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Stinks

Out of words. Oh so chunky.

Stinks - 4 hours ago

Was it you who spoke the words that things would happen but not to me

Oh things are gonna happen naturally

Oh taking your advice and I'm looking on the bright side

And balancing the whole thing

Oh But at often times those words get tangled up in lines

And the bright light turns to night

Oh Until the dawn it brings

Another day to sing about the magic that was you and me

 

Cause you and I both loved

What you and I spoke of

And others just read of

Others only read of the love, the love that I love.

 

See I'm all about them words

Over numbers, unencumbered numbered words

Hundreds of pages, pages, pages for words

More words than I had ever heard and I feel so alive

 

Cause you and I both loved

What you and I spoke of

And others just read of

Oh and if you could see me now

Oh love, love

 

You and I, you and I

Not so little you and I anymore

And with this silence brings a moral story

More importantly evolving is the glory of a boy

 

Cause you and I both loved

What you and I spoke of

And others just read of

And if you could see me now

Well then I'm almost finally out of

I'm finally out of

Finally deedeedeedee

Well I'm almost finally, finally

Well I'm free,

Oh I'm free

 

And it's okay if you had to go away

Oh just remember the telephones were they workin' in both ways

And if I never ever hear them ring

If nothing else I'll think the bells inside

Have finally found you someone else and that's okay

Cause I'll remember everything you sang

 

Cause you and I both loved

What you and I spoke of

And others just read of and if you could see now

Well I'm almost finally out of.

I'm finally out of, finally, deedeeededede

Well I'm almost finally, finally, well out of words.

ct_vision

A look back on this past week.

ct_vision - 8 hours ago

Tuesday, Friday and Saturday. Drunk 3 times this past week and it’s starting to feel all too familiar. Promised myself before that I’d slow down with the drinking. Not doing myself any favours pushing my liver and body so hard. Looking back at this week, I could have handled it better.

 

I was upset on Tuesday. All the stress at work and all my external commitments have started to take a toll on me and I didn’t realize until a trigger set me off and I momentarily imploded. I need to find a way of relaxing and letting off steam apart from my fight and physical training. Everything in my life is so logical and hard. The softest most emotional aspect of me is my dog. But the setback to that is that he’s still a living being that needs me. I don’t have an emotionally support. Which I think explains why I ran to Miss ENFP on Tues night.

 

Friday night was a freak accident. I didn’t plan to attend the Ops & Tech year end party. I gate crashed at a passing comment from a senior colleague who expected me to be there despite not being from Ops or Tech. I just thought it’d have been nice to catch up with colleagues to thank them for the hard work they’ve put in all year over a drink. That one drink got out of hand. I wonder why though. I’m usually very measured at company events. Was very thankful that I had trusted friends who watched over me and took me home. Am I more stressed than I actually realized or acknowledge?

 

Saturday - I think I know why I let myself go. Miss ENFP and I went to a friend’s house warming. As the champagne and laughter flowed, I realized I was getting more comfortable and less nervous. My friends love her and she looked like she was having a great time being around them. I was so comfortable to the point I forgot my body doesn’t handle shots well. Mixing champers with 2 shots of gin wasn’t a good idea. My friend was being very generous with his pours to make sure everyone was having a good time. When he took out the bottle of gin and shot glasses, I should have politely declined as I usually do, but didn’t. And I remember doing something I don’t usually do. Miss ENFP clearly wasn’t doing well with the gin and I took half her shot for her to save her from being polite. 2 glasses of champagne and 2.5 shots of gin wasn’t much per se. But mixing the 2 on an empty stomach drove the alcohol right in my system. By dinner, I was starting to hit a wall and didn’t have my senses about me to avoid the can of beer that was placed in my hand. By the time we got to the “Ping Pong” bar, the cocktail of various alcohol started to wrestle my mind for control. I took 2 more sips of raspberry vodka and my inhibitions faded. She looked beautiful as always and I remember wanting to kiss her. So I took the raspberry from the glass placed it on my lips and fed it to her. I acted on instincts and impulse. Second time I’ve kissed her and this time in public. I’m not doing very well keeping my promises to her at this point. And I can’t say I’m proud to be compromising on the commitment I made to her. She held me by the hand and led me out of the bar. As we stood along the road trying to hail a cab, the cool evening air tingled my body and being in such close proximity to her only fueled my desires. We kissed again and I started to realize I didn’t want to stop. I tried walking it off to regain more control over the alcohol in my system.

