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If you are my girlfriend i will ....

sweettwenty - 2 hours ago

I'm looking for new sweetheart 

If you are my girlfriend i will .....

Talk to you
Kiss you slowly
Hug you.
Hold you.
Laugh with you.
Invite you everywhere.
Hangout with you and your friends.
Smile with you.
Take pictures with you.
Always hug you and say hi whenever I see you.
Kiss you unexpectedly.
Hug you from behind around the waist.
Tell you the way I feel about you.
If it seems like there is something wrong, i will ask you, if you deny something being wrong, it means you don’t want to talk about it, so i’ll just hug you.
Make you feel loved.
Won’t lie to you.
Won’t cheat on you.
Take you everywhere and anywhere you want.
Text messege or call you in the morning and tell you to have a good day at work and how much I miss you.
Be there for you whenever you need me, & even when you don’t need me, just be there so you’ll know that you can always count on me.
Kiss you on the cheek.
While in the movies, put my arm around you and then you will automatically put your head on my shoulder, then i’m gonna lean in and tilt your chin up 
i will stand up for you.
When walking next to you, i will grab your hand.
When I hug you, I wanna hold you in my arms as long as possible.
Call or text you every night to wish you sweet dreams.
Comfort you when you cry and wipe away 
Hold your hands in public.

If u r interested please drop me any messages at



The Island IV

AshleyJo - 9 hours ago


Shadows of my suspicions

Playing games

With different names, 

Of whom I love.


Remnants of my imperfections

Deluding senses

In similar fashion,

To where I belong?


With apprehension, i ponder

The palette of colours.

Reinventing the image,

Reconstructing the future

Of whom I love?


In truth and depth, i deny

The logic of black and white.

Deceiving the sight,

Deluding the eyes

By whom I love.


- lucia 


The Outlier.

AshleyJo - 13 hours ago


In statistics, data which are not representative of the research outcome are considered as the outliers. They do not fall within the normal distribution illustrating the pattern derived from the research analysis. And as a result, such data are often dismissed as if they never existed, even if they are presented as part of the research. Their existence do not matter in decision-making because they don't conform to the expected outcome.

I often wonder if i would be a happier person to just go with the flow and be part of the herd. At the very least, i won't have to fight battles and get frustrated when i need to defend my convictions, beliefs and sometimes even commitments. Sometimes i feel that my battles are made a lot tougher because ppl expect me to be conforming in my thought process and the way i behave/act/react just because i look mainstream. They never expect me to be that pricking thorn amongst the roses that causes the upset and imbalances. 

So yes, i contemplated to settle so that i will be "happier"? Then someone told me that when i'm an outlier, i will always be an outlier.


- lucia the outlier


Alone to the airport

Mahayana - 15 hours ago

On the way to the airport alone. What journey awaits me?



ling87 - 18 hours ago

While my friend believes that silence is the absolute poise and chose to remain -real- silent, I think that silence condones bad behavior.


Some people are bullies. They are unreasonable, manipulative, delusional, spiteful, and mean. If we let them get away with it by looking away and pretending that it's not happening, this is the world we are choosing to live in. We shouldn't condone and support evil through silence.


People need to say something when others are mean.


My friend mistakes fairness for honour. That's not true. If someone stabs me, I stab them back. That sounds very fair to me. People who create their own drama deserves their own karma. My honour stems from not doing it first. My pride stems from doing it better.


Her friends told her to -let it go, suah lah- a year back, look what happened? She went through their shit, she walks away quietly. They were still at it even after a year. They laughed when she is in hospital. They ill-wished her whole family, one by one, with pitiless specificity.



If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair. You are fooling yourself. What happened is an example. That's like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn't eat him.




myrage - 20 hours ago

I know a little garden-close,

Set thick with lily and red rose,

Where I would wander if I might,

From dewy dawn to dewy night,

and have one with me wandering.

- William Morris


The 'close' friend

ahlivava - 20 hours ago

I yearn to be the inspiration to others, to leave the positive impact on everyone that crosses my path. I want to be generous people who live a life that touches anyone. My random thoughts.

Lately has been dealing with life & death issues with friend around me. A young boy decided to end his life by jumping down the tall building at Toa Payoh. Up to date nobody is aware of the sudden suicidal thoughts. I wish he could have call somebody to confide to and maybe it might changes his thought to end his life. You will never know that someone speech or action may save someone life or causes someone death.

A timely reminder of how important it is to live well, not just for yourself also for the people you love. I’ve came so close to losing someone I love last year. During the time that she fought the battle in the operating theatre, her heart beat stopped beating twice. The doctors had to revive her heart with a dephilibrator. Comforting myself that if she able to fight this battle she will make it fine with a better health condition. Never will I know god just being tough on her which another ‘monster’ was found living right beside her heart. She was given a time framing which she only able to live on for a certain period. Life is really a short span we will never know when our time is up. Never do anything that makes you feel regret and unhappy. I don't want to be selfish to conquer all your precious time just by meeting me or my friend. I always encourage her to meet up with new friend so to widen up your circle of friend. 

