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ziggykid - 10个小时前

I really don't know why things always turn out this way... my life is cursed...

No matter how much effort I put into things, no matter how hard I try, I am always the one with a broken heart.


"All Healing is Based on Love"

Carie2311 - 6天内

A wise lady. Hope it touches the heart of those who view this.

The 5 Ls
Life & Love
Without life, there is nothing until love softens the shell and seed opens up & growth.
Life & love are one unit and they work together.

Laughter without love is mean & cruel.
Laughter with love, is Joy & Happiness.

Labor without love is drudgery.
Labor with love is Bliss.

Listening without love is empty sound.
Listening with love is Understanding.

Love flows and love have to keep flowing or it dies.
Love is what really matters. When you get down to the basic central aspect of what healing is all about, it's about Love & Life. 



nobusik - 3个星期前



nobusik - 3个星期前



Dreamt about my crush

mackoh - 4个星期前

Last night, I dreamt about my crush 

I guess I do still like her and miss her


I was drunk.

zzmm123 - 一个月前




lp320 - 一个月前







Art of letting go.

piano_lov3r - 一个月前

Learning to let go. Learning to be strong with my fainted heart. 

Need to learn to accept what is gone.

Your just a pcs of choice for other ppl..


April 3, 2024

chanon333 - 一个月前

Life has come to such a point that partying is not what I need. Occasional small gatherings are nice but no drinking nor smoking. Evern without that, life already installed so much illnesses for you. sigh.. you cannot really run away from illnesses... it is the karma that you need to have your own taste of your own medicine (somewhere in time, I must have done that to someone).

Anyway, happiness in life comes with the right company and enjoying the simplicity of things around you. Cherished those who loves you and makes you happy, and keep away from toxic people, if you can avoid them (not all can you get away from them).

Just live, work and practice, until the last days of life. Give loves to those who really needs. (not easy though)

There is so much definition to a "good soul".



Penang, Penang I want More of You...Haha!

Crazilicious - 2个月前

Took a short trip to Penang and I basked happily in the culture she emanated.

Penang has a vibrant food culture lined along streets and alleyways amidst pre-war homes in charming Georgetown. Is so pretty and quaint. 

The town is painted in vintage hues with bursts of Hipster middle tones. There is the old and new mingling in sync with warmth, passion, creativity, entrepreneur ship and identity. The locals are humble, kind and friendly. I must applaud Penang cuisine as being Wow! 

Penang has clean streets and is safe...so don't worry but enjoy her alluring charms and enticing tastes when you visit.

Thanks for overwhelming me Penang with your beauty, inside out.

P.S. Their prices are the same for locals and tourists.




Crazilicious - 2个月前

I have not written for awhile and my mind is sleeplessly tossing and turning, eager to pen again. I thought I will delve into the Toxic Persona. How she has Tortured many mercilessly without any conscience or guilt. I will give it a go...haha. 


Wen nothing's changed

IceWorks - 2个月前

my last post back in 2017 was about you..

In a blink of an eye, the chapter still ends with you...

this time with a little more memories of your elusive soul I was never told. 

I hold dear the brightest smiles, warmest hugs that once engulf my soul.



Carie2311 - 2个月前

Am grateful for a lot of things.
I always believed that everything happens for a reason.
Was stressed at first, when mom insisted on adopting a dog (Year 2017) but shortly after that, you were diagnosed with cancer. I then lose a relationship after that. But we persevered and learned to love and accept it as it is. We gone through hardships together, step by step, day by day. Those are the precious memories we created and will forever be remembered and cherished. 
It was the most difficult time in my life, having to go through multiple heartbreaks while being a caretaker for the whole household. It was super tough but we pushed on.
Will forever remember the promise I made to you before you left us. One is that i will take good care of dad. Another is that I will be with someone who cherished me as much as i cherish her. Good news, Dad has learned to be more expressive and decisive. Am sure you are watching us from up above.
Hershey is considered to belong to you but as a family dog, she is very attached to me. She is very obedient as always. A few times it crossed my mind, that I hope I live longer than Hershey. Could not imagine how she would be without me. 

Am very grateful that you guys accept me for who I am and accept my partner (whoever I brought home in the past). Thank you for offering them the same love you gave me. Grateful for being brought up in loving environment. Most important for us in life is peaceful love. 

