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Rewind to 80s: Physical by Olivia Newton John

HenrikRN - 2 hours ago

Probably the most out spoken gay song in the 80s. The only people want to get physical are men in the music video. Let's hear the bodies talk!


Trying too hard?!

Jasariebellekrav3 - 3 hours ago

" Don't give up on what you want most, for what you want now.."


I didn't.  

YOU did.

YOU gave up what you want most for what you want then.

Now, it's too late.

So if you wanna be friends then just be friends.

She is MINE now.

Don't try too hard, you might appear too desperate.

I keep mum because I trust my partner in drawing the line.

And until now she has never disappointed me.

She tells me everything. Shows me all YOUR messages.

Don't have to send your pictures because she's no longer interested in looking at another women. Send your pictures to someone single and available.  Not someone who's taken. 

In our culture that's being quite 'cheap' .

In your culture, I don't know. 


Rewind to 80s: Real Love By Jody Watley

HenrikRN - 3 hours ago

Got to have real love! Everybody needs one!


no "trials and errors"

soulseeking - 14 hours ago

in my life of relationship, there is not exist of this theory, "trial and error". this might sound passive or serious, but again, that's life.

Everything that happening, causing a cost, either in monetary form or time or experiences - both good and bad, which everyone has choices to avoid or to let them happening. For me, I think, i am not able to pay the cost of relationship...

like everyone else, i only live once, for every year, or even every second, but that doesn't push me to give everything a try, including relationship. To my understanding about almost but not all the type of relationships, a new relationship get started coz of feelings, while feeling is things that depend on a person's mood, which depend on many more other factors in life. In other word, mood get changes easily, and indirectly feelings change, accordingly to time frame.

Of course, there are still some good working relationships, but many more are not, and everyone know about that proportion, regardless which form of the relationship is, is not me that being pessimistic. But no doubt is, my totally pessimistic on believing about changes in human. Coz, i do change, over time.

Changes are good, regardless how bad are they, but people doesn't seem strong enough to adapt the change. I do not know about anyone, but it does happen to me sometimes, and bring some minor probs during transition period.

Regardless which form of changes, trial and error is not my style.



SleeplessInSeoul - 15 hours ago

“Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body. No, don't blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just being "in love", which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.”

~ Louis de Bernieres, Captain Corelli's Mandolin




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Pisces Love Life

Shonda - 17 hours ago

"Life's greatest happiness is to be convinced we are loved" - Victor Hugo

Note to self: I suppose one should sow and reap happiness by convincing we are loveable and to love ourselves richly first before seeking another to love us.


Congratulations to Jokowi!

Ling1977 - 17 hours ago

It is indeed a good news for most Indonesians!

Official, final tally: Jokowi 53.15%, Prabowo 46.85%

The Jakarta Post, Jakarta | Election Watch | Tue, July 22 2014, 7:09 PM

Joko "Jokowi" Widodo, is officially Indonesia's seventh president after the General Elections Commission (KPU) concluded its vote recapitulation on Tuesday evening, confirming that the governor of Jakarta and furniture businessman had garnered 53.15 percent of the vote.

Jokowi netted 70,633,576 votes, which was over 8 million more than rival Prabowo Subianto, who received 62,262,844 votes or 46.85 percent.

Analysts have said that with a gap of 6.3 percent, it would be difficult for Prabowo to contest the result with the Constitutional Court.

Jokowi will be sworn in as president no later than Oct. 20.

Prabowo had earlier rejected the election vote recapitulation process and result, claiming that the election process was flawed and marred by widespread fraud. (ren)

Weblink of news:



joeron - 17 hours ago

First. There's the basil but no mozzy balls. 

Then. There's no basil and no mozzy balls. 

Finally. A nice little pot of basil sits beautifully in the kitchen. 

Still. No mozzy balls. 

Cat is jealous whenever I'm near the pot of basil. she will jump on the table, between me and the basil, meowing for attention. Sometimes she will simply stick her face into the bunch of basil...smelling. Oh please, it's not catnip my dear Maomao. 

Tried to snip some stalks of basil earlier on so I can grow some from cuttings, guess what? The cat is in the way again. My dear... I can't do that when your face is in my face.

*silly you.  



chances and promises

soulseeking - 17 hours ago

chances is unique and won't be repeating, coz this is 'live" of life. Like wise, promises also unique, once broken, no point to looking for another that exactly same. 

Both are just not the same as the initial, and this is fact!



Javian55 - 19 hours ago

这班火车已经到 感情随风四处走 目屎狠狠吞落喉 不敢来哮

歌 人生亲像一支野草 无什么倘比较 行到最后犹原是一个人走

词 为何感情博这厚 到尾犹原拢无效 什么理由拢无留 就做你走

转 为着谁人来等候 为谁人来奋斗 为何永远看袂晓 情比纸卡厚

自 这条路袂当搁回头 感情嘛只有放水流

音 只剩路边的野狗 惦惦的哮

魁 这条路袂当搁回头 付出的一切拢无效

网 搁勉强 不知影何时才会了



pos4life - 1 day ago






soulseeking - 1 day ago

拿着一半的星星, 找着另一个拿着一半的星星。



因为, 这一半不一定找着完全符合的一半, 

但却是 找寻 另一个其一半的 相互配合 发亮 的。


我相信, 没有那样的一个人能完全为另外一个人付出。就算有, 也是有时限的。因为, 人类会变。因此, 别寻求别人的全部, 那是不可能。寻找 那一个 能相互 付出 一半的人, 以是 很完美的事情了。


Come what may

Ozeki - 1 day ago

I was glued to the song on my iPod for the entire train journey home today.

It was 2001 when the song was first heard in the movie Moulin Rouge, and I remembered watching it with two gay friends in Melbourne. Then we flew over to Fox Studio in Sydney, where the film was shot, for the Queen's Birthday weekend gay party.

It's the kind of song that evokes such a romantic and nostalgic feeling that you long for it to linger.


因为爱情 - 李佳薇 多亮

iansee2001 - 1 day ago



Missed up

zainv - 1 day ago

I missed up something which certainly regrettably for me someday 

aikss... Loser you !


Cigar is my new LOVE! :)

jammi3 - 1 day ago

"Happiness? A good cigar, a good meal, a good cigar and a good woman - or

 a bad woman; it depends on how much happiness you can handle." ;) 

If you enjoy cigar, drop a line, lets puff together!

I Hope You Dance

Bluedayz30 - 1 day ago

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger
May you never take one single breath for granted
God forbid love ever leave you empty handed
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance

I hope you dance
I hope you dance

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Livin' might mean takin' chances, but they're worth takin'
Lovin' might be a mistake, but it's worth makin'
Don't let some Hellbent heart leave you bitter
When you come close to sellin' out, reconsider
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance

I hope you dance
I hope you dance
(Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along)
I hope you dance
I hope you dance
(Tell me who wants to look back on their years and wonder, where those years have gone?)

I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance

(Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along)
I hope you dance
I hope you dance
(Tell me who wants to look back on their years and wonder, where those years have gone?)

This song keeps spinning in my head .....but I love it ! 


Caught off guard

joeron - 1 day ago

Poison Into my eyes. Swallow. All of the lies.

Guess I let my guard down...


If today is the last day

Ash_9 - 1 day ago

everyday we have to make choices, 

be it a right choice anot is up to us.


look back to to help us make a better choice next.

 regret is because we had set expectation 

dont expect and there will be no disappointment.


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