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Irene_1980

new working environment.. :)

Irene_1980 - 3 hours ago

After 10 over years of shift work.. i'm back to office hour.. don't know is good or bad..

1dec is the first day.. have to get use to it.. miss my old colleagues.. ha ha.. is normal..

new environment, new colleagues, new boss..  give myself 1month to get use..

Hope to find new exercise buddies or new frenz.. need to adjust to new environment first..

New frenz, meet up for exercise? swim,cycle,badminton,table tennis,bowling or any other sport?

Go for short trip to oversea beach.. really miss the sun sand n e sea.. will see u fr mar onward.. :)

 

28nov14

 

Sky96

When I think of you

Sky96 - 5 hours ago

Memories flash

Sad and pain

But I do not know how to cry

Or I wouldnt cry anymore since then

ling87

ling87 - 6 hours ago


What I say offends her a lot, offends her so much that she have to go to people’s house and create a scene.

You know why it offends her?

Because it’s true.

She might be stupid, but she is not so stupid that she don’t recognise truth.

She might deny it, she might even deny it to herself, but she is not that dumb that she can deny it completely.

Her animal might probably be that stupid.

But I don’t think she is.

People that stupid aren’t that common. 

 

do-ra-emon

do-ra-emon - 11 hours ago

“Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder”

AshleyJo

Suddenly. Truthfully. Reluctantly.

AshleyJo - 11 hours ago

 

Just as i was at that junction again. 

For some strange reasons, M "suddenly" showed me some old pics.....of you guys back in the uni days and during your gatherings. And she "suddenly" asked me how you look now as compared to how you did in those pics. As i was trying to answer her Q, i scrutinised you in the pics......and i felt Breathless.

My answer to M: She's less skinny now. Other than that, the face is pretty much the same. Of cos she has aged and the youthfulness gone. But from the face in the pics, i feel......she is still who she really is deep down. With the same voice you knew. With the same passion & craziness you remembered. 

And i went quiet. Because i realised that the breathlessness was caused by a reluctant heartache. 

 

- lucia

myrage

her voice....

myrage - 14 hours ago

staying in my play pretend, where the fun, it got no end...Ooh.. 
LaVergne

The Sloth

LaVergne - 15 hours ago

The mind is blank. It has come to a point I failed myself with my own action, again. Egoism, stubborness and anger. What was I doing for the last 2 years? 

Relationships should move slowly, I trust, like a sloth. Time to learn about each other, time to grow together, time to build a strong foundation, time to understand each other.

I have been floating around without a "home" for a while now; it can be tiring and I want to go home.  

Suddenly love struck me down. Love me back like it was yesterday and this place will be ours forever. You know that.

 

Rlkb

Rlkb - 17 hours ago

Even if you are a minority of one, the truth is the truth.

mingsheng

Cum

mingsheng - 20 hours ago

He cum in my mouth. He made me suck him, to give him pleasure, and when he cum, he made me swallow his cum.

Sky96

月事吗?

Sky96 - 22 hours ago

刚和你说了几句,那感觉很痛,可能是感觉你的失望还是恨我了?我不知道,因为你都说我说了算,既然这样,也代表我们结束了,友谊也结束了。

 

是月事吗?9月份的这个时候,是和4月有关的事情,当时也觉得痛,加上后来她对你说的,感觉更痛。

 

10月份的这个时候,算是我们第一次吵吧,当时告知你我是想你的,是有感觉的。但我自私的不愿意给于承诺也不想你白白的等我,明明知道有一个她对你好,是我的烂好人作怪。

 

现在这时候,差不多有一个月吧。或许我刚刚不应该找你说话?就这样没聊天,心里面的难过难受不会比说了聊了过后糟。真的很痛。

 

你知道吗,当初我和4月之间,吵过后我的心就死了,也不留恋。对你却不一样,就一直觉得很痛,你懂吗?

 

这一切或许应该画上句点了,这样痛下去,对你,我不知道有没有影响,但是我有点承受不了了。我祝福你和她,祝你们幸福!

 

 

darke

懂了。。。。。。

darke - 1 day ago

我懂了,

原来爱一个人

不是把自己做到最好

只需要

让对方过的更好

Roku

有一种勇气叫放弃

Roku - 1 day ago

年轻时, 对待感情的态度没那么执着与坚定。只要遇到不如意或觉得没什么未来可言时,就会为自己寻找出路而轻易放弃一段感情,从而也伤了别人的心。

相信业障因果的人, 都知道因果循环是什么。我只因让人为我伤心流泪, 结果我也为他人而伤心流泪。即使我不处于受害者的地位,也会为某些错误的决定而之后感到难过, 或一份无法圆满开花的情意而伤感。