Sad to say that even though we have been thru thick and thin, she changes her attitude towards me just recently. I’d foolishly convinced myself I had already overcome. Friend come and goes except for the true friend who will never fail to leave your world. For her case if god were to take her away from me, she will always have a place deep in my heart. I was pleasantly surprised what she has told me today that makes my heart break. Does having a new love relationship has got to do with neglecting the friendship if you truly care for me. I am not asking for often meet up like how we were in the past. I am just asking for you to respond on my messages and not simply ignore my text for an hour and happily brush me off with your excuses. Which she never ever done this to me before. Sadly whatsoever I’ve done for her, she always claimed that I don’t treasure her. I tried my entire mean to make her happy plan for some activities which she has never been or try before. Yet she always claimed that she cherish me so much because she had once loses me as a lover so she don’t want to lose me as a close friend. Within a month I want a change of our lifestyle and stop myself from meeting up with her often. She changes her behavior and blames me for not spending much time with her like how I used to be.

More specifically, I’d come to realize I am just a substitute in her life. We aren’t just normal friend as I’ve mention earlier. Even though I am attached I find time for her and spend time with her. What she did was simply swipe me out of her life cast me out. There’s too much incident that happened and make me came to realize that nobody will stay forever. The power of lips service doesn’t cost a cent. However it causes so much pain to trust that even she is attached, our friendship wouldn’t drift so badly. Nevertheless, I trust my feeling and instinct that which are the genuine friend that I’m able to grow old with and share my ups and downs. Sharing does not mean reporting. If you feel that you are reporting to your close friend then don’t share anything with me in future. Don’t blame me for being heartless. Don’t tell me that I’m no longer there for you. Don’t tell me it will never be the same anymore for us. I like to be in complete silence as I truly care for you as my friend. You are more than a friend to me. You came into my life open up my tight shut window, knowing tiny little details of my life and background. The ugly truth I never hide from you. I didn’t have to suppress my feeling of being vulnerable. I’ve did my part as to constantly sharing my stuff with you even though I chose to cut down our meet up. Everyone will have new friend passes by their life but that doesn’t mean I will forgo you and take the new friend as my replacement of you. Everyone appear in our life for a purpose. Losing you is equally as painful as losing you as a lover so close to family member. Last sentence just brought tears welling up my entire eyes. I don't wanna get affected by you anymore. Let's move on with our new life since that's what you want for us. I wouldn't feel greatly affected by just a normal friend. You always said that even though we can't be lover but we still able to be close friend. 

Its living purposefully, never taking anything for granted. 

Best Quote:

If you're going to stay... Stay forever

If you're going to leave.. Leave now

If you're going to change.. Change to be better

If you're going to talk.. Make sure you mean what you say. 




zainv - 1 day ago

once in a while...

i confuse about something

does love really exist

do you care what i wanted and needed

there's in some space, i am just nobody or someone

it's not that complicated but somehow complicated

what a joke


弦子 - 舍不得

Javian55 - 1 day ago



我知道那些簡訊聲你努力藏著 害怕我難過


不追問到底為什麼 是我最後的溫柔


但我們卻怎麼 一起哭了


我捨不得 可是時間回不去了

愛你很值得 只是該停了



我捨不得 最後一次抱緊你了

我們錯過的 錯了就算了

不用擔心我 我不愛你了


不追問到底為什麼 是我最後的溫柔


但我們卻怎麼 一起哭了


我捨不得 可是時間回不去了

愛你很值得 只是該停了



我捨不得 最後一次抱緊你了

我們錯過的 錯了就錯了

不用擔心我 我不愛你了


至少你記憶裡的我 是微笑的

親愛的 有你牽著我的那些日子



我捨不得 可是時間回不去了

愛你很值得 只是該停了



我捨不得 最後一次抱緊你了

我們錯過的 錯了就錯了

不用擔心我 我走了







A short story XI

ling87 - 1 day ago

What happened to a friend.


A simple thread of events.


She lie to a jealousy, anger and mental disruption girlfriend. Jealousy, anger and mental disruption girlfriend comes and anyhow attack. One post from me, jealousy, anger and mental disruption girlfriend level up her anyhow attack. They advanced their bullying, harass her ex and her innocent friends, both online and offline.


Yet she thinks that she is the victim.


They taunt and harass her ex for years. I merely give them a taste of their own medicine for months here, and they started name calling, they think that they are the victim.


Is this the karma?


Children never admit that things are their fault, animals can't either, so don’t expect them to. But anyone else will know that this makes sense. That this is the truth. She is the cause. It's because of her.


And this is the karma.


But, like a child, they won’t take responsibility for it.


