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hotshort

5.59am

hotshort - 12 minutes ago

我还没睡。。工作着。。

她也跟着没睡。。

不管是玩game还是insta。。

她在等我睡觉。。

有一种等待叫做爱。

.........................................

这两天她都梦了什么梦啊。。

都是起来会打我一顿的梦。。

但我。。什么也没做。。

哈哈。。。好无奈哦。。

梦里的我,不要再搞我了好吗

meanmin

Longest Distance

meanmin - 2 hours ago

I attended a wedding in the past where the couple had a long distance relationship for 10 years. Examples like these make me believe in the possiblities of love. 

*cue cheesy music* 

What is it that bonds 2 people so tightly together that they forget their immediate needs and focus on the one thing that has failed so many? 

Long distance relationships require commitment and trust beyond conventional relationships. When you can't touch her face but see her on Skype. When the warmth of her body is held only in your memory. When you can't see her expression of sorrow and only hear the anger in her voice. When you feel limited when she is unwell and you can't even hand her water to soothe her throat, it's tough. 

At the end of the day, you have to hold on to the best of each other and just believe despite all your experiences to the contrary, that love transcends, it conquers and it is limitless in its potential. 

How beautiful is that?

meanmin

Risk Big & Lose All

meanmin - 2 hours ago

At some point you have to take a leap of faith. 

You have to open your heart to new oppotunities, new people and new experiences. 

You take a fall, live and learn, move on gracefully. 

People are going to disappoint you because we all have different expectations. It takes a million and one things to fall into place before the magic happens. 

At the end of the day, to expect things to work out can be too much to ask. Just live in the moment, enjoy your time together and don't think too much. Just go. Just do. Just love 

To hold on to self-worth can be difficult, we have all been there where we are jaded, hurt and vulnerable.

The right person will lift you up, try their darnest to never see you fall and will say sorry and mean it. 

Feel thankful for all the supportive friends who break your fall, they make life a little easier. 

lhh79

想道歉嗎?「how to say sorry」

lhh79 - 6 hours ago

牡羊座:坦白認錯。
簡單明瞭而直接地說,對不起,我錯了。她會立刻笑顏逐開,就算很生氣一下子笑不出來,你也可以觀察到她的臉部肌肉放鬆了,表情慢慢地轉柔和起來。她是個急性子,就算情緒失控也是三分鐘熱度,你要拐彎抹角拖延,或拿出自尊心當擋箭牌,她都覺得沒必要。對就是對,錯就是錯,快快認錯我們就可以去做別的事了嘛!


金牛座:不要再提了。
牛兒生氣的時候不要去惹她,勉強她爭對錯,你只會逼到她去撞牆,其實,他是非常溫和的動物,只想和平過日子,是是非非那是留給歷史公斷的,她也沒非要個什麼公道不可,她接受了你,就是你的好壞她都受了,惹了她不開心,想到底,如果沒有要分開,那麼她也就認了。跟她道歉也不必多刻意,她知道你知錯就好了。


雙子座:轉移注意力。
發起脾氣來,鬼靈精怪的她也是很恰北北的,直接認錯會被罵到大臭頭,不如找個別的問題讓她分心,例如,問她,到底怎樣可以更省稅 啊?其實,本質上就是她不想輸,比對她要贏,比錯她也要贏,所以,這件事情很快地就會失焦,變成她到底有多厲害,而不是你到底有沒有錯。總之,讓她覺得她贏就好了。


巨蟹座:哭。
都說了男兒有淚不輕彈,哭了太久又很煩,男人就是這樣,從來都不哭,一掉淚也是會讓女人慌了手腳的,但是,老是愛哭或是哭個不停的男人,這招就會不管用了,除了拿來對付巨蟹女。她就像有個開關似的,你只要哭,她就沒輒,只是鼻酸,眼眶濕潤,一滴淚,流鼻涕,剛剛才哭完,眼淚又上來,還是有效。所有問題煙消雲散。


獅子座:送大禮。
平常就該照三餐加一宵夜地送禮表情意了,遇上犯錯道歉,那大禮還能少嗎?王族裡是有規矩的,什麼樣的錯誤點到為止,什麼樣的錯誤不可再犯,什麼樣的錯誤殺無赦,你不該不知。小錯小禮,大錯大禮,沒錯也要送禮累積credit,你要是連獅子女王喜歡進共這點都不知道的話,最好你是個不會犯錯的大聖人而且長得帥。


