确实是我们要去喜欢一个，让我们有动力的人……每天起来，都觉得阳光万里……而不是，去喜欢一个，让我们有伤口的人，每天睡去都觉得万籁俱寂！如果自由的代价，是孤独，我便坦然接受，我等的，一定是一个，理解我的人，和被我理解的人，我爱的和爱我的，我都不选，我选的，一定是那个我爱的，他更爱我的人，绝不将就！如果🈶人问：为什么喜欢拍照发朋友圈，为什么还要写一大堆文案，为什么还要不远万里，去见一个人，我就会告诉他，我偏要在这个薄情的世界里，深情的活着……在这个快节奏的时代里，按照我们自己的节奏活……愿我们都热泪盈眶，热血热情，一个人也像千军万马，活得热烈！

作者：卢思浩

I've been viewing more films of late. Here's a recent selection:

Hakkenden: Fiction and Reality. A 2025 Japanese film of the famous epic book by 19th century Japanese author Kyokutei Bakin, recounting the mythological tale of good overcoming evil, with the film paralleling the life of the author as he struggles to write the story over a period of nearly 30 years. At various stages Bakin would release new chapters to the public, fuelling their interest in the development of the story. Excellent film

Time to Leave (French 'Le Temps qui Reste', 2005). A sad story of a 31 year old gay fashion photographer who is told that he has untreatable cancer with an expectation of just three months to live. Romain has problems with his immediate family, friends and sexual partners, and feels unable to share his feelings about his imminent death with anyone but his grandmother. A chance encounter with a couple at a motorway service station who cannot have children due to the husband’s infertility leads him to accede to the wife’s request to have sex in order for them to have a child. In the final scenes he returns to the beach which he remembers with fondness from his childhood as he finally slips away with the sun setting and no one else left to disturb his peaceful departure from life.

Crash (2005). A film which I’d never been aware of, but which had been recommended by a friend who leant me his DVD. The Director, Paul Haggis, follows a motley collection of characters, including police officers, petty criminals, film producers, immigrant shopkeepers etc. living in a small neighbourhood of Los Angeles over a period of 48 hours as their lives become increasingly intertwined. Set against the overt racism of the period it leaves a unexpectedly strong impression of a diverse and vibrant community. It won three Oscars in the year when the film of Brokeback Mountain had been expected to win.

Tristan und Isolde (2026): a live relay of Wagner’s opera from the New York Metropolitan Opera House. It’s been many years since I saw it from the back rows at Covent Garden, and most of the reviews for this production had been very positive so I was looking forward to ecountering it again The quality of the video production, the creative staging and especially the singing of the Norwegian soprano Lisa Davidsen in the title role all contributed for a truly memorable evening.

 I've also updated my face photo in the vault.

Here we are again.

The years spent on the neverending rat race, in the end akins to nothing. I am, once again, back at the drawing board. 

What's next, really. 

Wow. Just looked at my profile and it says I had signed up 24 years ago. And this is the first time logging in for about 5 years and the new first pic I've uploaded in 15! How time flies! Hopefully this won't be the last :)

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You may turn to a homosexual., or gay as the religious ministers in Malaysia said. 

Be wise, relax and turn back to heterosexual 

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https://pornone.com/gay/ms-haruki-sex/279411165/

この2本の動画に出ている男優さん。名前がなくて、スリムノンケ青年などとしか書かれていない。

This guy appears in at least these two gay adult films. He does not have a stage name. He is dubbed as "slim straight young man" and no further information is given.

（自称）ノンケの男優さんと言えば、陳光君などは、サービス精神旺盛に楽しませてくれている。

As for straight actors in gay films, Chin Kou (Chen Guang, Chen Kuang) is a great entertainer and he knows what the audience wants.

この男優さんが、ステージネームなどを付けないのは、名前を付けることで固定されて、色々と詮索されたりするのを嫌っているのだろうか。

On the other hand, this guy does not have a stage name. He doesn't want to be "categorized" as such and that people would look for pieces of information about him which he cannot tolerate, maybe?

でも、とっても℃タイプなのです。年齢が約３倍の僕は、遠くから眺めているしかないですが。顔、体、喋り方など、大好きなのです。

I like him very much. I am almost three times older than him and I can only enjoy what is offered on the Internet. His face, his body, the way he talkes, etc. all are to my liking.

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真的超久没进来了

看回这里之前写的post

怎么那么有创意啊

哈哈哈哈哈

嗯哼

留下痕迹

原来这里依然少人啊

嗯嗯

来这个post呼吁一下

有兴趣脱单的

可以了解一下

今年37了

稳定事业

其他的

想了解就联络我吧

话说我比较喜欢h/p呀

谢谢大家

妳還好嗎？我很想妳。每一次看到大海都會很想妳。我还记得上一趟旅行为了一直让妳看到海，心情和工作可以放鬆，帶你去了一個被海圍繞一直可以看到海的地方。妳后来把和我一起在海邊看日落的情境挂上封面图几年了，直到今年六月妳拿下了，我的心痛了一段時間。其实我一直都没有忘记妳，而且还很爱妳想妳。但我目前沒办法给妳任何了，包括妳之前一直說的情緒價值。请允许我慢慢治愈，希望妳可以找到幸福。

25 December 2025 15:43 pm Thursday Sunny day

Merry Christmas everyone (reading this)!

