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gieny - 17 hours ago
Revene - 21 hours ago
Love is not superficial intentions .
Because i loved Perkins! There is no loss when you give someone your everything, you only gain—wisdom, lessons, understanding, forgiveness, and growth.
detohs - 1 day ago
1. And no matter what happens in the aftermath, no matter if you are mistreated or left, no matter if the connection fades, no matter if your heart is shattered and you can hardly stand in the end, giving yourself was worth it. Because i loved.
2. So often we look at our broken relationships as markers of our failure or success. When we see people we’ve parted ways from and we think we’ve made a mistake. We think we’ve wasted so much time with the wrong people and we get anxious over lost time. We hate ourselves, hate our exes for the time we’ll never get back.
3. Love can never be a waste. And there are no ‘wrong’ people, only lessons. Sure, we might fall into relationships with people who end up being terrible for us—people who may cheat or lie, abandon or leave us when we trusted them with everything.
But we cannot look at these failed relationships as worthless. We can’t think that we’ve lost so much time in this journey because every broken connection has taught us something, every love has shown us who we are, and every pain has helped us gain resilience, strength, and the will to keep on loving.
4. Because love is always worth it, no matter the outcome.
5. So please, remember that love was never purposeless. You have never failed just because of a failed connection, relationship, or marriage. There is no loss when you give someone your everything, you only gain—wisdom, lessons, understanding, forgiveness, and growth.
6. You have loved, truly loved, and that’s beautiful. You have loved, truly loved, and that’s worth every second in the end.
We Don’t Always End Up With The Loves Of Our Lives (And That’s Okay)
detohs - 1 day ago
An Beautiful Article Abstracted From Huffpost:
Important Pointers that I love about this article were:-
1. Sometimes we meet the loves of our lives, but we do not get to keep them.
2. Some people can love you more in a year than others could love you in fifty. Some people can teach you more within a single day than others could teach you over the entire course of a lifetime.
3. Maybe we just ought to be grateful that we got to meet these people at all. That we got to love them. That we got to learn from them. That we got to have our lives expand and flourish as a result of having known them.
4. Meeting and letting go of the love of your life doesn’t have to be your life’s single greatest tragedy.
5. If you let it, it can be your greatest blessing. After all, some people never get to meet them at all.
Laugh till your tummy aches
Cocculine - 1 day ago
A good laugh is more than enough to to make my day. Sometimes, it doesn't have to be romantic encounters, sincere yet interesting people are just godsend. I really appreciate it :)
Mahayana - 2 days ago
Max is tired. Victoria is bored.
Chloe is emotionally unavailable. Max and Chloe don't even share the same bed anymore.
Nathan is safe and loving and romantic to Victoria. Nathan is boring.
Max is tired, Victoria is rejuvenating.
Victoria is bored, Max is fun.
A recipe for disaster. A concoction for trouble. But this cocktail is oh so deliciously good.
(Just a head canon for a fic)
70 years of artistic obsession
rainbowglow - 2 days ago
Some people are not made for this world, some people are too pure for it. I hardly knew anything about Yayoi Kusama prior to visiting her exhibits, apart from what seemed like deliberate happy, repetitive dot motifs covering objects and surfaces.
It wasn't till I examined her artworks more closely, that I understood just how much she poured herself, her soul, into her art to let the world know just what she was feeling.
If there was any girl who wore her heart on her sleeve so openly, it was she. Here she was, a Japanese girl who lived through war-torn Japan, traumatised by the atrocities of it, trying to make sense of her fears, her understanding of human behaviours. What seemed natural to others appeared unrelatable to her. She saw more than her peers, felt more than her peers, they couldn't understand her and that made her lonelier than ever. She'd thought her loneliness was due to the rigidity of her ethnic society, had thought NYC would mean finding likeminded mates only to discover the Big Apple was rife with its own societal rigidity too and she, being an Asian girl in a mostly white, male dominated art world, ended up feeling lonelier than ever.
It was rather heartwrenching interpreting her art. After learning her history, even her happier art pieces appeared innocent and child-like, literally like a child having found random bouts of joy or perhaps simply trying to find joy. Even the rainbow of dots couldn't detract me from seeing a tormented soul trying to obliterate herself into nothingness. However, it was the same trippy dots that made the rest of the world fall in love with her too. Hopefully, the positive recognition offers some consolation to her. One painting after the next, repetitive drawings of the same motif, sometimes akin to magnified molecules of human anatomy on a macro scale, sometimes shrinking masses of humans into molecules to showcase what she felt on a micro level. She's utterly brave to stay true to her spirit as a non-conformist, not as if she had a choice of course.
It was awe-striking to see her works, but once is more than enough. It's too sad for me to see how the world broke her bit by bit till she felt the need to live out the rest of her life in a mental asylum.
xanerious - 3 days ago
Hokkien version of this part of the song...
looping. don't really know chinese, but seems relatable. lol.
s69 - 6 days ago
Courage ~ Osho
Cocculine - 6 days ago
whenever I feel lost n low, I contemplate the meaning of life n the reasons of events. I never see life as a game coz it's not really fun but a temporary journey, it's true.
reading a book about courage by Osho, one of my favourite spiritual teachers. I burst into tears in a cafe yesterday after reading only the first two page of this book.
sometimes, I wish there's someone to pick me up, but most of the time, I pick myself up n walk the dog.
Fondling & Missing
detohs - 1 week ago
According to Google Unconditional Love means as affection without any limitations or love without conditions. This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as true altruism or complete love.