處女座:好好解釋。
她總是自稱最明理的人,堅信每個過錯都有原因,而且她不怕過錯,她想要幫助你不再犯或是解決問題,所以她最討厭的不是你犯錯,而是你不說,然後就如她所預期的,你又再犯了。記住,事情發生了,好好跟她溝通,她如果拿出教官臉,你還是要耐著性子詳細述說事情的來龍去脈,裝無辜,她自然會幫你找出那個藉口的。


天秤座:還她一個面子。
她不是容易生氣的人,這個錯誤一定是讓她沒面子,可能是在她很在意的人面前丟了臉,而且是她在意的議題。這就考驗你的誠意以及你對她的了解了,到底讓她不平衡的點是什麼,你要先找出來,然後對症下藥,給她面子。送禮物是送給她還是她老闆,請吃飯是請她吃還是請她家人,你要好好地想個仔細再提方案喔。


天蠍座:性愛。
不管那錯誤是什麼,只要上床沒有大問題,關係就可以再持續個好一陣子。這不代表她容易讓步,有錯不改,事情並沒有解決,她不見得會在這件事情上原諒妳。跟蠍子相處你要頭腦放清楚,你永遠不可能是對的,她也永遠比你還對,差別只在於她有沒有說出來。她可以接受事情不完美,不過就連性愛都不好的話,那就加速出局了。


射手座:穿她的泳衣。
在她的世界裡,犯錯跟呼吸一樣,就是自然現象,人吃五穀雜糧,哪有不放屁的,錯就錯嘛,你再白目,她也是會兩個白眼就算了。最怕的是搞成了一個不讓步的僵局,她不愛發脾氣,但是鬧僵了,她也會安靜在那裡不知道該怎麼辦好,這時候破冰再出發就看你的創意了,沒錢搞怪就動腦筋搞笑,只要她開懷大笑,萬事ok。


魔羯座:具體行動。
道歉?道歉有什麼用?道歉就是空氣阿,對不起,對不起就了事了嗎?然後呢?知道錯了?那是什麼?我怎麼知道你知道錯了?這是她心裡的os,表面上她是什麼也都不會說的,她就等著看你到底有什麼具體行動。這個具體行動也是根據具體損失而定的,賠了錢就賺回來,要是傷了心,那就很難收拾了。


水瓶座:失控。
瓶子是大量情緒和過度理性的組合體,跟她道歉,你要先評估她的狀態是什麼,她是用理性包裝感性呢,還是用感性說服自己,她是在延長爆發的時間點呢,還是藉機翻舊帳。錯誤並不是不可原諒,她不能忍受的是刻意地犯錯傷人,你的動機會讓她追根究底,要是怎麼安撫都沒有用的話,你只好讓場面失 控,讓她反過來照顧妳了。


雙魚座:比她還難過。
易感傷的她很容易受傷,受了傷也很難平復,讓她持續注意力放在傷口上的話,她只是更感傷,就像黛玉葬花似的沒完沒了。建議你用更大量的情緒淹沒她的感傷,你越戲劇化,她就越冷靜,你比她還痛苦,恨自己怎麼會犯下這種錯,怪自己不可原諒,她的情緒也就被你消化掉了。等到理智上場的時候, 她就完全沒事了。

lhh79

天秤女 characteristics in appearance

lhh79 - 6 hours ago

年輕時在酒吧打碟混生活,熱愛逛街掃貨,但對生活保持著理智的激情。生活細節上有些小亂,但是生活理念很堅定。有點小純真,不介意別人的看法。
很自我一人,追求自己美和他人美(就是超迷帥鍋),喜歡的事情絕對會放手去做,思想不受各種形式的羈絆。愛恨分明,嘴不留情(但會保持客觀)。對人好不求回報。生活態度順其自燃,知道自己的弱點在哪裡,但改正很難。看得開。有頹廢消極的一面,存在於自己的心境小天地裡。
寬容,樂觀,看她傻傻的某天就一套理論說出來讓你心驚,沒想到她全都明白只是不說出來。猶豫,凡事不會堵死自己的路子,都會留條後路。
時而天真時而老成,對男人的眼神顧盼流連很吸引人,讓人捉摸不透但又覺得她很透明。活得自我但不自私。
小結:我覺得天平女大都很明事理,有時也會揣著明白裝糊塗,保證了自己的心與別人之間有一段安全距離。對於感情不會強求,但愛了就會非常認真,有一些精神潔癖。任何話都不太會說死,但一旦說死了就很倔強很難回頭。她們的生活態度是值得學習的,有取有舍有收有放,還有一份明白後的淡然。