She posted that her mother told her that “Some people are like wild animals, feed them for years and they will still come and bite you”?



Isn’t that referring to herself? 



Gotta be somebody

Torekka - 1 day ago

This time I wonder what it feels like
To find the one in this life
The one we all dream of
But dreams just aren't enough

So I'll be waiting for the real thing
I'll know it by the feeling
The moment when we're meeting
Will play out like a scene straight off the silver screen

So I'll be holdin' my own breath
Right up to the end
Until that moment when
I find the one that I'll spend forever with

'Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
And everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that

'Cause nobody wants to do it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there

Tonight, out on the street out in the moonlight
And dammit this feels too right
It's just like deja vu
Me standin' here with you

So I'll be holdin' my own breath
Could this be the end?
Is it that moment when
I find the one that I'll spend forever with?

'Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
And everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that

'Cause nobody wants to do it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there

Nobody wants to be the last one there
And everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There has gotta be somebody for me, oh

You can't give up, (when you're looking for)
A diamond in the rough (cause you never know)
When it shows up, (make sure you're holding on)
Cause it could be the one, the one you're waiting on

'Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
And everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that

'Cause nobody wants to do it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there




Hellokittylove - 1 day ago


one of the best feeling in the world is knowing thats your


both mean something to someone..





IceWorks - 2 days ago

It started with a bang, literally!

Praying for my sleep deprived days to be over soon.

I went up today, the smell of fresh paint got me a little excited though I was really tried and the blazing sun outside was reminding me of the hours more before I leave office to start another battle at home... 

Walked abit around the place, meddled with the lights and off I went.

On my way back to office, I cant help but feel a little bit so proud of myself for pulling this together.. Im still trying to figure out how I did it. *patPat*

I guess, its not all over yet and I still have other things to figure out once I'm done with this, but I realised that I am thriving under all the stress and begin to ask myself if the past was all too easy for me and should I have started earlier,what and where will I be now..

Maybe, they are right, once you channel your energies correctly, good things will come and words just cannot describe how I felt overcoming all the obstecles in along the way.

Maybe, I have grown up, maybe I just needed that punch in my face to wake up my freaking idea.

I have quite a bit to be thankful for on this journey and I believe there are adventures out there waiting for me...

Akan Datang.... ;P



Be Positive !!!

Gdnite - 2 days ago







fatbird - 2 days ago

As much as I have tried to shut out negative thinking and encouraged positive thinking, some things just need to be ranted. I regard it as a process of detoxification to get rid of the unhealthy elements that are affecting my mental well-being.

So in the case of the friend with the manipulative and controlling girlftriend, I decide that I have had enough of their drama. My mistake was caring too much for this friend. My sympathy towards her has orginated in the few days when she traveled overseas to see the girlfriend, seeking resolutions to their differences, only to be stonewalled by the girlfriend for her entire stay there. 

When the unlikely pair finally re-coupled, I suddenly lost my identity. Whenever we met up, I would suddenly become a colleague of hers, or her college friend, or her sister, as if the phone call from her girlfriend (checking her whereabouts) was the wand of an evil witch which transformed me instantly into something else.

I have finally had enough and it's time to weed out such a miserable couple out of my life. 



Gdnite - 2 days ago

我相信因果报应, 最近才发觉这阵子我遇到的事情,正是以前我所面对过的事情,如今就一模一样的发生在我身上。想想现在发生这样的事,也算是好事。因为我知道感觉语言会欺骗人的情感思维,所以用时间用心看人才最为真,但我明白只要是人都会说谎会欺骗会自私。因此,现在发生的事情我会选择不去拆破,一笑自之就好。前提觉得没有这个必要,二来我发觉其实人与人之间,大家都是萍水相逢,所以君子之交还是淡如水好。但能不能不要再我面前说谎?你说得不累,我听多了都觉得累和厌烦,麻烦你学会看好就收,要知道一句话“纸是包不住火”的真理。
有时候说得自己多好多好都没用, 人终究抵不过时间的洗礼,时间会告诉我们事实。结果就是也不过如此而已 ~~~

Don't worry, be happy. 
Life goes on, cheer up !!!



yeoh - 2 days ago




windy_442 - 2 days ago

 How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yours.


A fridge magnet

LasCeu - 2 days ago

A close friend recently got us 2 fridge magnets as souvenirs. She got the one with the words "What are you thankful for?"

To which I read it out aloud and asked her.

Knowing that she's not an expressive person and actions tend to speak louder than her words, i was not expecting any reply and thought that she would shrug off my question. Surprisingly, she answered with no hesitation.


I do have to admit, despite being together for some time already, I do feel touched with that reply of hers. Enough to prompt a wide smile on my weather-beaten countenance.

These little things....that go unnoticed...



Hellokittylove - 3 days ago

you will find as you look back upon your life, thats your moments when you really lived were the moments when you have done thing in the spirit of love,cheers up..

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