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Hugo Lago brilliance.

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Anna Fox Rochinski - No Better (Live in NYC)

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Early Mark Hollis:unsurprisingly, superb.

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Long time away update

griffma - 5日內

It's been a long time since I used this site. Trying to figure out how to remove freinds who no longer use Fridae. So update. I am living back in Boston my hometown. I have spent the last 15 years just traveling to Colombia South America. In 2022 I would like to make my first trip to Asia, have to figure out where yet. though kind of leaning towards Seoul, not sure why it seem to call to me , considering how conservative it is towrads the LGBTQ community. I know I want to visit Taiwan, China, Vietnam also . Since my cancer in 2013-2014 I seek more to make friends than being in a relationship. I am bisexxual yet tend to seek males as friends now, maybe because I find it easier and less complicated than friendships with females. I look back on my life as a shy and timid child to becoming an adult who is comfortable with who I am, thus have become more open with people, still I seperate my work life from my private life. Not sure if that is a generation thing or not. I was married for a short time to a woman, we remain good friends and her new husband is a friend. they have 2 smart bys together.I am happy for them they make for such a nice family. well this is all for now.. I hope everyone is well and good thigs coming their way.


Covid 19

There is too many things to learn through this pandemic.

It causes business closure. It may cause relationship broken. But it surely do cost people's life, for those who we lost during the battle.

But when I drill too much in the negative side, I lost balance and find myself drill into the pessimistic part of life.

But to be honest, in the other hand I like some part the pandemic have cause. Despite all the trouble and caos it caused, I like people become more caution, more hygenic. With mask on, no touching and maintaining social distancing.

But of coz, i agree there are still some moron who like to stick near to us without maintaning the minimum distance and we still see some idiots without mask roaming around. Haven't they care, even if they are healthy, maybe i am not. I should try to take off my mask and blow a few sneeze and cough to people who did not wear a mask.

I've learned who are most important to me and those who i am very afraid of losing. I learned some people that I thought is important turn out to be not so important. I learned that we human in struggle, do not want to give up. We want to fight, until we are uncapable.

I still remember the first 2 days i was detected, I had difficulty breathing. And i thought i would have lost it. I talk to God, and make promise if I would wake up the next morning. I say thanks for everything that I have had that He had provided. I apologized to people who i think I had wronged. I asked for forgiveness.

That moment, I felt so small. I felt so humbled by every cause of his Almighty.


Might be, should be, could be

joeron - 一個星期前
“Our suffering is caused by holding on to how things might have been, should have been, could have been.”

Stephen Levine

bitterlime - 2個星期前

Has Google became your good friend when things aren't quite the way you want it to be and you wanted answers?
Do you find yourself turning to your phone or laptop to get on Google to actively search for the problems you encounter lately to try to find answers for it?


Ever stop a while in your tracks to gather your thoughts and think, had the internet not be so reachable, what would or could you have done when you encounter problems?


Nowadays, Google will always be your solution. 
Google says this, it's this.
Google says that, it's that.

Cause it's what Google says and shows and it's collected worldwide, it's ought to be right, right?


Yet, subjectively speaking, is it what it is, or is it what its ought to be?


Question: "Will we be together once more?"
Google: "Move on."




bitterlime - 3個星期前

What's happiness like to you?

Smiling constantly at every thing in sight?
Looking forward to something daily?
Waking up every day and being able to jump out of bed without snoozing?
Having that first sip of coffee?

How does your heart feel when you're happy?
Is it empty?
Is it fulfilling?
Is it aching?
What is it?

Could it be a mixed of harsh reality and temporary euphoria moments?
Could it be just a made up fantasy to keep our lives meaningful?
Could it be just a manifestation that people do to continue leaving?

Or is it just everyone's purpose in life to seek happiness and inner peace.....

And then at our deathbeds, just so we/I/they/she/he/them/it could say.....

I lived.



Haru Nemuri- Performance & Interview (Live on KEXP at Home)

DameZZeff - 3個星期前



Losing Game by Jo Jo Zep from the album Cha

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The Triffids, Switzerland, 1986.

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La Belle Classe Academy

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Stealing from the rich and give to the poor... is it Okay..?

gonna - 4個星期前

5 elements to be satisfied for stealing:

a) there is an item rightfully belongs to someone else

b) knowledge that that item belongs to someone else

c) there is an intention to take that item without permission (volition action)

d) there is effort in attempting to steal that item

e) that item is stolen

Why people steal..?

a) craving - greed or jeslousy

b) white collar crimes - those who steal already very rich

    They steal to gain wealth which brings power, control, happiness and security

c) Fraud, breach of trust, embesslement, tax evation, smuggling, copyright              infringement etc..

4 qualities that lead to mumdane happiness

a) Faith

b) Virtue

c) Generosity 

d) Wisdom

Therefore is it okay to steal from the rich and give to the poor...?

Parable of The Bee... collecting nectar from flower but do not damange the flower color and scent. Then spreads the nectar onto other flowers. They practice compassion, love and generosity with wisdom... 



Close - Westlife

Jai07 - 一個月前

Every line in this song just feels so right !


Well, I know there's a reason
And I know there's a rhyme
We were meant to be together
And that's why

We can roll with the punches
We can stroll hand in hand
And when I say it's forever
You understand

That you're always in my heart
You're always on my mind
But when it all becomes too much
You're never far behind

And there's no one
That comes close to you
Could ever take your place
'Cause only you can love me this way

I could have turned a different corner
I could have gone another place
Then I'd of never had this feeling'

That I feel today, yeah

And you're always in my heart
Always on my mind
When it all becomes too much
You're never far behind

And there's no one
That comes close to you
Could ever take your place
'Cause only you can love me this way
Ooh oou

And you're always in my heart
You're always on my mind
And when it all becomes too much
You're never far behind
And there's no one

That comes close to you
Could ever take your place
'Cause only you can love me this way
Mmm oooh
Only you can love me this way


It's You

Jai07 - 一個月前
There's a laugh in my eyes
There's a waltz in my walk
And it's been such a long time
Since there was hope in my talk
If you never knew
What it is that's new it's you
'Cause when your hands are in mine
You set a fire that everyone can see
And it's burning away
Every bad memory
To tell you the truth
If it's something new, baby it's you
It's you in the morning
It's you in the night
A beautiful angel came down
To light up my life
The world's a different place
Where nothing's too hard to say
And nothing's to hard to do
Never too much to go through
To tell you the truth
Everything that's new, baby it's you
So if I get to grow old (oh if I get to grow old)
With many years behind me (many years behind me)
There's only one thing I want (aahh)
One thing I need beside me
For all that you are
For everything you do
For all that you've done
Just for showing me the truth
It's you
It's you
Baby it's you
( Westlife )


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