Jyne

The truth

Jyne - 8 hours ago

The greatest crimes do not arise from a want of feeling for others but from an over-sensibility for ourselves and an over-indulgence to our own desires .

Edmund Burke 

do-ra-emon

do-ra-emon - 11 hours ago

Pray do not feign literacy in a futile attempt to contemptibly retort. Time and tide is not as forgiving to those perceived as an abomination of society.

ronlow

ronlow - 12 hours ago

LOL. Maybe you don't understand what I wrote and need to ask your master what's the meaning and how to write proper sentences... Hahaha

Anyway, I understand that. Because you are just an unequivocally minuscule peon with sub-literate half-wit and a petty nose-picking aberration of nature. 

 

princesszz

(3) It Will Cost You EVERYTHING

princesszz - 12 hours ago

 

"If anyone of you wants to be my follower, you must deny yourself, take up your cross, and follow me." (Matthew 16:24)


(for those who has never experienced a truthful homily)

 

You must transfer the ownership of all that you are, and all that you have, to all that He is. 

Your life is no longer your life; it is His life. Your time is no longer your time; it is His time. Your future is no longer your future; it is His future.

It will cost you popularity, it will cost you an easy life. You will have to say no to temptation, you will have to break with the crowd, you will have to stand alone for Christ. You will have to be willing to step out of the crowd even if no one follows after Jesus Christ. You will be willing to stand even if you are the only person in the world for Jesus Christ.

He is the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords, and at the end of this age, He will bolt out of Heaven on a white steed, and His garments are dripped in the blood of His enemies, and he is coming to conquer and to damn!

You do not want to go into that final day of conflict with Christ, for he will be ruthless in the execution of His Justice. But He offers you His Mercy TODAY. You cannot hit the mute button any longer; you must answer to Him.

"Not everyone who calls out to me, 'Lord! Lord!' will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter. I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’” (Matthew 7:21, 23)

 

Christian, are you refusing God?

 

asiankiwi

Habit

asiankiwi - 12 hours ago

 

 

I was talking to a friend a few days ago.  She was having this “online” affair with a man for the last 4 months or so (yes, I do have straight friends lol).  When things gotten too serious, she started to pull back because she started to see the potential issues.  Distance, the fact that he only just broke up with his fiancé of 5 years, the fact that he didn’t actually have a stable job, the fact that he is pretty attractive and too many women were interested in him.  With that she almost abruptly halted the “relationship” before he made his trip to visit her.   Needless to say, things gotten a bit chaotic after that hasty end.  The guy became needy, then angry and eventually iced cold and started flirting with anyone or anything that came across his way.  She was, to my surprise, quite upset about his behavior.  After thinking about it, I realized I was being callous too.  She, of course, also developed some feelings for the man… but this is one of the times where love is sincerely not enough.  She gotten quite wounded and shared her sorrow with me.  One of the things she most upset about was that he moved on so quickly whereas she sincerely thought they could maintain a friendship. 

 

That lines the basis of my topic today, “habit”.  I once read in some psychology book (yes, I read… sometimes) that a habit takes 60 days to develop and break.  Say smoking for example, you sort of can say you are addicted  (and screwed) once you smoked for 60 days regardless of how inconsistent that was, and if you stopped smoking completely for same number of days, you pretty much broke the habit. 

 

Love, or the promise of it, is also a type of habit.   This is particularly true pertaining to online “relationship”.  When you were promised the idea of love and you blindly fall into it, you developed this habit of saying “good morning..” this habit of sending the person anecdotes of your life, what you eat, what you are doing, where you are going, who you are meeting, selfies (ugh).  The other person reciprocated with similar ideas.  Sharing with you their daily schedule, what they are planning, who they are meeting and post meeting the laughter shared or about such person (GOSSIPS).  You enjoyed these daily sharings, made you felt somewhat important in someone else’s life.  

