧疚──疏忽了人際相處時的互惠與公平,需要做點事情去彌補。
  2. 委屈──處於沒有被合理對待的情境中,需要主動去爭取更多資源。
  3. 嫉妒──擁有的比他人少,需要更加努力提升自我。
  4. 後悔──原有的決定行不通,該轉向了!
  5. 孤單──需要為目前的生活建立起有意義的人際連結。
  6. 恐懼──危機當前,該換個方式去因應威脅。
  7. 憤怒──面對威脅、冒犯與傷害,給我們強大的力量去抵禦、反擊。
  8. 憂鬱──讓疲倦的身心好好休息,讓內心的傷痛自我修復。
  9. 失落──學會更加珍惜身邊的人、事、物。
  10. 自卑──尚有不足之處,帶給我們突破的力量,保護我們免於挫敗。
lhh79

<<我們>>

lhh79 - 2 days ago

偶爾我們會迷失方向,

不是因為自己忘記了本來的目標,

而是想起,身邊再沒有了某個人的存在。

 

你知道的,身邊的人很多,

只是你為某個人留下了一個專屬的位置,

一段只有你們才可以分享、一同經歷的路。

你曾經許願,可以與他同遊你們想去的地方,

一起完成你們年輕時的夢想;

即使他早已經不在自己的身邊,

很久不見,以後也可能不會再遇見。

你知道應該還有人可以把他代替,

但有些心結你仍是只想向他這個人傾訴,

仍是想讓他知道,

這些日子裡有過的快樂成就,有過的難過委屈;

你喜歡他,也許你至今仍然會如斯喜歡,

只是比起喜歡這種情感,

你更感恩這一個人在你最快樂的時候出現,

陪你成長、一同創造過多少難忘快樂的回憶。

你在他的眼裡,可以看見自己最率真的微笑,

他的一笑一語,會讓你知道你們有過最好的默契。

有他在,你甚麼都不會怕,

有你在,他也比從前更加快樂,

你們在對方身上找到失落的另一半,

也一起重新認識了從前被埋沒了的自己。

因此縱然後來你們還是各散東西,

你還是會希望他會過得好好的,會幸福快樂,

比自己要更加幸福快樂;

雖然他走了,留下了你,

還留下一些你至今仍然無法解答的問號,

但是你在無數個想念他的夜裡,

你終於明白,就算想念卻不可以再見面,

就算有些事情是可一不可再,

但原來自己也遇上過最難得的運氣,

在自己最不為意、還沒有準備好的時候,

和他這一個人一起擁有過最美好快樂的時光。

是因為他,才可以讓你知道,

自己是可以這樣快樂,是可以比起自己以為的界限,

可以更加發熱發亮;

是因為你,才可以讓彼此記起,

原來兩個人可以一起快樂,就算只是去做最無聊的事情,

可以說一聲「我們」,已經是最美好的事情了 ......

 

即使如今,你和他已經不再是「我們」,

將來或是兩條永遠不會再相交、也不會再平行的線。

你依然念記的,他未必還會在乎,

他遺下了的信,你卻不捨得丟棄,

就繼續念著那一個身影、留著那一個位置,

去完成你們沒有一起完成的夢想,

去活出一個沒有他也一樣精采的人生。

就算偶爾你會迷失方向,

會忍不住於附近尋找哪一個不應該會出現的身影,

但你知道,你只是突然好想念好想念,

卻不會再去找他、再去打擾;

你寧願讓回憶中的你們繼續走下去,

在另一個時空裡活出跟你們不一樣的人生,

偶爾讓你想念,偶爾提醒你自己,

不要忘記你本來也可以這麼快樂及自信,

別輕易放棄灰心,要相信自己的價值,

也希望他也會跟你一樣,活得更好更好,

就只是這樣而已。

雖然你們之後沒有後來,

但你們早已經為彼此的後來,留下了最珍貴的禮物。

就算如今他不在你的身邊,

但只要他仍在你的心裡,就已經是天長地久。

memnoch

Rest Stop

memnoch - 2 days ago

"...while you were sleeping, I was listening to the radio and wondering what you're dreaming when it came to mind that I didn't care..."

