Tantra to the uninitiated usually conjures up images of the karma sutra, sexual intrigue and mystique. But what is it really about and how does it relate to Buddhism?
Liking or disliking something is not “reality" but a result of our our afflicted perceptions which might lead us to mistakenly believe that we can get happiness by trading in our partner for a 'better' one until we get too tired and decide to ‘settle’ for less.
I am looking for a man who is calm but never boring. Someone who can laugh heartily, keep his word and appreciate simple joys. He is self-confident, but without unnecessary pride. He values ;;warmth and honesty more than beautiful phrases. And in his presence I always feel: here is my strength and love. Next to him I want to be a man who is passionate and tender at the same time.