 

In my most dire moment (where I fall hopelessly in love with a girl, ahh yes, back to gayness) we talked from the moment we woke up until the moment we gone to bed.  We shared EVERYTHING, typical boring mundane stuffs, we even talked about the movies we watched, what our dogs eat.. videos of our dogs even.  It sounded boring but it felt like your world is somewhat occupied.  That sense of belonging.  When that ended, I was drowning, flailing in this pool of sorrow.  We officially stopped communicating sometime in April (although my heart was already broken since November when she rejected me, but I irrationally held onto hope)… and by June (also with the discovery of yoga) I became better.  Whereby once I tried “not” to think of her, literally taking one minute at a time on my awaken moments, she then haunted me in my dreams.   I didn’t really minded the dreams to be honest, in my dreams we were connecting as before and that was almost euphoric (not what you think!).  Then suddenly, all these thoughts and dreams of her just stopped.  I can’t really explain it, I would chalk it down to “Yoga High” #itsarealthing.  But in honesty (now that I read the psychological book) it was merely the break of a habit. 

 

When we fall for someone, they essentially just became a habit.  They became part of our life.  Most of the time this was natural, we allowed them to become this habit and usually the signs are very subtle, you probably don’t even know it until it is too late.  Like driving or always hanging out with the same group of friends or the idea of MUST go out on a Friday night, these were merely habits.  The good news for those suffering from unrequited love is that habits can be broken.  While habits are part of our life, it is merely cosmetics to our actual growth and cosmetics could easily be cleaned. 

Perhaps (when I have time) I would write more about breaking or creating a habit.  For now though, I shall leave you with a saying:-

“An over-indulgence of anything, even something as pure as water, can intoxicate.”  Cris Jami.

Pu_erile

161014 You asked whether I'm alright.

Pu_erile - 14 hours ago

It must been a torture to make a decision whether should you message me or not to check if I'm alright because you chose to do it just before you go to bed.  I  understand it.  I appreciate you asking me.

For now, these are the things that matters - a lot.

Hope I get to see you tonight at the gym, my Tuxedo Kamen.

do-ra-emon

do-ra-emon - 16 hours ago

Wow...behold the pompous and ostentatious rhetorical discourse...yes yes the epiphany of newfound intellect. A deliberation of gratifying colloquy is underway. Exhilarating!

yihou

一次不成功的419经历:智斗削肾客

yihou - 17 hours ago

一次不成功的419经历:智斗削肾客

好久没和朋友们去酒吧玩了,十一那天心痒痒,本来在家准备淘宝购物的,打开网页正看着各种促销,朋友的电话打了进来,约我去酒吧 玩。我想想正好趁男朋友不在家,出去跟人玩玩,于是梳洗罢对镜贴花黄收拾的溜光水滑一本正经的回电话约时间地点。由于最近烟瘾比较大,于是特意喷了点新买 的香水搭配夏天时剩下的风油精和花露水,调和成独具一格的味道,穿上我的小夹克出门,到楼下雇了一个三蹦子,直奔我心驰神往的三岔口“戴斯特内肾”酒吧。

晚上天气有点凉,但是也没能影响我愉悦的心情,三蹦子的司机老大爷一路狂飙,我索性打开我的IPHONE放了一首《套马杆》作为鼓励。老大爷听到耳 熟能详的音乐,更来劲了,一边跟着哼一边疾驰在马路上,不一会就到了。我在门口装做不熟,打电话给朋友:“喂,阿郎,我到了,你在哪呢?”