Grateful to have quality friends who puts in effort and finds the time to meet up a few times a year. Everybody is "busy" with our own things but it is a great feeling knowing each of us sincerely arrange to meet up. Not forcing to meet up but sincerely make time wanting to meet up although we are "busy". That is the beauty of true friendship. Grateful to be surrounded by humble people, where we just chat about simple things including how to be frugal and maximize savings.
Hope we continue to cherish each other and make good memories together.
Hope we continue to respect each other without comparing or look down/put down anyone. We don't need each other to be rich to be amazing. We are amazing just the way we are.


Everything in life is led by love

Carie2311 - 2个月前

If you ever feel lost, if people you care about putting you down, spiritually, mentally abusing/bullying you, remember; that you are NOT unworthy. You are NOT insignificant. Know this; those who makes you feel this low and unworthy, may be "smart/rich/talented" (whatever reason you are attracted to them) but it's not worth risking away your self-worth & your self-esteem for them. 
They will always doubt your intentions. Everything you say or do is always wrong to them because they do not know how to love and cherish you. They may judge that you do not know how to accept others but in reality they do not see themselves being mean to you. In fact, they are not bothered even if they know it. Their inability to love you, has nothing to do with you.

You are not anyone else's back-up plan. You are worth more than being their second/last choice. You can't force yourself to stop caring for someone, but you can tell yourself that you deserve better. Never settle to be anyone's second best. Raise your standards and choose to be with someone who will treat you with the same respect and consideration you would treat them. You can't expect to be someone else's priority if you are not prioritizing yourself first.

Be a true friend before you can be anything else. What goes around, always comes around. How you treat others, comes back to you through other ways. If you take what you experience and carry them as a trauma, it will eventually turn you into a cold person and incapable of love. Whereas if you carry the past experience as lessons, you may be a more warm, kind and loving person. 
Someday you will learn to trust, learn to accept love and not fear it and not hide from it. You will be more open to express how you feel and have a proper conversation without being confrontational.

If you are a happier and better person (kinder, warmer, empathethic) being with a certain person, that is when you know you are being around the right people.
Everything is build from reciprocity. Learn to give and you will receive greater things.   

At the end of the day, what is important and leaves a mark in people's heart, is L.O.VE.
Love yourself.
Love your partner & family. 
Because everything in life, is led by love. 


My love, take good care.

Carie2311 - 2个月前

In different stage of life, us girls, women, goes through stages or hormonal change. 
I guess the one to understand us most is our women friends and partners.
Please not forget to be patient & supportive when your partner is throwing tantrum like a child, if she is being super sensitive and even lash out at you for something trivial. It's most likely the hormones (menopause) and other matters in her life that bothers her. Please love her and treat her well.
As for the one facing the hormone issues, please take good care of yourselves, please slow down and do daily reflections. Do not blame yourself too much on the uncontrolled emotions and your actions towards your partner/friends.

Life is short and time does not stop for us. Love yourself, show proper love to people you love and be grateful they love you back unconditionally. 
Keep close, those who treat you right, those who listens and understands. Those who are willing to learn to love and understand you, those who chose to stay. Those who are sad when you are, those who are happy to see you happy, those who always lifting you up.
Let go of those who does the opposite and those who are toxic. Love yourself and trust that you deserve love. Only then you are able to see with your heart and realize and grateful there are genuine people right beside you. Those who truly love you, will be happy for you in finding genuine love.



prettysilly - 2个月前






Listen to understand

Carie2311 - 2个月前

A lot of us tends to get lost in daily conversations with friends and families. The fun of having interactions and sharing informations and feelings. Most common mistake we did is hearing to answer instead of listening to understand. Sometimes wanting to be right is tempting when replying. Needs a wiser person to be able to stay calm, listen carefully and understanding the feelings of the person sharing the information. Not everthing is about right or wrong, most important is being understanding.

Lastly, nobody is smarter or richer than the other (in a way). Respect others' feelings, career, background, etc.


Time is precious

Carie2311 - 2个月前

TIME...TIME is precious to each and everyone of us. Most of us lost in the everyday life, neglected the fact that we need to view and feel certain things with the heart. Not just with the plain sight.

Some tend to think others are "too free" as they think/feel they are the only person focusing on their life and career with no time to spare. Before judging others, try to "understand" and view from the heart. Some of these people are multi-taskers with big heart. They could be empathetic and still care about other people or tasks even when they are busy with their own shit. People make time instead of making excuses, to do things that matters to them. You matter to them as they made time for you. 



nobusik - 2个月前












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nobusik - 2个月前


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