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gieny

Hey, i am back... 我回来了。。

gieny - 17 hours ago

将近19个月,没有上过这里了。

过去的19个月里,我换了工作。我搬了家。我升格当了老长辈。我遇到很多人,有陌生的,有熟悉的,从陌生到熟悉的,从熟悉变陌生的。我去过了很多地方,有第一次去的,有去了再去的。我看过了很多风景,我认识了很多新朋友,我体会了别人的人生,我爱上他人的土地。

19个月后的我,觉得自己充实了。觉得自己长大了。我没有买醉了,我常在家窝着。我没有谈恋爱,我只享受一个人的生活。我的书桌上多了好多书,我的吉他包多了很多歌谱。我没有听伤心的歌,我看开心的戏。我不再疯狂思念一个人,我常和朋友聊人生。我常计划下去去哪里旅行,我常发梦自己退休后的日子会是多舒服。

当然,这些改变并不是偶然的。在过去的19个月里,我曾经默默承受了很多诬赖,很多伤害,很多莫名其妙的事情,很多我没有头绪的东西。我被中伤,我被背叛,我被出卖,我被嫌弃,我被数落,我被冷落。我的名誉扫地。

我很感谢那些曾经伤害过我的人,那些让我痛苦过的事情。没有这些人,没有这些经历,今天的我,也不会看化人生,也不知道原来我其实并不脆弱,原来我可以撑过去。原来,我已经找到自己要的生活。

原来啊,时间真的是个最好的疗方。有时候当生活逼的你很累的时候,尽量让自己暂时离开。这不是逃避。短暂的休息,是给自己充电,然后再次出击。

心,开大点,什么事情都容易多了。

"生活就像一面镜子。你想要什么样的生活,就给自己什么样子。笑或哭,自己选择。"

 

Revene

27/7/17

Revene - 21 hours ago

Love is not superficial intentions .

detohs

Because i loved Perkins! There is no loss when you give someone your everything, you only gain—wisdom, lessons, understanding, forgiveness, and growth.

detohs - 1 day ago

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/if-you-really-loved-then-it-could-never-be-a-loss_us_59721564e4b0545a5c30ff8c?utm_hp_ref=relationships

 

1. And no matter what happens in the aftermath, no matter if you are mistreated or left, no matter if the connection fades, no matter if your heart is shattered and you can hardly stand in the end, giving yourself was worth it. Because i loved.

2. So often we look at our broken relationships as markers of our failure or success. When we see people we’ve parted ways from and we think we’ve made a mistake. We think we’ve wasted so much time with the wrong people and we get anxious over lost time. We hate ourselves, hate our exes for the time we’ll never get back.

3. Love can never be a waste. And there are no ‘wrong’ people, only lessons. Sure, we might fall into relationships with people who end up being terrible for us—people who may cheat or lie, abandon or leave us when we trusted them with everything.

But we cannot look at these failed relationships as worthless. We can’t think that we’ve lost so much time in this journey because every broken connection has taught us something, every love has shown us who we are, and every pain has helped us gain resilience, strength, and the will to keep on loving.

4. Because love is always worth it, no matter the outcome.

5. So please, remember that love was never purposeless. You have never failed just because of a failed connection, relationship, or marriage. There is no loss when you give someone your everything, you only gain—wisdom, lessons, understanding, forgiveness, and growth.

6. You have loved, truly loved, and that’s beautiful. You have loved, truly loved, and that’s worth every second in the end.

 

detohs

We Don’t Always End Up With The Loves Of Our Lives (And That’s Okay)

detohs - 1 day ago

An Beautiful Article Abstracted From Huffpost: 

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/we-dont-always-end-up-with-the-loves-of-our-lives_us_585997f4e4b04d7df167cb62?utm_campaign=hp_fb_pages&utm_source=lifestyle_fb&utm_medium=facebook&ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000032

 

Important Pointers that I love about this article were:- 

1. Sometimes we meet the loves of our lives, but we do not get to keep them.

2. Some people can love you more in a year than others could love you in fifty. Some people can teach you more within a single day than others could teach you over the entire course of a lifetime.

3. Maybe we just ought to be grateful that we got to meet these people at all. That we got to love them. That we got to learn from them. That we got to have our lives expand and flourish as a result of having known them.

4. Meeting and letting go of the love of your life doesn’t have to be your life’s single greatest tragedy. 

5. If you let it, it can be your greatest blessing. After all, some people never get to meet them at all.

Cocculine

Laugh till your tummy aches

Cocculine - 1 day ago

A good laugh is more than enough to to make my day.  Sometimes, it doesn't have to be romantic encounters, sincere yet interesting people are just godsend.  I really appreciate it :)

Mahayana

Ennui

Mahayana - 2 days ago

Max is tired. Victoria is bored. 

Chloe is emotionally unavailable. Max and Chloe don't even share the same bed anymore.

Nathan is safe and loving and romantic to Victoria. Nathan is boring.

Max is tired, Victoria is rejuvenating. 

Victoria is bored, Max is fun. 

A recipe for disaster. A concoction for trouble. But this cocktail is oh so deliciously good. 