 

It’s starting to feel very real. She’s the first person I’ve fully let behind my walls. I don’t think I’m in love with her (yet). But it’s been so long (9 years now) since I’ve been in a committed relationship, I question if I still know how to love or if I am even capable of being in a relationship. When I kiss her, I feel butterflies in my stomach and a warm flame burning inside. I feel like a teenager again, but not quite. There’s a feeling of safety and security. But I remember that I need someone who is strong enough to want me, but not need me. That’s why I going to give her space to love herself (more) and face up to the issues that are holding her back.

 

My friends are such lovely people. I texted them in the morning to apologize for getting drunk so early in the night, but all they’ve said is that she’s wonderful and they hope to see more of her.

 

Stampine125

不要质疑我对你的好,对你的爱

Stampine125 - 9 hours ago
dollylwk

dollylwk - 9 hours ago

Boo ... I don't know how long the wait ... but if waiting means able to be with you ...:I will wait ... l love you ...

hard4rock

hard4rock - 16 hours ago

cool00

你不懂

cool00 - 20 hours ago

只想

诉完苦后,你可以给我一个拥抱,

紧紧的一个拥抱和一句:“傻瓜,没事,不要乱想。'。。

 

 

 

 

 

 

尤其是此时此刻。

你现在在努力地潇洒离开吧

Mahayana

LMFAO

Mahayana - 21 hours ago

People can really slurp up whatever bullshit they wanna believe because they are such mindless believers. 

princesszz

(24) The Discovery Of Genesis

princesszz - 1 day ago

 

(authors CH Kang & Ethel R Nelson)

The Chinese script tells the story of creation and more. Before the BIble even existed!

 

 

CREATION OF ADAM & EVE: 

Then the Lord God formed man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and man became a living being.

 

 

(Genesis 2:7)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

GOD FORBADE THEM TO EAT FROM THE TREE OF THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOOD AND EVIL

"It's only the fruit from the tree in the middle of the garden that we are not allowed to eat. God said, 'You must not eat it or even touch it; if you do, you will die.'"

 

 

 

(Genesis 3:3)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

THE GREAT FLOOD & NOAH'S ARK

The Lord said to Noah, “You and your entire household (8 persons) go into the ark, for you alone I have seen to be righteous before Me among this generation. In seven days I will cause it to rain on the earth for forty days and forty nights, and every living thing that I have made I will destroy from the face of the earth.”

 

(Genesis 7)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

dollylwk

dollylwk - 1 day ago

Boo ... I love you then ... I love you still ... always have and always will .. never stop till the very end ... for this life time ... the next ::. 

darke

再来- 下集

darke - 1 day ago

互相要求求不得

互相需要要晓得

互相错误不自责

互相急耐心急不得

Stinks

It had to be you

Stinks - 2 days ago
Stinks

Gold is mum's best friend

Stinks - 2 days ago

Mum spotted my favourite Van Cleef Arpels ring that I wore since yesterday. 3mm Pink gold soft and slender tendrement wedding band as mentioned in VCA website. Ha.

There are only a few things in life I really feel for and this simple clean looking chic is one of them. Mum questioned why is it on my engagement ring finger? when obviously I aint engaged to anybody but to myself.

I am taken by surprised that she actually noticed it as it is so so tiny. She always complained about having poor eye sight? but when it comes to spotting gold? She can spot it right a way? Not bad Mum! 

Verdict: Gold is good for testing mum's eye sight.


 


dollylwk

dollylwk - 2 days ago

Boo ... you are all my heart ever talk about ... I miss you ... love you 

Cold_Ice

Waiting

Cold_Ice - 2 days ago

Wating doesn't promise anything, wait at your own risk

cool00

愛情很簡單

cool00 - 2 days ago

愛情很簡單,找一個能讓你發自內心笑的人,然後,你也願意逗他開心。

相愛不容易,愛一個能讓你感動落淚的人,然後,你捨不得他難過流淚。

幸福很單純,對你愛的人多說聲感謝,然後,你們都懂得感恩對方的付出。

cool00

【不抱怨的幸福】

cool00 - 2 days ago

【不抱怨的幸福】

這也是一種吸引力法則,越喜歡抱怨的人,
越會吸引讓他抱怨的事(專注於抱怨的事),

...