不一会,阿郎出来接我进去,我一看,还有几个朋友,小孟,田田和大驴。这几个人我都熟悉的不能再熟悉了,所以也没有什么兴趣,于是四处张望寻找新的目标,同时打开我的“G友”开始查找附近的人。

功夫不负有心人,在我眼神飘了两圈之后,终于锁定了角落里的几个要脸蛋有脸蛋要身材有身材的帅哥。我于是拿出我的热情的眼神不停的朝那边送秋波,其中一个留着朋克头,不停的跟周围人嘻嘻哈哈的帅哥,注意到了我这边。四目相对好几次,我有点不好意思,于是收回眼神低下头,查看我的“G友”。

“找我呢?”不一会,一个清脆坚定的声音划破酒吧的吵杂在我耳边响起。我紧张的抬起头,大IPHONE差点没给我摔掉地下。“啊?”我愣愣的看着面 前这个朋克头帅哥,由于低着头不知道他什么时候过来了,现在正在我的面前,面无表情的看着我和我屏幕上的“G友”。“没有……你好。”

“你好。”朋友头帅哥点了根烟,递给我一根,“怎么称呼?”

“我姓贾,贾宝玉的贾,我叫贾思丁,你怎么称呼?”我自报家门,打量着这个朋克头帅哥,同时在判断他今晚会不会上我的床。

“好名字,我姓毕,叫毕博。很高兴认识你。”朋克头帅哥吐了口烟,半眯着那迷人的双眼,微笑得歪着头看着我,右手一抬胳膊,弹了弹中南海白烟蒂另一 端的烟灰,烟灰轻轻的飘下来,火星还没灭,在空中转了两个圈,轻打在地上,朋克头帅哥习惯性的伸出右脚,用白色匡威帆布鞋在烟灰上蹭了蹭,然后轻轻的收回 右脚。

“你好毕博,和朋友们来的?今年多大了?”我打量着他,笑呵呵的问到。

“查查不就知道了。”朋克头帅哥用下巴点了点我手里的电话,又是迷人的一笑,“都是普通朋友,愿意过来喝一杯么?”说完转身回到的他们那几个人的位置上。我看着他的背影,恨不得立马追上他飞过去。刚要迈步子,阿郎拽了我一下说让我小心点,别见一个约一个,现在HIV艾滋这么猖獗,我自己感染还好说,别传染给身边这些小伙伴们。我抬头看看小孟,田田和大驴他们,都很郑重的看着我,于是只好安慰他们:“哎呀,不会了,我有带道具出来,放心吧,我自有分寸。”于是径直追毕博去了。

毕博的几个朋友都在用什么方言聊着天,看到我过来,都笑吟吟的欢迎我。我看着他们互相暗示充满情趣的眼神,说着一堆我听不懂的类似闽南语的话,时不时还一起哈哈大笑几声,心里有些不愉快,于是对毕博说:“你和你朋友们是哪里人?不是本地的吗?”

毕博没有回答,问我喝什么。“马提尼,dry 马提尼。”我对服务生说道。过了一阵子,服务生把酒送过来,毕博小声在我耳边说:“我们是外地的,来这边做生意,正好有空就过来玩玩了。”

“那,”我举起酒杯,“祝你生意兴隆吧!”毕博很开心,笑着说:“干杯!”

我这人是特别谨慎的,尤其是在这现在这个社会,小心驶得万年船,从来不乱吃乱喝不了解情况的东西。连刚才毕博给我的烟,我都没抽,揣在我夹克的外兜 里了。这会儿举杯只是做做样子,我轻抿了一口,假装味道不对吐在地上,然后皱着眉对毕博说:“是不是做错了,有种葡萄糖酸钙口服液的味道,我只喜欢地道的 葡萄牙dry 马提尼。”毕博接过我的酒杯闻了闻,笑了笑放在了一边,说再给我要一杯。我说不用了,刚已经喝了不少老雪花,再喝就多了。于是自己点了一根烟,和他聊了一 会。原来朋克头刚从髮国留学回来,主修医学,辅修声乐,回国后跟几个朋友合伙做生意,走南闯北,小有成就了,只是烦于工作加上劳累奔波,一直没有认真谈过 恋爱,刚才从我万种风情的眼神中,寻觅到了初恋的感觉,于是下定决心不怕牺牲,主动上前和我相识,“我希望和你谈一场8小时的恋爱。”朋克头最后恬静的 说,用戴着江诗丹顿新款腕表的手腕拄着头,安静的看着我。

“正合我意。”我心想今晚一定要和他谈一场今生无悔的恋爱,以弥补他多年的奔波和操劳。于是跟阿郎他们说不用等我了,让他们自己走。我和朋克头帅哥告别他的小伙伴们,便一起坐进了毕博的捷豹新款,驶向最近的宾馆开了房。