这世上是没有任何人不曾为情为爱伤感过的。只要你不是修行者,没断七情六欲,你必定至少要伤心流泪一次。除非你的血是冷的。

到了某种年龄的时候,思想也有些改观,心态也因为之前感情生涯产生了历练, 就稍微变得沉着, 又或者心没以前那么坚强。

最近阅读了一篇很长的文章, 关于三世轮回因果书, 相信一半, 纠结另一半。

如今的我, 只要能结交少许良友, 就足够了。

对于感情这回事, 我的心已失去勇气。。。

因为剩下的勇气已耗尽在放弃。

 

 

 

 

 

Ling1977

A Paradox in the World of Gay Women

Ling1977 - 1 day ago

As far as I observed, many gay women (at least in Malaysia and Singapore) like femmes, or women who are ladylike. However, it appears that femmes are not as numerous as butches and andros in the world of gay women. In other words (as most gay women will agree), femmes are always very popular and wanted by many people among gay women. In addition, there are many femmes who are only interested in femmes. This also explains why some femmes tend to be very picky when it comes to choosing partners/potential partners. We cannot blame them because there are really too many people approaching and pursuing them.

I think this is one of the important issues that gay women need to seriously ponder. I personally think that if we expect to see and get to know more gay women who are ladylike (although they might not necessarily identify themselves as femmes), we can consider making ourselves look ladylike to a certain extent, or try not to be too macho, if that is not your nature.

I always believe that if we want to change the world, we must first change ourselves.

P/S I have recently decided to keep my hair a bit longer because I don't want to look macho. After all, being macho is not my nature.

disulfidebonds

noel

disulfidebonds - 1 day ago

even the air tastes sweeter in your presence, my love

eiji0131

TwitCasting LIVE

eiji0131 - 1 day ago

TwitCasting

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Twitter

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Grinchgreen

Damn

Grinchgreen - 1 day ago

" I drank because I wanted to drown my sorrows, but now the damn things have learned to swim " 

myrage

The way that I live

myrage - 2 days ago

 

"I forgot love, the jolt from the kick,

Gave me a thrill that I sorely miss.

The branches I broke, 

The feelings I closed.

That's just the way that I live."

 

GuardianAngel69

GuardianAngel69 - 2 days ago

Faraway

winky_golf

好好地活着,千万别在乎太多

winky_golf - 2 days ago

如果你觉得委屈了:

  • 别解释,懂你的人,不需要你解释;不懂你的人,你不需要解释。
  • 别哭泣,因为眼泪流下,滑落到嘴角时是咸的。
  • 买点一直想吃却没吃的零食,找个清凉的小亭,吃到自己满足。
  • 不要用酒精麻痹自己,喝酒只是让你暂无意识,间接缩短你的生命而已。
  • 别跟自己过不去,傍晚的时候散散步,看看天,轻拂的风可以冲淡烦恼。
  • 看个开心点的电影,看看他们是怎样面对生活。知道了么?
  • 别怪别人,没有谁故意跟谁过不去,有时,他也只是不小心或者不了解。
  • 那就放声大笑,笑一笑十年少,十年之后,谁还记得当年的委屈呢。
  • 跟你最贴心的好朋友诉说一下,别闷在心里,压抑久了,会生病的。
  • 不要到处哭喊着博取同情,别人的同情太廉价,能珍惜你的只有你自己。
  • 实在忍不住了,只给自己放一滴眼泪的假,擦干眼泪的时候,忘记委屈。
  • 试着写写日记,用文字记录下点点滴滴。
  • 自己蹲下来,抱一抱自己。
  • 告诉自己,要开心……
每个没心没肺的现在,其实都有掏心掏肺的曾经;每个有声有色地爱过,其实就是有滋有味地痛过。缘分,聚散如云;人心,冷暖难觅;感情,动心伤情。其实没有什么过不去,过不去的只是自己的心。 回忆再美也只是曾经,再也回不去;结束了就是结束了,该继续的还得继续。人不能因为感情而失去自己,更不能为了失去而没了感情。有些风景再美丽,不属于自己的不必太刻意,有些剧情再入胜,自己不是主角不必太入戏。缘分的失去是别离,也是选择的再继续;感情的失去是放弃,也是放下的一种智慧。

winky_golf

心态

winky_golf - 2 days ago

当一件事发生,你可以喜欢它,享受它,不喜欢它,那就避开它,避不开那就改变它,改变不了那就接受它。接受不了是你的观念,别埋怨事情的本身。­要想事情改变,首先自己改变,只有自己改变,才可改变世界。聪明人看得懂,精明人看得准,高明人看得远。智者的声音是愚者的方向,无法放弃过去的无知,就无法走进智慧的殿堂。­在这个世界有两难:一是改变别人,二是改变自己。要求别人很痛苦,那改变自己应该很快乐。要改变别人,先改变自己!­最难打开的是心门,最难走的路是心路,最难过的桥是心桥,最难调整的是心态。要成为一个成功、快乐的人,要调整心态。

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