Been 2 weeks aftermath, everyday she still ponder in her mind. No words can be describe, as she doesn’t know it LOVE or GRASP?! Can she love her unconditionally by wipping off her past? Will her able to change her habits and tie down to settle down instead hopping around? Does she have bio-polar disorder? Can she still be trusted after lies and endearing personalities.
Should she follow her heart? Well Observe before Open…… (to be continue)!
Mahayana - 1 week ago
Reconnected with someone who is my Achilles heel. 8 years ago, she came into my life like a wrecking ball, with a darkness in her heart, and the naive me thought I could reach out and heal her wounds. But I was wrong. She came in like a wrecking ball and I became a train wreck.
It seems like now she has changed. I dunno how true that is but from our conversation, she does seem to have let go of the worldly possessions which she once held on so fiercely. She apologized to me more than once for how she has hurt me. And that's definitely a change. I guess in a way, reconnecting with her is a mean of catharsis for me.
Let the final darkness associated with her, bleed out, and scars to fade to nothingness.
Finding MEMO :D
ur_chiko18 - 1 week ago
gateway11 - 1 week ago
Hey you... reading my profile.... ya.. I'm a butch , looking for a gf.. how about you.
Sandeep Marwah Special Guest at Venezuela National Day
asiannewsagency - 1 week ago
New Delhi: Indo Venezuela Film And Cultural Forum extends its heartiest congratulations to the country of Bolivarian Republic of Venezuela and to H.E. Augusto Montiel Ambassador of Venezuela to India on its national day. Through films, art and culture we will be able to make strong bridges between the two countries,” said Sandeep Marwah President of Marwah Studios and ICMEI at the grand function at Embassy of Venezuela as a special guest.
“Venezuela is the country of love and affection. Our relation with India is more than just selling the Oil. Our relationship has grown many folds in last few years. We will take our relations to further height through large number of business together,” said H.E. Augusto Montiel Ambassador of Venezuela to India in a opening address.
The national anthem of both the countries were played with great respect and honor where Mansukh L. Mandavia Honorable Minister of State for Transport and Chemicals was the chief guest of the Event.
The national Day of Bolivarian Republic of Venezuela falls on 4th July where large number of Ambassadors, High Commissioners, and people from all strata of life attended the event.
xanerious - 1 week ago
hugu - 1 week ago
Unconditional Love, Love and Lust!
detohs - 1 week ago
Been talking to S* recently, she told me when it came to love there is no right and wrong! I agreed as well.
Im happy that she finally confirmed her relationship with No.01. Well what happen, No.01 has been her guardian angel for the past 2 years. He don’t mind she a divorcee with 2 children and he tuition her studies for MBA (although he busy with his work as a CFO). He always be there for her whenever she feel down, lost transiting bus or MRT, he always been there to support her whenever she in SOTONG mode. So lovely to hear that they finally together instead playing with guessing game and upsetting each other by posting remarks to make each other jealous or testing the heartbreak index instead telling each other that they miss or love each other.
Still remember S* was so hesitated to confess to him that she love him although he been there for her always. Both of them had been playing Pull & Fish Game for too long until they can’t get hold/control their own fishing rod anymore. I was thinking, it’s really necessary to play fish and pull game (hard to get/ flirting game) ? i wonder and puzzled. Can’t love be straight forward? [Its not applicable to all individual]
Anywhere hope their love last after 2 years friendship and all the hard to get game! Pray for them!
Back to the topic of love & lust?! Well, if without love how to have sex?! Well my friends were debating that, some ppl just can have sex without love. I agreed and all depends on individual. In addition, it also depends during the progress/process of making love. Whether its fucking for sexual pleasure or making love to make ur partner comfortable and enjoy the feeling of exchange love. So it all come to intention and how much you love her and what you would like her to get instead self satisfaction. Most Girls, able to feel whether its making love of fucking?! So, we both agree the intercourse is part of enhancing the relationship and moments to embracing each other.
Missing her anot?! Yes! Its for Love or Lust?! (Only they will know)
In next blog….we will chat about Unconditional Love.
Nichod-A Book of Punesh Anand Released at Marwah Studios
asiannewsagency - 2 weeks ago
Noida: Justice G.S. Sasthani of Delhi High Court released the first book of poetry written by Punesh Anand in a grand function at Marwah Studios, Noida Film City.
“The art of writing is the expression of your thoughts and feelings. The poetry book of Punesh Anand has added a lot to the literature when people are forgetting to write. I hope he continues to write and would love to be the part of his second book launching function too,” said Justice G.S. Sasthani while releasing the book Nichod.
“I have been appreciating Punesh Anand for his art of writing, he has reached to the stage where he has started talking in poetry. I have understood that he must be given an opportunity to come in public with his talent,” said Sandeep Marwah President of Marwah Studios.
“I am amazed and surprised by the organizing capacity of Marwah Studios who all have not only identified me out of crowd but also published my work in no time. From No where to Some Where-this is life. I am thankful to each and every one who has helped me in reaching to this platform and declaring me a Poet,” added Punesh Anand emotionally.
Sushil Bharti analyzed the poetry in detail and also read few of them in public. Mrs Maniderpreet Sasthani and Harsh Anand also spoke on the occasion.
The event was attended by large number of important people from different starta of life and supported by family and friends. Asian Academy of Arts and International Chamber of Media And Entertainment designed the launching function.
RainbowDash - 2 weeks ago
When I am sick and you left me with a good bye, my world felt empty once again...
I did my best and do everything with you in my mind but I guess it wasnt enough and you decide to bid me farewell instead...