我俩按惯例从CCTV1到延边卫视换了一圈台,按惯例聊了聊彼此喜好,按惯例自己玩了一会自己的手机,于是我催促他按惯例去洗澡。卫生间传来哗哗的 水声,“我的大刀早已饥渴难耐了”——这是他手机铃声又响了。水声比较大,我估计他没听见,于是好奇心作祟,我自己都不知道怎么控制自己,拿起他的电话, 滑开键盘锁,看到他的微信,刚才正和别人聊天的对话记录。

really? r u going to do it tonight?”(他微信里的好友)

yeah, dont worry. He is cut, Ill do it ”(他)

OK. Waiting for ur good news.”(他微信里的好友)

我立马心一惊:我草!虽说我上学时没好好学习,但是这点基本国际语言我还是懂的。我赶紧放下他的手机,点燃一根烟,狂抽三口。我一下回想起来前阵子 我朋友圈里有朋友说出去419的都要小心点,什么有一些外地口音的人流窜全国约面基开房下药然后割肾,第二天醒来发现自己躺在宾馆的浴缸里身上全是大冰块 子,犯罪分子留有一张纸条说什么赶紧打120你肾被割了之类的。我不禁倒吸一口凉气:he is cut. He is cut!!!看来这朋克头和他几个朋友约好了,今晚就要动手割了我,我混迹圈子这么久今晚竟然栽在几个削肾客的手里!怎么办,怪不得阿郎刚才告诉我不要随 便约,尼玛现在没得HIV肾竟然先丢了,难怪刚才在酒吧朋克头说他主修医学专业,原来是学会了割肾啊!幸好我小心翼翼没有喝下那杯dry 马提尼,否则现在肯定被下药了不省人事了。我越想越害怕,背后不禁冒出一身冷汗,这时水声没了,朋克头帅哥围着浴巾出来了,一脸暧昧的看着我,笑着对我 说:“下面轮到你啦!”

我草!我心想还好老子聪明,暗中识破了你的诡计,否则今晚老子沦为你的下一个目标了!不能乱,不能乱,要稳住,我暗中对自己说,不能打草惊蛇否则万一他狗急跳墙拿出一把枪把我毙了,那就命都不保了。

我于是故作镇定,心想,现今唯有以毒攻毒以暴制暴以硬碰硬,才有机会脱身,让他也知道我也是道儿上的,今晚是飞刀又见飞刀,大家都是同行,这样才能 和谐美满不伤和气。于是我掐了手中的烟,说到:“好的,下面轮到我洗澡了,你快到床上乖乖等我啊!”我脱下衣服裤子,走进卫生间的时候我优雅及故作不经意 的转过头,对床上的他问道:“对了哥们,你听说过安利么?”

然后我立马一个闪身进了卫生间,打开花洒假装很认真的在洗澡。我相信刚才这句话已经有了一点小小成效,从他的锋芒中夺回了一点我的主动权,因为我从刚才问完后他微皱眉头和惊讶的表情里已经看了出来。心中想好计策,我要智斗削肾客!于是随便冲了冲水,就出来了。

果然,他对我有了一点戒备,看我出来后他开始问我:“你刚才说的是什么?”

“安利,听说过吗?”我故作镇定的说,又给自己点了一根烟,“是安利让我能有今天这个样子,你做生意这么久,没听说过吗?”我顺势坐在床边半卧在他旁边,同时双眼急速的扫视他身上和周围是否有刀或刀片之类的凶器。

“没有……不太了解……不太感兴趣。”他抿了抿嘴,我察觉到他表情里一丝的反感。

“哦,没关系。以后有机会再让你了解,你会着迷的,”我抓起他的手微笑并有礼貌的说,以确保他的手里没有藏着弹簧刀,“像我这样着迷。”

“呵呵,还是先别说这个了吧。”他更抵触了。

“嗯……”我盯着他盖着浴巾的腹部,继续说,“你身材真好啊,身体保养的很好吧,性功能一定很强大!”