(Just a head canon for a fic)

rainbowglow

70 years of artistic obsession

rainbowglow - 2 days ago

 

Some people are not made for this world, some people are too pure for it. I hardly knew anything about Yayoi Kusama prior to visiting her exhibits, apart from what seemed like deliberate happy, repetitive dot motifs covering  objects and surfaces.  

It wasn't till I examined her artworks more closely, that I understood just how much she poured herself, her soul, into her art to let the world know just what she was feeling.

If there was any girl who wore her heart on her sleeve so openly, it was she. Here she was, a Japanese girl who lived through war-torn Japan, traumatised by the atrocities of it, trying to make sense of her fears, her understanding of human behaviours. What seemed natural to others appeared unrelatable to her. She saw more than her peers, felt more than her peers, they couldn't understand her and that made her lonelier than ever. She'd thought her loneliness was due to the rigidity of her ethnic society, had thought NYC would mean finding likeminded mates only to discover the Big Apple was rife with its own societal rigidity too and she, being an Asian girl in a mostly white, male dominated art world, ended up feeling lonelier than ever.

It was rather heartwrenching interpreting her art. After learning her history, even her happier art pieces appeared innocent and child-like, literally like a child having found random bouts of joy or perhaps simply trying to find joy. Even the rainbow of dots couldn't detract me from seeing a tormented soul trying to obliterate herself into nothingness. However, it was the same trippy dots that made the rest of the world fall in love with her too. Hopefully, the positive recognition offers some consolation to her. One painting after the next, repetitive drawings of the same motif, sometimes akin to magnified molecules of human anatomy on a macro scale, sometimes shrinking masses of humans into molecules to showcase what she felt on a micro level. She's utterly brave to stay true to her spirit as a non-conformist, not as if she had a choice of course.

It was awe-striking to see her works, but once is more than enough. It's too sad for me to see how the world broke her bit by bit till she felt the need to live out the rest of her life in a mental asylum.                                                                                                                       

xanerious

xanerious - 3 days ago

Hokkien version of this part of the song... 

咁講你不知我愛的只有你 你啊你啊
哪會轉頭就要走
一個兩個三個 你愛的到底有幾個
麥擱講白賊話
我的心就要 痛甲一直流血

 

looping. don't really know chinese, but seems relatable.  lol.

s69

一个人的世界

s69 - 6 days ago

 

一个人的世界。孤独安静。

落下窗帘,晨昏不辨。似处于混屯之中。

外面的世界,遥远,诙谐昏黯。

Cocculine

Courage ~ Osho

Cocculine - 6 days ago

whenever I feel lost n low, I contemplate the meaning of life n the reasons of events. I never see life as a game coz it's not really fun but a temporary journey, it's true.

reading a book about courage by Osho, one of my favourite spiritual teachers.  I burst into tears in a cafe yesterday after reading only the first two page of this book.

sometimes, I wish there's someone to pick me up, but most of the time, I pick myself up n walk the dog.

detohs

Fondling & Missing

detohs - 1 week ago

According to Google Unconditional Love means as affection without any limitations or love without conditions. This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as true altruism or complete love.

  

Been 2 weeks aftermath, everyday she still ponder in her mind. No words can be describe, as she doesn’t know it LOVE or GRASP?! Can she love her unconditionally by wipping off her past? Will her able to change her habits and tie down to settle down instead hopping around? Does she have bio-polar disorder? Can she still be trusted after lies and endearing personalities.

 

Should she follow her heart? Well Observe before Open…… (to be continue)!  

Mahayana

Catharsis

Mahayana - 1 week ago

Reconnected with someone who is my Achilles heel. 8 years ago, she came into my life like a wrecking ball, with a darkness in her heart, and the naive me thought I could reach out and heal her wounds. But I was wrong. She came in like a wrecking ball and I became a train wreck. 

It seems like now she has changed. I dunno how true that is but from our conversation, she does seem to have let go of the worldly possessions which she once held on so fiercely. She apologized to me more than once for how she has hurt me. And that's definitely a change. I guess in a way, reconnecting with her is a mean of catharsis for me. 

Let the final darkness associated with her, bleed out, and scars to fade to nothingness. 

ur_chiko18

Finding MEMO :D

ur_chiko18 - 1 week ago

BOUT ME
...I'm Genver, ...from PHIIPPINES.
i understand what people say that i am too young...but it depends how you brought your self to person whom you talk with..I'm looking for a long term relationship!!!and hopefully it would last forever....!
I'm looking for someone who wants to know more about me....I'm also into friends. willing to meet new friends and explore and see what happens.
Every individual has his/her own identity and characteristics. He/she likes this while others don’t. I think I have to say something about me.

* I am genuine.
* I hate to be judged.
* I do understand things.
* I love truly and deeply.
* I am young yet a matured-thinker.
* I am proud of myself.
* I believe my capabilities as a decent human being.