但是當你心胸越開闊、越平靜,
多欣賞讓你快樂的事情、對方的優點,
漸漸的你的世界也都會充滿美好的事情。

你越討厭的事情,你越會注意、執著於它,
到最後,不快樂的還是自己啊!

很多人總是期待另一半要對他好,
但是,他沒想過也要讓對方有一樣的感受,
你要另一半怎麼對你,你就要怎麼去對他。
你總是對他兇、對他不滿,
這樣不平衡的關係,終究不會是幸福。

越抱怨,就會讓自己不幸福,
越不抱怨,越會吸引幸福。

cool00

【不要做一個「掃興」的伴侶! 】

cool00 - 2 days ago

【不要做一個「掃興」的伴侶! 】

很多人不知不覺變成了一個愛掃興的人,
對方為你做什麼,換來的只是你的碎念、
否定、嫌棄,最後,他得不到肯定,...
他就會放棄再對你付出了。

不要在一起久了,就不重視對方的感受,
或覺得理所當然,一切都無所謂,
他就應該包容你的壞脾氣、任性…
時間久了,他可能也會疲憊,
最終還是消耗掉你們的感情。

經營一段長久的關係,靠你的智慧,
經營一段快樂的婚姻,學會控制自己的情緒。

學著不去當個「掃興鬼」,
你會更快樂,對方也會更樂於和你在一起。

cool00

【「轉念」的力量:做自己情緒的主人】

cool00 - 2 days ago

【「轉念」的力量:做自己情緒的主人】

不要被別人的喜怒哀樂所主宰你的情緒,
你才是自己內心的主人!
如果你隨著別人的情緒起舞,...
你不就被控制、成為別人情緒的奴隸了嗎?

當我們內心越成熟、越強大,
我們越能「豁達、釋懷、體諒、放下」
學會控制自己的情緒,不被別人情緒左右。

當我們決定不被傷害時,
沒有人能傷害的到你。
當你「選擇」要快樂,
也不會有人讓你不快樂。

你的心越寬,你會更快樂,
快樂不是爭贏,而是不爭,
幸福不是吵贏,而是你願意讓他成為贏家。

cool00

經營感情

cool00 - 2 days ago

經營感情,記得常對另一半說「讚美、感謝、道歉」

很多人在一起久了,就變的很隨便、不尊重,
甚至講話變的不客氣,總是批評、抱怨、挑剔,
跟當初判若兩人。是感情變了還是你們變了?

...

經營感情最基本的是,說出讚美、感謝、道歉,
很多人說都在一起久了,有沒有說應該沒差吧?
其實,真的有差,而且差很多!

不要吝於說出讚美和感謝,
對你來說只是簡單一句話,
但對他來說,卻是心裡滿滿的快樂。
那麼,你為什麼要吝嗇說出來?

我覺得懂得在外稱讚另一半,
在外感謝另一半的人,是有智慧的伴侶。

兩人吵架,願意先低頭的,
是比較願意珍惜感情的人。
願意先讓對方的,也是比較在乎感情的人。

愛要「說」出來,要告訴對方,他才會知道。

cool00

【相愛重要,但適合更重要!】

cool00 - 2 days ago

【相愛重要,但適合更重要!】

經營一段幸福關係,最重要的基礎是在於,
你們是不是有共同的目標、想法,
以及價值觀、生活形態要相似。

...

很多人說,有共同興趣和話題很重要。
許多感情離異,不一定是劈腿外遇,
而是兩個人相處的不開心,
很多感情都是被生活瑣事、相處的小摩擦,
甚至生活習慣、彼此家人關係所磨滅。

兩人在生活形態和價值觀的適合很重要,
你要找跟你生活形態和價值觀上相似的人,
你們才會有共同目標去「經營」你們的感情。

兩個人沒有取得一個快樂的平衡,
或沒有一致的步伐,也很難走的長久。
唯有找一個真正適合你的人,
才能當一對快樂的伴侶。

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