“没有啊,我不太懂保养的!”他看到我夸他,有点沾沾自喜。

“没事,我教你,吃安利的产品就可以保养的很好了!”我微笑着注视着他,明显感觉他的手颤抖了一下,然后我继续说道:“我看人很准的,你的肾功能一定很好的!对了你没吃过什么六味地黄王之类的药品吧?对了你有什么家族病史吗?”

“贾思丁……我……我不知道你在说什么……”毕博被我问的满头大汗,明显他的小伎俩要败露了,已被我一眼看穿,一语道破。

“没关系,你看你怎么出这么多汗啊,肾功能一定很强大!来,我倒杯水给你喝!”我起身去倒水,“对了,我刚才让前台送来一瓶白兰地,要了冰块冰镇一下,看你满头大汗的,喝点冰镇白兰地凉快凉快!”

毕博已经起来了,要去穿衣服。我心想你这个削肾客,现在知道自己是小偷遇到强盗,害怕了吧。“你穿衣服干嘛啊亲爱的,对了——你是什么血型的?我会血型看性格哦!帮你分析分析看准确不。”

“贾思丁,对不起啊,我朋友找我有事,我得先走了,回头再和你联系啊,下次有机会再一起玩啊,我真得走了。”说完他就出去了。

看到他关上房门,我终于松了一口气,于是也赶紧收拾东西,我怕他的小伙伴们来帮他报仇,到时候我就逃不掉了!为了让他和他小伙伴们对我死心,我赶紧用微信给他发了条消息:“朋友,我们是一路人,干嘛不欢而散呢,以后还得做朋友啊!”

不一会他给我回来消息:“贾思丁,对不起,you are so cut, I really want to have six with you.但是你为什么会那样,做个好人吧,我已经报警了,你有什么事等警察来了再说吧。”

我心想,草,吓唬小孩呢,幸亏我沉着冷静聪明伶俐,跟我玩个六啊!朋友们以后419一定要小心,防范这些削肾客,太危险了!!!!这次约炮的事情我还没敢跟我男朋友说呢,帮我保密。

 

GG

在现今网络发达的社会,同志交友方式已经普遍到各个角落。论坛 QQ、男同网站,还有例如G友这样的社交app软件早已经成为了男同们生活的一部分。而在这个419、约炮字眼泛滥的时代,安全成为了我们最需要重视的问题。

互联网总时不时传出男同被骗,被抢劫的消息同时,感染HIV的案例也随之浮现。作为男同,我们要如何处世,如何保护自己。

G友小编温馨提示:寻找419的刺激固然没有错,每个人心底都有着那么一小块地方,藏着我们的狂野与放纵。拥有固定的性伴侣,当爱情和性福稳中发展的时候,你才会明白这一刻的温存是多么的难能可贵。想想身边的G友们,你的一个决定或许会影响到他们的后半生,而若是你受到伤害,承受的人永远只有你自己。所以,朋友们,慎重吧!!!

AshleyJo

Home is where the Heart is.

AshleyJo - 1 day ago

 

It's been a night of feeling pampered. Being treated so generously and being served so graciously. The patience to listen despite the fatigue while i happily indulged in eat, drink, talk was much appreciated. Truly relished the undeserving pampering. 

But nothing beats what surprised me. And comforted me. 

I didn't have the chance nor time to emote how i felt at the moment but i was touched to say the least. The thought of having a trusted confidante when visiting mum this sunday felt comforting. 

And i'm brought back to that night on my way Home. 

 I couldn't remember any moment in my life when i felt that lost, when i failed to articulate to myself those emotions running thru my head. All i could muster when S's texts came in was to ask her for that funny video that made me laugh the first time she sent it to me. I was happy when i first received that self-made video. Things were different. I felt Hopeful. Mum felt Hopeful.

I guessed S was lost for words on that Hopeless night. All she could do at the moment was to accede to my request and sent me the video while i waited for godma to fetch me Home. I needed a chip of happy memory to numb my extreme sadness at that moment. I was desperate, desperate for something inconsequential to delude myself into thinking that perhaps when the video ended, i would wake up from just a bad dream. 

The way back Home tonight is so different from the way back Home that night. Home, is never the same again. I will be Home this sunday. 