WHAT I HATE MOST?
..... When someone is degrading me and my family! Nobody has the right to degrade people. Why don’t you define yourself? Face in the mirror and then see if you deserve to be degraded in return or not.
WHAT I DREAM MOST?
..... Finish my studies. I now realize how important education is. It doesn’t only emphasize the professionalism of the person, but the hard work and interest of learning something. AND THAT DREAM IS GRANTED!
WHAT I VALUE MOST IN LIFE?
*** My family! I conceive, without them, there’s no more reason to breathe and to live. They inspire me most of the time. They keep on guiding me and determining my existence. and hopefully my special someone 🙂

gateway11

Looking

gateway11 - 1 week ago

Hey you... reading my profile.... ya.. I'm a butch , looking for a gf.. how about you.

asiannewsagency

Sandeep Marwah Special Guest at Venezuela National Day

asiannewsagency - 1 week ago

New Delhi: Indo Venezuela Film And Cultural Forum extends its heartiest congratulations to the country of Bolivarian Republic of Venezuela and to H.E. Augusto Montiel Ambassador of Venezuela to India on its national day. Through films, art and culture we will be able to make strong bridges between the two countries,” said Sandeep Marwah President of Marwah Studios and ICMEI at the grand function at Embassy of Venezuela as a special guest.

“Venezuela is the country of love and affection. Our relation with India is more than just selling the Oil. Our relationship has grown many folds in last few years. We will take our relations to further height through large number of business together,” said H.E. Augusto Montiel Ambassador of Venezuela to India in a opening address.

The national anthem of both the countries were played with great respect and honor where Mansukh L. Mandavia Honorable Minister of State for Transport and Chemicals was   the chief guest of the Event.

The national Day of Bolivarian Republic of Venezuela falls on 4th July where large number of Ambassadors, High Commissioners, and people from all strata of life attended the event.

xanerious

xanerious - 1 week ago

Enough.

hugu

那年的情書

hugu - 1 week ago
detohs

Unconditional Love, Love and Lust!

detohs - 1 week ago

Been talking to S* recently, she told me when it came to love there is no right and wrong! I agreed as well. 

 

Im happy that she finally confirmed her relationship with No.01. Well what happen, No.01 has been her guardian angel for the past 2 years. He don’t mind she a divorcee with 2 children and he tuition her studies for MBA (although he busy with his work as a CFO). He always be there for her whenever she feel down, lost transiting bus or MRT, he always been there to support her whenever she in SOTONG mode. So lovely to hear that they finally together instead playing with guessing game and upsetting each other by posting remarks to make each other jealous or testing the heartbreak index instead telling each other that they miss or love each other.

 

Still remember S* was so hesitated to confess to him that she love him although he been there for her always. Both of them had been playing Pull & Fish Game for too long until they can’t get hold/control their own fishing rod anymore. I was thinking, it’s really necessary to play fish and pull game (hard to get/ flirting game) ? i wonder and puzzled. Can’t love be straight forward? [Its not applicable to all individual]   

 

Anywhere hope their love last after 2 years friendship and all the hard to get game! Pray for them!

 

Back to the topic of love & lust?! Well, if without love how to have sex?! Well my friends were debating that, some ppl just can have sex without love. I agreed and all depends on individual. In addition, it also depends during the progress/process of making love. Whether its fucking for sexual pleasure or making love to make ur partner comfortable and enjoy the feeling of exchange love. So it all come to intention and how much you love her and what you would like her to get instead self satisfaction. Most Girls, able to feel whether its making love of fucking?! So, we both agree the intercourse is part of enhancing the relationship and moments to embracing each other.

Missing her anot?! Yes! Its for Love or Lust?! (Only they will know)  

 

In next blog….we will chat about Unconditional Love.

 

 

asiannewsagency

Nichod-A Book of Punesh Anand Released at Marwah Studios

asiannewsagency - 2 weeks ago

Noida: Justice G.S. Sasthani of Delhi High Court released the first book of poetry written by Punesh Anand in a grand function at Marwah Studios, Noida Film City.

“The art of writing is the expression of your thoughts and feelings. The poetry book of Punesh Anand has added a lot to the literature when people are forgetting to write. I hope he continues to write and would love to be the part of his second book launching function too,” said Justice G.S. Sasthani while releasing the book Nichod.

“I have been appreciating Punesh Anand for his art of writing, he has reached to the stage where he has started talking in poetry. I have understood that he must be given an opportunity to come in public with his talent,” said Sandeep Marwah President of Marwah Studios.

“I am amazed and surprised by the organizing capacity of Marwah Studios who all have not only identified me out of crowd but also published my work in no time. From No where to Some Where-this is life. I am thankful to each and every one who has helped me in reaching to this platform and declaring me a Poet,” added Punesh Anand emotionally.

Sushil Bharti analyzed the poetry in detail and also read few of them in public. Mrs Maniderpreet Sasthani and Harsh Anand also spoke on the occasion.

The event was attended by large number of important people from different starta of life and supported by family and friends. Asian Academy of Arts and International Chamber of Media And Entertainment designed the launching function.

RainbowDash

Lifeless

RainbowDash - 2 weeks ago

When I am sick and you left me with a good bye, my world felt empty once again... 

I did my best and do everything with you in my mind but I guess it wasnt enough and you decide to bid me farewell instead... 

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