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thenyx - 51 minutes ago
Jyne - 2 hours ago
If you love me
AriaJes - 2 hours ago
我发现人类只有一百岁命, 他们还不及后悔就死了, 历史一次又一次重复着。
"Stupid Little Things"
Fire415 - 9 hours ago
So I just recently sat down to revisit this site and found a discovery...a blog! Oh yeah, really! I know there are numerous sites out there that offers the same feature but why this and why now. Well, just like the name it represents, I'll go give it a try...but on my own terms. So it's not because of social media, since I don't even have a Facebook account. Nor Twitter or LinkedIn.
Although, many of my friends asks me constantly why not...even my own blood siblings. My answer is...why should I have to? Now to the real reason why I did all this is because I want to thank Anastacia once again...for these "Stupid Little Things." I've been listening to your albums and collaborations ever since I stumbled upon your "I'm Out of Love" and truly admire your un"Defeated" "Ressurection"...dare I say...I did it to myself?
World Happiness Day at United Nations Information Centre
asiannewsagency - 10 hours ago
The General Assembly of the United Nations in its resolution of 12 July 2012 proclaimed 20 March the International Day of Happiness recognizing the relevance of happiness and well-being as universal goals and aspirations in the lives of human beings around the world and the importance of their recognition in public policy objectives informed Kiran Mehra Kerpelman, Director of UNIC.
Ringtone - silent
joeron - 14 hours ago
#Libra : Here's my number. Text me only, I ignore my calls.
thenyx - 23 hours ago
... and i didn't realized the blood stain was from my finger.
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asiankiwi - 1 day ago
Have you ever “love” someone out of pity? Whereby the person actually fall really deeply for you but you felt that you simply couldn’t love her as much as she loves you? Though at the back of your head you felt that you simply couldn’t do better than her. She could be kind, be attentive, be generous, be good looking and ultimately love you and only you and treated you like the princess (or prince) you so wished for?
I know a lot of people like that, I once was like that too. I don’t really care much for chemistry or passion or those tiny knick knacks such as gooey eyes and hair rising. I thought that it is simply enough that the person loved me with all her heart and eventually I will fall in love with her too. That doesn’t happen very often (the fall in love part) but it did happen, only once in my life. The others, well, they ended up rather badly.
Nowadays though, wiser and perhaps kinder, I no longer believe in pity love. I don’t think it is fair for anyone. I once had this girl who was so in love with me that she actually told me that she doesn’t mind being the “number 2” when I didn’t even have a “number 1” because she felt that I would eventually fall in love with someone else, but in the meantime she won’t mind that happen so long as I would give her a chance. Sounds sweet? Well, maybe to certain parties, but these self-wallowing and self-depreciation character is simply not that appealing to me (but that’s just me, there might be many others that could be moved, like some kind of TV drama).
We should never ever be someone’s number 2, it is a degrading position to be at and you deserve better. All those blahs about love is enough is just purely stupid. If the person love you enough you would always be number 1 or else you are basically… for the lack of a better word.. whoring yourself. Do you deserve that? No, a resounding no.
I recently connected with someone whom I once loved, and loved ever so deeply too. I would have done anything to be in her good grace.. or even just to have her smiled at my jokes. We stopped contacting for close to a year before she miraculously came back into my life. A lot of my friends predicted that I would fall back in love with her with a snap of a finger, they are probably right to, there is a certain appeal about her that I find irresistible. That said, I also realized that she held a torch for her ex. She refused to admit to it, and whenever I brought it up, she would dispute and gotten slightly angry with me (what is with women and their bad tempers?), but I am consciously armed with that knowledge. I will never ever be someone’s number 2, I don’t mind being a friend, or someone whom she can come to anytime she needed an emotional and esteem boost.. but I would never make the move on her again, once bitten twice shy. I have this guard so thick that it puts Ford Knox to shame.
So my point today, though I am rambling a bit (being ridiculously sick and medicated does that to me) is that you are better than being number 2 of someone’s life. For many cases, you might even better than being number 1 if you wished to settle. Don’t. Be free, be yourself, be the best of you so even the worst of her will love you for you.
sat_sat - 1 day ago
In th middle of the night
joeron - 1 day ago
Dear shameless twin,
Do you still woke in the middle of the night?
Do you still have many weird dreams?
AshleyJo - 1 day ago
What do i want?
Do i want a job that pays well, one which saps my creativity and douses my fire?
Do i want to work for comfort or to live for passion?
Do i want my soul to be surrendered or my light to be rekindled?
I want my heart. And i want my life to be a legacy.
Mahayana - 2 days ago