 

- lucia

Ling1977

龙震天面子书分享(2014年10月16日)

Ling1977 - 1 day ago

龙震天(香港作家)刚在面子书上分享了很有道理的一段话,我非常同意,因为就像他所说的,有不少人不断埋怨自己的人生,但却不曾真正采取实际行动来改变自己的人生。其实执行力是非常重要的,但却没多少人真正明白这一点。

以下是龙震天刚在面子书上所分享的一段话:

《人生不是坐在沙發上看電視》

人生的意義是甚麼?每個人都有不同的定義。無論你有甚麼定義也好,我肯定的告訴你,人生不是光坐在沙發上看電視。

如果人生真的如此簡單,那絕對是沒有問題的。問題在於,很多人每天都坐在梳化上看電視,對身邊事情漠不關心;但卻在不停抱怨自己的人生應該怎樣怎樣。

這中間出了一個很大的反差,這也對應了一句:「時不與我」。

有些事情,我們是不能控制的,那部份涉及天生的運;但有很大部份,我們是可以控制的,我們絕對可以對自己的人生重新定義。

不停行動,不停有著執行力,那至少對你自己的人生有所交代,不會枉過;如果甚麼也不做,卻在不停抱怨,那絕對是一個沒有意義的人生。

lostknight

The secret to looking young.

lostknight - 1 day ago

My secret is not smiling.

I've practiced it strictly since I was a kid and rationed my smiles whenever I could. Unfortunately, sometimes I get caught off guard by unexpected humor I found in certain things.

Laughter, sad to say, is like an uncontrollable wild beast. It's hard to fight laughter.

It's only with my strict low smile regime did I manage to keep crows feet at bay till this year. Without eye creams or botox.

I don't smoke cigarettes either. I find that it tastes like burnt paper. Which makes sense, because you're burning money, and money is made of paper right?

And if you're bestowed with facial proportions akin to an infant, you naturally get a few years discount on your true age.

If you see me looking bored with a long or black face, don't mind me. I'm practising my anti-aging regime.

lhh79

If only

lhh79 - 1 day ago

Have u ever come across a day, a time or even for a split second thinking...if only....

Yesterday in the midst of my busyness, i was caught off a minute thinking away of my once was long time ago best fren..

I was driving towards my meeting place, past by the bus stop where i used to daily wait for her, rain or shine, no complaints at all... i dun stay near her. But cos i love her, i will take a bus to her place the bus stop and wait for her so that we will go to school together. Those were the happiest and most carefree days of my life.

If only...if only time will stop there n then. If only i will to be more understanding n sensitive to her needs. If only i put myself in her shoes, knowing n feeling all her hurts. If only i will just not allow lust to blind my eyes n ears. If only i will to stop any other from breaking our 15yrs bond. If only i will not waver my trust n faith in her...if only if only if only...

Time have gone. There is no turning back. I have tried to reinstate our bond but she have told me she no longer have the heart n energy to be frens with me again. She cannot n will not wan to have any contact with me. Whenever i think of tis, it really tear my heart apart. She is my first love, my best fren, the woman who really understand me when no one did...

On my birthday, i always hope she will wish me or send me any regards...no, it doesnt happen. I still look forward to next year...perhaps she will remember me once again. I really miss u in my life...

LaVergne

Sad Truth

LaVergne - 1 day ago

I was told she had a motive. I was told she stayed as a friend because she had a motive. I was told she is always there because she had a motive. I didn't believe. I trust our friendship.

We talked, we chat, we hang - I treasured that friendship. 

My partners were insecure. My partners were jealous. I could not comprehend that insecurity and jealousy. We fought, we cried, we yelled without realising we digged such big hole in our relationship.

 I stood by defending our friendship throughout the years. I no longer serve the purpose, I no longer hear from her. Inevitably, I realised that caused the failure of most of my relationships. She had a motive, they were insecure. I didn't have a friend in her except with a motive. 

I am disappointed.  

 

ku

Both of them r selfish... poor

ku - 1 day ago
Sky96

第三天

Sky96 - 1 day ago

没有你的日子,感觉很寂寞,心痛。尝试联络妳,想知道你还好吗,妳那客气和冰冷的回答,心会痛。或许是我的自私,想你的陪伴但短期内不愿意承诺什么;或许我是喜欢妳的但不愿意承认。只想告诉你,我真的很想你!

 

 

 

 

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