Time flies!!! For a year, I did not post anything till now.

2025 is a very busy year for me. Busy, but fulfilling. 

I spent much time with my mum, watching Taiwanese drama when I came back home from work. Wheel my mum for evening walks, eat buns and dessert. Not forgetting our weekly visit to church, temple and consultation for traditional Chinese medicine. 

Didn't meet anyone for romance and intimacy, but chatted with a few guys online. Some left after a few chats, while some stayed. One guy who stayed is Jack. Thank you Jack for walking with me in 2025. Let's journey 2026 (and beyond) together, keeping each other company and checking in on each other's well-being. 

6 more days and we will welcome 2026. For 2026, I pray for a smooth-going, fulfilling year. I pray for wellness and good health for everyone in my family. I hope to make short trip with my mum, and most important of all, I pray for my mum's peace, joy and good health. 

Thank you 2025.

Best wishes to all of you for 2026.

晨有清遠,暮有餘閒; 心有清歡,歲月安暖。

釋義:

給時間時間,讓過去過去,讓開始開始,願我們不慌不忙步履從容,卻有歲月打賞。不奢望所有日子都熠熠生輝,但期許每個平凡日常,都盈滿安康與福澤。

There is air con COMMON ROOM for rent for male tenant at Block 413A, Fernvale Link.

Near Fernvale & Layar LRT station and Seletar Mall, Sengkang Grand Mall, Sheng Siong, Fernvale CC. 

Map location: - 

https://www.streetdirectory.com/sg/hdb-coral-vale/413a-fernvale-link-791413/44196_130196.html

$950 per month for 1 pax.   

Including Fan, wi-fi, air-con, bed, build-in wardrobe, heater and washing machine, all provided.

Available on 01/02/2026. 

Cooking and visitors allowed.

Prefer non-smoking and no pet.

Coffee shops, banks and supermarket are walking distance.

Easy access to Woodland, Ang Mo Kio, Buangkok, Serangoon, Lentor, and CBD areas.

Quiet & windy environment - suitable for those working or studying.

Kindly contact / WhatsApp @ 9185 6059 for viewing and asking for pictures. 

Many thanks!

A little about myself: I'm a person who gets genuine pleasure from simple yet meaningful things. I love cooking—for me, it's a way to show care and create a positive mood. I adore reading, because every book opens a new world and helps me see life more broadly. Sports have a special place in my day—it gives me energy, discipline, and inspiration to move forward.

I'm open to new connections and people who aren't afraid to be sincere. If something more develops between us, I'm all for it. I'd be happy to meet you, get to know you better, and see where our conversation can lead.

I'm looking for someone with whom I can start with a simple and sincere friendship and then see where our conversation leads—perhaps to something deeper. I want to try new things, get to know each other better, share thoughts, support each other, and feel a genuine connection between us.

I love cooking—for me, it's a way to take care of myself and create. I adore reading because books help me expand my horizons and find inspiration. Sports also play an important role in my life: they give me energy and help me maintain balance.

I want to meet someone with whom I can easily talk about everything, be myself, and open up gradually, without rushing or pressure. If you, too, are looking for genuine communication and are ready to try something new, I'd be happy to meet you and get to know you better.

---the randomness of life

---that everything is temporary 

and unfairness is part of life.

But don't let that define who you are, what you believe in and what you stand for. Not everything is what it seems just because everyone believes it. Authenticity isn't about being the person others say you are but by you simply being you. :)

I've been in this site for almost 10 years. Have not found my person yet but found lots of scammers here and this is how I identify them:

Profile:

• Relatively new account: Usually scammers won't use an account that is more than 3 months old
• 3 pictures or less: Since they might use someone's picture on internet that hard to reverse search so usually they only put 3 pictures
• No friends
• Either empty profile or the profile has repeated word honesty, loyalty, trustworthy (just get a pet if you're looking for this)

If you are scammers and read this please put more efforts!

A myth that alcohol induced facial redness is considered a sign of good blood circulation. I'm baffled that people comment on this and believe it to be true when they see me red faced after a few drinks. In fact, it is the opposite of a positive compliment. 

It is actually a genetic inability to metobolize the alcohol, causing a build up of toxics in the body and resulting in the flush. If you experience symptoms like nausea, headache, fast heartbeat, it may indicate a deficency in the enzymns that break down the alcohol to less toxic compounds. Frequent alcohol consumption in this state can increase the risk of certain cancers. Unfortunately, a larger percentage to Asian have this genetic trait. Let's not mistake this face flush as a sign to drink more! Drink in moderation.

So, what's next?