Matchbox 20

Lme1987

我好想你

Lme1987 - 2 days ago

近来追一部港剧又听回的一首歌 《我好想你》
个人觉得歌意甜中带点涩。但,如果听了这首歌,脑海里很自然地浮现了某个人,那也是很不错的吧。内心还是会有少少喜悦的 (若不在乎结果是悲是喜) 

再更早之前听到这首歌时,感觉挺不错的。还想说去K歌时一定要点来唱。显然地。。。我又忘记了。 >.<

下次一定要点这首了。

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjO3zQBPVpM

Never

Never - 2 days ago

Fate plays an important part in a relationship.

dollylwk

dollylwk - 2 days ago

Give us a chance ... Together we make our dreams and promises come true boo.. I be right here waiting for you ... I love you 

asiannewsagency

MAN OF ASIA-An International Award for Sandeep Marwah

asiannewsagency - 3 days ago

Bangkok: “ The contribution of Sandeep Marwah of Republic of India to the World media and entertainment industry is unbelievable. He is an institution in himself. The boards of directors of Paul Academy are honored in presenting this award to such a towering international personality. His aura is not less than any international leader of the World,” said Paul Narula renowned educationist and multifaceted businessman from Thailand.
Sandeep Marwah is a distinguished International media personality and five times World Record Holder. Sandeep Marwah once again honored at Bangkok on his visit to Thailand for his untiring contribution to the Media and Entertainment Industry.
Sandeep Marwah is the founder of Noida Film City, Marwah Studios, AAFT & Asian Education Group and chairing more than 100 international and national organizations in different capacities.
Marwah is the recipient of more than 400 awards from all over India and only Indian to be appreciated and honored by more than 60 times by 40 countries of the World.
The biggest contribution of Marwah is the first ever formation of International Chamber of Media And Entertainment Industry in the World. Being the founder of the chamber he has brought the whole world close to each other through art and culture.
He has been teacher and trainer to more than 12000 media professionals from 120 countries of the World. The most well travelled, most invited by foreign media organizations Sandeep Marwah has represented Indian media and entertainment industry maximum times.
The Governments and media and entertainment industries of Nigeria, Senegal, Belgium, Wales, UK, USA, Venezuela, Egypt, South Africa, Sudan, Bosnia, Romania, Tibet, Slovenia, Hungary, Serbia, Iran, Nepal, Bhutan, Chez Republic, Gabon, Poland and many others have honored Marwah from time to time.
The MAN OF ASIA, an international award for media and entertainment industry handed over to Marwah by Paul Narula Director Paul Narula Academy at Omni Towers at Bangkok on the official visit to Thailand.
“I am so thankful to Thailand for opting me for this most prestigious award. I will do my best to keep up to the award,” said Marwah in a very humble tone.

Sea_Music

Holidays are good

Sea_Music - 3 days ago

Note to self: Have more holidays. Just went on a road trip south: The Beach, Canberra and The Snow. Feeling refreshed.

Stampine125

Ring

Stampine125 - 3 days ago

A ring signifies never-ending love. 

A ring returned signifies love long gone.

Realised it was returned long before, taking it back and returning again.

Trying to bring back the love, not realizing it was long gone.

Perhaps it was meant to be, meant to be returned. 

Perhaps it was a hint long ago for me to let it go instead of being the only one foolishly working hard at the relationship.

When a person cease to see a value in you, it is better to leave with dignity.

 

 

 

 

dollylwk

dollylwk - 3 days ago

All I want to do is grow old with you... We shall walk through all our days ... Good or bad days... Holding hands and never let go ... I love you ... 

samsamsam

Intention vs Action

samsamsam - 4 days ago

Intention vs Action

 

Are they equally bad?

 

Scenario 1:

I am single and I like this girl,

 

I plot my steps in getting to know her and to date her since I know she will be buying coffee in this store at this hour.


But that’s just my intention, there is no action taken.


Will you all feel is a waste opportunity?

 

 Scenario 2:

I am married, had a wife and two kids and I like this girl,

 

I did the same plot as above.

 

And still there is no action taken, only an intention.

 

So now will you all still feel wasted?

 

Was having intention equally as bad as action? Or do you think it depend?


In my opinion (disclaimer: only my opinion, if you don’t agree is fine, don’t get angry), intention is just a thought and is not a crime so it do not consider bad.


Or you think ppl categorised in scenario 2 should not even had that intention?


Put it this way, do you think the poor would had intention to rob a bank and the rich do not have that same intention?


Is human nature, everybody cheat in some way, be it mentally (intention) or physically (action).


So now, do you all think monogamy is not realistic?


Come on, look at the bright side, it is realistic, fairy tale do happen la.


Have hope and have faith. So look for someone name faith and you will have faith. LOL

 

~~

yahoo0

Nothing

yahoo0 - 4 days ago

We come to this world with nothing, we will leave this world eventually with also nothing. Life is a zero sum game. Open up your heart and embrace the happiness of life.  

Nat7

心情真是烂透了。。。

Nat7 - 4 days ago

心情真是烂透了。。。

可不可以洒脱一点给个决定?如果真的不想出的话,勉强真的没有幸福

那么委屈又有何意义?我向来都不会强人所难,你真的觉得不好意思大可以随便找个借口给我是可以接受的,何必为难自己

 

算了吧。。。


p/s: 什么关系都好,2个人的感情都是需要相互去维持的

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